God love 'em! I love the female form - boobs; round hips and bouncy butts; legs; curves, smooth flesh. What could be more adorably appealing than a woman in her physical prime?
Most women choose clothing that accentuates their form. A lawyer in a tight pencil skirt that hugs her ass. Skirts and shorts that reveal lovely legs. Bras and tops that accentuate their breasts. Cinched waist bands that accentuate the curve of their hips. What's the problem?
Okay, there is such a thing as bad taste in clothing that looks low-class and trashy. But it's about the clothes, not how much they reveal.
And what could be more revealing yet absolutely adorable as bikinis? Girls rollerskating in bikinis on the beach boardwalk are a gift. Yeah, they might get a thrill from showing off what they got and getting looks from guys. But they aren't saying "I'm a hooker". They're just celebrating their youth and fitness as they should.
I don't think women should be ashamed of their looks. Even married woman and those with boyfriends can celebrate their loveliness. And so what if single girls are looking for attention?
I view women in the same way I view art, flowers, landscapes and anything else that is delightful to the eye. Just because a women is gorgeous doesn't mean that I want to possess her. I can simply admire with gratitude. It makes me glad to have eyes and to be alive.
I don't denigrate women who are proud of their femininity, sexiness, muliebrity and juiciness. It's not my job to get inside their heads, make assumptions about them or judge. People who do denigrate them make me sick.
I also admire women who have strong libidos, love sexual pleasure, understand the power of their bodies, and aren't sexually inhibited. What's better than a women who loves sex? That doesn't necessarily mean that she wants to be a cum dump for everything in sight. She may very well have healthy values. She may be saying that her man is a lucky motherfucker and every other guy can eat his heart out.
my thoughts as well, "God bless them". In particular, I have enjoyed the prevalence of the form revealing leggings. It seems any woman is comfortable wearing these, since all the other women are, and they leave about 5% to the imagination, which is fantastic. They're practically naked for all intents and purposes, and it's a thing of beauty.
I can already smell the comments coming saying "We don't dress for men! We dress only for ourselves!".
The reality is, they dress for attention/validation. These are often the women with self-esteem. That they need constant validation from other people, especially men in order to feel wanted/sexy. Just knowing men are staring at her is enough to give her that dopamine boost.
So while they claim they do it for themselves, what they don't tell you is that they want the self-esteem boost for themselves and try to downplay the fact that they do so via the validation of men and competing against other women. The majority of times they get mad is because the dude who checks her out happens not to be attractive to them. But when that that tall stud with the nice jawline and aesthetic body starts to check them out, sparkles everywhere.
These are often the women who complain the MOST about objectification and catcalling. And from my experience, these are usually the women who have NOTHING else to offer society or a relationship other than their looks.
Nailed it. I love it when they use the excuse of "we dress for ourselves". Yeah right.
So I dress in whatever I feel like and whatever is appropriate for the time. Sometimes that's completely modest. For example, at work I make sure to never show any cleavage, wear mini skirts or any kind, etc. That's completely unprofessional. However, in other situations I'm certainly willing to sometimes wear things that may be a bit more revealing. However, it's rarely because I'm trying to get attention. I just dress with what I'm comfortable in and what's appropriate. Sometimes that may show a bit more skin. I get that I'm going to get some looks because of that, but I'm fine with that. If a guy (or girl) is creepy that's his (/her) fault, not mine. Moreover, I think women with larger breasts (such as myself) are often considered to be 'purposefully dressing provocatively' because we have larger boobs. If a woman with smaller boobs wore the exact same outfit no one would think twice about it.
The only time I purposefully dress to be "provocative" is if I'm trying to be proactive for my boyfriend. For example, when my boyfriend and I went to the beach I wore a thong bikini specifically because I knew he'd find it sexy. I knew I was going to get a lot of heads turn, but I didn't wear it for anyone other than my boyfriend. Moreover, I don't normally wear clothing that revealing, even to the beach. If my daughters had been with me (which they weren't at this time) I would have worn a normal two piece bikini that covered my entire butt.
Since you have a boyfriend this question doesn't really apply to you. My only question is, your boyfriend only gets excited if you wear a string bikini in front of other people?
He gets excited whenever I wear one. Whether it's in front of other people or not is irrelevant to that. Haha
I've been told I dress to provocatively, especially when showing cleavage... As if big boobs shouldn't be allowed to breathe. I like to dress comfortable. Sometimes that comfortable is fully covered like a nun. Some other times it's wearing a low cut top and a mini skirt. I'm well aware of the attention I get while doing it. I'm not blind to the consequences. But neither am I gonna stop dressing the way I like because some people get distracted or think it's immoral. If my partner doesn't complain when I'm out and about, then I'm perfectly ok
I assume the drastic change of clothing is probably due to change of temperature.
also mini skirt is the most useless clothing ever invented. At least it is probably more comfortable/practical than a sarong.
Sarongs are very comfortable too. Also right in temp changes. I do like my skin to breathe. And in the winter, I like to feel like I live in a volcano
To me the comfortably between sarong and a pant is the same. I mainly hate sarong because they are impractical and reduce my ability to move.
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They do it for the attention of both genders, to piss off women and to c*cktease guys. Then they act like (unattractive) men aren't allowed to look at them and that men don't have autonomy over their own eyes.
I actually knew this awful, piece of sh*t student who used to do this back when I was in college. She would dress in loose clothing like cleavage tops with exposed midriffs and short skirts, even in Winter, and then act like any man who even took a one-second glance was "objectifying her" and would make a big deal out of it. I had long since got tired of women like this though, and didn't put up with her sh*t. That's what men need to do anytime a woman complains like this.
Women know damn well they can dress however they want, but going out half-naked is going to draw male attention, including the men you DON'T want as well as the "hot guys." Sure, it's over the line if they start following you home or making lewd comments, but men are allowed to have eyesight. And like I said, I'm beyond letting women talk a bunch of retarded feminist sh*t if they're going to be dressed like that in public.
those aren't even the girls that grab my attention. They are invisible to me and yes I am perfectly straight. But only women with class catch my eye and doing that is not classy. Not one bit. I'll be looking at the girls like this:
Girls say that they feel strong and empowered by wearing less. To me a strong and empowered woman knows her worth and the power she wields and doesn't need to flaunt it to those she's not in a relationship with. She uses her wit and her personality to garner admiration and attention. She has men hanging on her words and her touch moves him. That's the woman with true power.
Some do it because they're narcissists. They're so obsessed with their bodies because they work out that they feel the need to show it off to the world.
Others do it in order to tease. They like the power they have with their bodies being on display.
Some do it to fit in. Crop tops are everywhere these days. So, girls wear it just because their friends do too. Younger teen girls are kinda like sheep. Right now crop tops paired with gray sweatpants and white sneakers are "in" so all the girls are doing it.
Yes and no. The picture there is someone sunbathing and so likely a no.
But in general, people who dress 'provocatively' are aware that they do. That also means they are reasonably aware of what responses it will have. And realistically they want one or multiple of those. The go-to explanation of doing it because you personally like the clothes and style is of course fair. However in that case you are still aware of the other effects.
So based on most people being smart enough to understand what other people will think of them, it is to illicit some sort of response. Absolutely does not have to just be teasing.
Wow nice ass, I mean she has to want it seen right? Obviously it makes her feel good about herself, she's getting something out it that makes her feel good about herself. Women don't do that if makes then feel bad or poorly.
I would not say she's doing to provoke men, but I wouldn't date a girl like that. But I'd bang her. If she's putting herself out there like that, then I do appreciate it sexually, and would not discourage it... but guys know she's either a tease, or she needs or wants the attention to make herself feel better.
But dang, thats a nice ass.
And if you went up to her to say hi and maybe compliment her ass she would call you a stalker I bet. She just wants people to admire her ass but it's hands off all the way.
it depends on how you deliver the message. ;)
confidence and conviction... and eye contact. heheh
Nah, the opposite. They dress like no one is watching.
Seriously though. You'd be surprised how many people dress like it "doesn't matter" but get all defensive about consequences.
It's freedom of expression for everyone, not just people like you.
BOOM! Finally that someone said the very truth these people do not want to admit. It doesn't strike me as a surprise that those who complain the most about the consequences are the very ones who often dress like sluts. It's like I flash a Rolex in a ghetto and then complain that people are attempting to mug me.
I can't speak for girls in general but as someone who takes care of his own image I do it for myself attention has nothing to do with it you can notice me or not it doesn't change anything my friends dress down sometimes and tell me "why do you put so much effort no one cares" my answer is always that "I care".
And while I'm sure not all women think the same thing it's a safe bet to assume a few of them do
That's the thought since what other reason can one have to dress up in a way that provokes glares to stick to your form?
Yet again, some people are so in love with themselves, that they might have done it to tickle their own ego.
In these days and age though, I'd not give particular attention to girls in sexy attire, as many issues came for us men lately because of mentally unstable skanks who dress up like harlots then sue you for stalking for a comment.
Their just so intitled from all the easy attention they get its not even funny, they life in a completely different world outside reality.
I don't know if they are trying to tease, get attention they don't want, enjoy the ego boost they get from constantly rejecting people, or if they are really so clueless as to how they bring the attention on themselves.
All I know is how ever you slice it girls like that are nothing but trouble, weither they are manipulating or just dumb.
If I dress sexy it's to feel good and give myself confidence and not for the guys. Of course it also attracts attention from guys and if I'm honest maybe that also helps boosting confidence but you show with your actions if you're interested in someone and not by how you dress. Showing a bit more skin says nothing about dating intentions and is not a free pass for anyone to hit on you.
Speaking of free passes to be hit on, I find it funny I've NEVER been hit on at a nude beach or camp. Just thought of that when reading your response
@Sirenboobzilla That's because you leave nothing to the imagination there. What is sexier to most men, a woman in lingerie or one totally naked?
That makes me wanna go even more. I can be nude AND not be sexualized? That's heaven to me. I'm not out to impress every guy around me. Your comment says to me that I have to wrap myself in a pretty bow to be appealing to people, and that just doesn't do it for me. Now, do I dress provocatively to look sexy and get some attention? Yeah, on occasion. What girl doesn't? Do I do it often? Nah. Most of the time I dress revealingly I'm literally just letting my skin breathe.
@Sirenboobzilla Well let it breathe on the weekends.
I used to know these 2 women when I was younger. Both were like a DDD. They would go out with me dressed provocatively. One time, they were flashing truck drivers. We were having fun. I’ve done it myself. Wore tight pants and you can see my penis running down my leg.
I’ve only knew a couple women that dressed like such and were teases. Low self esteem, needs constant praise, egotistical.
Some women do love just to tease men, but if you ask them, they'll tell you "I dress for myself". To me, that translates into a lot of possible reasons for dressing provocatively, and they're all fine. It's just funny to hear some women's explanations when you know they're in denial about the "real" reasons. Bottom line for me - I don't care WHY you do it, I like to see it. If you put it out there, I'm going to look.
I dont know if the second part of your question is correct, the no real intention part, they definitely want someone. They do it for attention though. its a confidence boost. Interestingly the same women that dress like that are the same ones that get pissed off if you objectify them.. If they treat them selves as an object, and act as one, it should be no surprise that they get treated like one.
We like to look pretty sometimes. Guys aren't entitled to us we aren't "Tempting them" we are looking beautiful and if we are in the mood we can have action.
I mean yes we also we like to get laid too but we fully intend to just go through with it... if we like the guy.
Yes I think so and the best way to get them interested in you is don't pay them any attention just ignore them and it seems to piss them off and I found in my experience is that they wonder what is wrong with them and most of the time you are the one taking them home
If this is their plan, it utterly fails on me :)
I do have an attention span for such outfits; but it's extremely short.
Wait? "It's short"? What part of you are you talking about?
My attention span is short :D
It really just looks even less attractive. To be brutally honest. At a certain point its like just go full nude.
Nice pic!
I think a lot of women do it for validation and attention. It's kind of like a power-trip to them. Some women are insecure and the have low self esteem so they kind of get off on that.
They know they are physically attractive and flaunt it. Maybe they are sex driven. They won't attract a good guy because he will think the worse.
I bet you look like that , is that really you?
No her ass looks much better than mine.
How would you know that?
May be they like the attention.
I don’t think it’s right to use the term provocative. You could use the term inappropriate dressing sense. Modesty is obviously very important.
Dressing appropriately shows maturity.
Also, if one is dressing up to impress guys, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. They like the attention & validation. What’s not right is catcalling her for that
Catcalling is never okay. At the same time, we aren't living in a utopia. So despite catcalling happening regardless of what someone wears, it isn't rocket science to understand that dressing like an escort will increase the odds of getting catcalled and objectified. My girlfriend dresses modestly and still has to deal with catcalling now and then whenever I'm not around. But the majority of the complaints often come from women who do dress inappropriately. I believe it is our responsibility to minimize the odds of unwanted attention. So for a woman, it would be not to dress inappropriately if she wants to minimize the frequency of her being catcalled.
Damn cat calling would have been preferred to what happened to me in high school! No joke these girls really wanted some Italian sausage! Grabbing my junk, ass, nipples, all kinds of stuff. Women can be just as if not more sexually aggressive at times. Two girls swore up and down they would have my kid before senior year. 🙄 It was so cringe and really upset me. So actually I know what it's like to be objectified and it absolutely sucks!
@t-8900 I could swear that most guys would have loved to be in your position.
@t-8900 I figured.
I grew up nudist. In the nudist community sex and nudity are completely different. Our problem is societies views making sex and nudity the forbidden fruit. We must change our views!
That wasn't the question.
Many times yes. not necessarily from males.
Stanton seeking is big amongst a lot of female's to bost their value selfasteam and confidence. unfortunately it external ( artificial )
The more provocative they dress... the more I ignore them. I see it as a form of vampirism where they are trying to steal my energy in order to 'power' their ego.
You pretty much answered your own question there, yes these kinds of provocative photos tempt men and they go for these girls with no intentions of dating them.
Yes, they crave validation. There are countless vids of girls admitting to this online.
Some happen to dress like that because it is their style and feel comfortable like that. And others are in to attract guys towards them hence dressing like that for attention.
Sure, prostitutes do that. Or are you talking regular girls?
Pretty much. I mean they may want a guy deep down. But their view of "love" and "partnership" is completely twisted. Most who behave in this manor will NEVER have a healthy relationship if they try.
The majority (50.1+%) are probably just out for kicks, sure.
Nice pic, by the way. Good definition.
I try to keep an open mind. However you have made some good musical choices as of late.
Why are women still judging other women for what they chose to wear... Why do people date when they have not intention of marring the person they are dating?
Because some men think all women are Ho's so dressing in the way of a Ho just reinforces this judgement. Just as all women don't dress in trashy clothes not all women are Ho's. But if you are not one why advertise like you are one? What ever happened to classy fashions?
Ask the men…
It's gay men designers that are making these revealing clothes. Just watch Project Runway sometime and see what they are designing.
Yea of course they boost their self confidence with crap like that.
Some do and some don't. I find the ones who don't, stupid and they deserve it if men bother them. What do they expect? Not look at their butts or tits that are hanging out?
I think they do this to tease guys just to see how they act
some guys will fall for it while others just go about their
business
You know I think the same way. I bet they do that. Just to be a dick tease
Most girls dress to get as much sexual attention as possible but want to have the ability to pick and choose who it comes from.
I know right.
My girlfriend told me, some girls definitely do it to seduce guys, but some girls also do it to look superior from other girls. They want to impress other girls.
That proves most girls are undoubtedly bi sexual
i get what ya sain maa'm but that's false the doin it for attention part is true if ya dont freely validate women when they do that ya exactly gotta shot with em also they save dressin provocatively for guys they're actually sexually attracted to
It depends. Sometimes they do it because they have a personality disorder, sometimes just for fun, sometimes to get fucked, and sometimes to get fucked for money.
Well i think that is the point to tempt guys. but i have had no reason to dress that way in awhile
Yeah, its mostly the young ones that are the tease like that
Sure looks that way, doesn't it? YOU'RE a member of the club! YOU tell US!!
That’s Creed Bratton on the top left. I forgot what we were talking about. What’s the question again?
I think girls are competing with each other. It could be for male attention but it could also just be for societal status or whatever.
Sometimes. But you can't read their minds, it could be for any reason.
I think so. I feel like a part of it, is to flex on other females their assets
Depends on the girl and what's she's thinking at the time I suppose. All I know it drives me nuts and I try to avoid girls like that.
Could be, they are also usually the center of attention. They like attention.
Of course we do, but there is a time and place for everything.
Lots of women that look like that are looking for sex.
Could well be
I agree, but it's nice to look at, lol
It's about getting attention.
I just assume she a hoe and keep it moving
Probably for attention or just don’t care
Sure they do, they are trying to attract
They're exhibitionists. I have no objection to it.
Some do, some don't. Humans are complex beings.
Due to their low character.
Some people are just proud of their body.
And pride goes before a fall.
Many people are proud of their bodies but don't feel the need to show off to the world and then complain about unwanted attention. Needing to show off is a sign of insecurity.
i think so... or is it some kind of narcissism
They do it for attention
Such girls are inviting guys for sex
Ya think?
It looks like her boobs are on her stomach
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