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God love 'em! I love the female form - boobs; round hips and bouncy butts; legs; curves, smooth flesh. What could be more adorably appealing than a woman in her physical prime?
Most women choose clothing that accentuates their form. A lawyer in a tight pencil skirt that hugs her ass. Skirts and shorts that reveal lovely legs. Bras and tops that accentuate their breasts. Cinched waist bands that accentuate the curve of their hips. What's the problem?
Okay, there is such a thing as bad taste in clothing that looks low-class and trashy. But it's about the clothes, not how much they reveal.
And what could be more revealing yet absolutely adorable as bikinis? Girls rollerskating in bikinis on the beach boardwalk are a gift. Yeah, they might get a thrill from showing off what they got and getting looks from guys. But they aren't saying "I'm a hooker". They're just celebrating their youth and fitness as they should.
I don't think women should be ashamed of their looks. Even married woman and those with boyfriends can celebrate their loveliness. And so what if single girls are looking for attention?
I view women in the same way I view art, flowers, landscapes and anything else that is delightful to the eye. Just because a women is gorgeous doesn't mean that I want to possess her. I can simply admire with gratitude. It makes me glad to have eyes and to be alive.
I don't denigrate women who are proud of their femininity, sexiness, muliebrity and juiciness. It's not my job to get inside their heads, make assumptions about them or judge. People who do denigrate them make me sick.
I also admire women who have strong libidos, love sexual pleasure, understand the power of their bodies, and aren't sexually inhibited. What's better than a women who loves sex? That doesn't necessarily mean that she wants to be a cum dump for everything in sight. She may very well have healthy values. She may be saying that her man is a lucky motherfucker and every other guy can eat his heart out.
I can already smell the comments coming saying "We don't dress for men! We dress only for ourselves!".
The reality is, they dress for attention/validation. These are often the women with self-esteem. That they need constant validation from other people, especially men in order to feel wanted/sexy. Just knowing men are staring at her is enough to give her that dopamine boost.
So while they claim they do it for themselves, what they don't tell you is that they want the self-esteem boost for themselves and try to downplay the fact that they do so via the validation of men and competing against other women. The majority of times they get mad is because the dude who checks her out happens not to be attractive to them. But when that that tall stud with the nice jawline and aesthetic body starts to check them out, sparkles everywhere.
These are often the women who complain the MOST about objectification and catcalling. And from my experience, these are usually the women who have NOTHING else to offer society or a relationship other than their looks.
So I dress in whatever I feel like and whatever is appropriate for the time. Sometimes that's completely modest. For example, at work I make sure to never show any cleavage, wear mini skirts or any kind, etc. That's completely unprofessional. However, in other situations I'm certainly willing to sometimes wear things that may be a bit more revealing. However, it's rarely because I'm trying to get attention. I just dress with what I'm comfortable in and what's appropriate. Sometimes that may show a bit more skin. I get that I'm going to get some looks because of that, but I'm fine with that. If a guy (or girl) is creepy that's his (/her) fault, not mine. Moreover, I think women with larger breasts (such as myself) are often considered to be 'purposefully dressing provocatively' because we have larger boobs. If a woman with smaller boobs wore the exact same outfit no one would think twice about it.
The only time I purposefully dress to be "provocative" is if I'm trying to be proactive for my boyfriend. For example, when my boyfriend and I went to the beach I wore a thong bikini specifically because I knew he'd find it sexy. I knew I was going to get a lot of heads turn, but I didn't wear it for anyone other than my boyfriend. Moreover, I don't normally wear clothing that revealing, even to the beach. If my daughters had been with me (which they weren't at this time) I would have worn a normal two piece bikini that covered my entire butt.
I've been told I dress to provocatively, especially when showing cleavage... As if big boobs shouldn't be allowed to breathe. I like to dress comfortable. Sometimes that comfortable is fully covered like a nun. Some other times it's wearing a low cut top and a mini skirt. I'm well aware of the attention I get while doing it. I'm not blind to the consequences. But neither am I gonna stop dressing the way I like because some people get distracted or think it's immoral. If my partner doesn't complain when I'm out and about, then I'm perfectly ok
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They do it for the attention of both genders, to piss off women and to c*cktease guys. Then they act like (unattractive) men aren't allowed to look at them and that men don't have autonomy over their own eyes.
I actually knew this awful, piece of sh*t student who used to do this back when I was in college. She would dress in loose clothing like cleavage tops with exposed midriffs and short skirts, even in Winter, and then act like any man who even took a one-second glance was "objectifying her" and would make a big deal out of it. I had long since got tired of women like this though, and didn't put up with her sh*t. That's what men need to do anytime a woman complains like this.
Women know damn well they can dress however they want, but going out half-naked is going to draw male attention, including the men you DON'T want as well as the "hot guys." Sure, it's over the line if they start following you home or making lewd comments, but men are allowed to have eyesight. And like I said, I'm beyond letting women talk a bunch of retarded feminist sh*t if they're going to be dressed like that in public.
those aren't even the girls that grab my attention. They are invisible to me and yes I am perfectly straight. But only women with class catch my eye and doing that is not classy. Not one bit. I'll be looking at the girls like this:
Girls say that they feel strong and empowered by wearing less. To me a strong and empowered woman knows her worth and the power she wields and doesn't need to flaunt it to those she's not in a relationship with. She uses her wit and her personality to garner admiration and attention. She has men hanging on her words and her touch moves him. That's the woman with true power.
Some do it because they're narcissists. They're so obsessed with their bodies because they work out that they feel the need to show it off to the world.
Others do it in order to tease. They like the power they have with their bodies being on display.
Some do it to fit in. Crop tops are everywhere these days. So, girls wear it just because their friends do too. Younger teen girls are kinda like sheep. Right now crop tops paired with gray sweatpants and white sneakers are "in" so all the girls are doing it.
Yes and no. The picture there is someone sunbathing and so likely a no.
But in general, people who dress 'provocatively' are aware that they do. That also means they are reasonably aware of what responses it will have. And realistically they want one or multiple of those. The go-to explanation of doing it because you personally like the clothes and style is of course fair. However in that case you are still aware of the other effects.
So based on most people being smart enough to understand what other people will think of them, it is to illicit some sort of response. Absolutely does not have to just be teasing.
Wow nice ass, I mean she has to want it seen right? Obviously it makes her feel good about herself, she's getting something out it that makes her feel good about herself. Women don't do that if makes then feel bad or poorly.
I would not say she's doing to provoke men, but I wouldn't date a girl like that. But I'd bang her. If she's putting herself out there like that, then I do appreciate it sexually, and would not discourage it... but guys know she's either a tease, or she needs or wants the attention to make herself feel better.
But dang, thats a nice ass.
Nah, the opposite. They dress like no one is watching.
Seriously though. You'd be surprised how many people dress like it "doesn't matter" but get all defensive about consequences.
It's freedom of expression for everyone, not just people like you.
I can't speak for girls in general but as someone who takes care of his own image I do it for myself attention has nothing to do with it you can notice me or not it doesn't change anything my friends dress down sometimes and tell me "why do you put so much effort no one cares" my answer is always that "I care".
And while I'm sure not all women think the same thing it's a safe bet to assume a few of them do
That's the thought since what other reason can one have to dress up in a way that provokes glares to stick to your form?
Yet again, some people are so in love with themselves, that they might have done it to tickle their own ego.
In these days and age though, I'd not give particular attention to girls in sexy attire, as many issues came for us men lately because of mentally unstable skanks who dress up like harlots then sue you for stalking for a comment.
Their just so intitled from all the easy attention they get its not even funny, they life in a completely different world outside reality.
I don't know if they are trying to tease, get attention they don't want, enjoy the ego boost they get from constantly rejecting people, or if they are really so clueless as to how they bring the attention on themselves.
All I know is how ever you slice it girls like that are nothing but trouble, weither they are manipulating or just dumb.
I used to know these 2 women when I was younger. Both were like a DDD. They would go out with me dressed provocatively. One time, they were flashing truck drivers. We were having fun. I’ve done it myself. Wore tight pants and you can see my penis running down my leg.
I’ve only knew a couple women that dressed like such and were teases. Low self esteem, needs constant praise, egotistical.
I dont know if the second part of your question is correct, the no real intention part, they definitely want someone. They do it for attention though. its a confidence boost. Interestingly the same women that dress like that are the same ones that get pissed off if you objectify them.. If they treat them selves as an object, and act as one, it should be no surprise that they get treated like one.
If I dress sexy it's to feel good and give myself confidence and not for the guys. Of course it also attracts attention from guys and if I'm honest maybe that also helps boosting confidence but you show with your actions if you're interested in someone and not by how you dress. Showing a bit more skin says nothing about dating intentions and is not a free pass for anyone to hit on you.
Some women do love just to tease men, but if you ask them, they'll tell you "I dress for myself". To me, that translates into a lot of possible reasons for dressing provocatively, and they're all fine. It's just funny to hear some women's explanations when you know they're in denial about the "real" reasons. Bottom line for me - I don't care WHY you do it, I like to see it. If you put it out there, I'm going to look.
We like to look pretty sometimes. Guys aren't entitled to us we aren't "Tempting them" we are looking beautiful and if we are in the mood we can have action.
I mean yes we also we like to get laid too but we fully intend to just go through with it... if we like the guy.
Yes I think so and the best way to get them interested in you is don't pay them any attention just ignore them and it seems to piss them off and I found in my experience is that they wonder what is wrong with them and most of the time you are the one taking them home
If this is their plan, it utterly fails on me :)
I do have an attention span for such outfits; but it's extremely short.
It really just looks even less attractive. To be brutally honest. At a certain point its like just go full nude.
Nice pic!
I think a lot of women do it for validation and attention. It's kind of like a power-trip to them. Some women are insecure and the have low self esteem so they kind of get off on that.
They know they are physically attractive and flaunt it. Maybe they are sex driven. They won't attract a good guy because he will think the worse.
May be they like the attention.
I don’t think it’s right to use the term provocative. You could use the term inappropriate dressing sense. Modesty is obviously very important.
Dressing appropriately shows maturity.
Also, if one is dressing up to impress guys, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. They like the attention & validation. What’s not right is catcalling her for that
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