Who should make the first move [kissing], the guy or girl? [In a straight relationship]?

[shorty_samy]

Guy

Girl

It doesn't matter, whoever makes the first move is more comfortable doing so.

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[Slartybartfast]

It's no longer appropriate for a man to initiate sexual contact. In fact it's almost criminal, in some places like a university it can get you expelled or worse.

Even looking at a women (or trying to look past a women who is blocking your view) can get a man into trouble these days.

I'ts why so many men are avoiding women, let the sociopaths and players with STDs have them all. They never stop approaching and aren't concerned how a women feels, they don't care about anything but themselves which makes them successful with women.


So, if you're a man , you can ether, ignore the wishes and feelings of women and be successful with them
Or listen to what they say and be a good friend, just a good friend, who listens to them complaining that all men are players and sociopaths because that's the only ones still approaching anymore.

[andy530]

I don’t think it matters either can make the first move

[shorty_samy]

Same, I was just looking for opnions :)

[andy530]

I’m happy to share mine 😁 got any other questions you want options on?

[shorty_samy]

once i think of em, I'll be glad to hear from you :)

[loves2learn]

Should be sort of mutual. Ideally you would both lean in and meet each other in the middle. What do you think?

[Anonymous]

Girl should send the guy a 13 page form letter expressing her consent to be kissed by him first. Then the guy should send a 20 page letter accepting her consent and expressing his own. Both letters should then be notorized in the presence of both of them and their respective attorneys. Then a full page ad should be taken out in the local paper documenting the notorized letters. Upon delivery of the paper; is when they should kiss.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Being the romantic that I am, I never had a problem going in for the first kiss. Intimacy and desire has already been established at that point. Reading body language and the vibe is important as well.

[FinalFantasyBro]

Doesn't matter, if you like the person you should try to attempt to kiss the person. Of course be prepared if the guy or girl has some sort of reaction of you trying to give them a kiss though.

[boggboss]

Font think it matters the more confidant one I guess

[crmoore]

I don't think anyone "should" or "shouldn't," people should do what they want. But for me and my relationships, I intend to make the first move and I'd find it unattractive if she tried to.

[tripptt69]

I'd u don't try you never will get the girl (or guy) I personally love when a girl makes a move as I'm usually clueless to hints and flirts and unless I'm positive she interested I usually pussy out making a move

[moviedude714]

Doesn't matter who but it's normally always going to be the guy, because of fuckin' testosterone

[sixft4nnmore]

It's a good thing we dont wear lipstick you would be covered in it if we kissed first

[IHateBeingaMan]

doesn't matter but it will always be expected of the guy

[BarryLiverstone]

Have you kissed him yet?

[shorty_samy]

Yea, only when we're alone tho

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s a good start, is he a good kisser?

[shorty_samy]

Well, I've never had a "bad kiss"- so I think so? Tho I don't know what counts as a good kisser

[BarryLiverstone]

A good kisser is someone who gets passionate and while you kiss them it stimulates other body parts

[shorty_samy]

Well, we haven't gone very far with a small kiss saying goodbye- so I think he's just inexperienced

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh just a peck? Ya must not know how to make out

[BarryLiverstone]

Do you want him to kiss you more?

[jahaims]

Either