Guys do you think it should be males or females who should make the first move toward their crush?

[Mel2021]

Happy for guys and girls to answer by the way!

[NamerOfStars]

It should be whoever feels like it more. It *will*, by virtue of biological realities and social reinforcement, usually be the guy, but it doesn't have to be. A guy being hesitant or uncertain before things begin isn't necessarily a sign that he lacks all assertiveness and will never initiate anything; he's more likely just nervous and afraid of brutal rejection.

Few people will admit it, but if you just sit back and let people do what feels right and comes naturally, they'll generally hew pretty close to traditional gender roles. Few will match them absolutely, but most will deviate from them somewhat, sometimes. Obviously, with some it's more frequent, or to a greater degree, or both; with some it's less frequent, or to a lesser degree, or some combination thereof. If you view these things as DEscriptive, rather than PROscriptive, you'll get a better idea of people's desires and behavior, and have more fun besides.

[dolemite89]

i think the guy should be the one to approach a girl/ask her out but i think it’s really on the girl to make an effort to make it easy for him to ask u out if that makes sense.

[Mel2021]

Kinda I think that the girl needs to show signals as well to make it easier for the guy through that she is interested

[dolemite89]

exactly what i meant

[Helotome]

No Matter the gender. If you have a crush and they seem to crush on you back then goes for it. Rejection will not kill you or take a dollar of your bank account but it will save from wasting time for you crush to get another person other than you. Put yourself out and you may not know what you will get in the end of the road , maybe you will date your crush the next day.

[weysally]

what a lot of people need to do is listen to the seniors, they have some good advice, and sayings, one is this and one needs to think it through,
a man chases a woman until she catches him.
in other words men think they have done it all but in reality its the woman that has done it

[Anonymous]

Both. There is no valid reason in the world why women or men shouldn't approach the one they find attractive. Sadly, even in 2022, due to a combination of cowardice and entitlement, it's rare for a woman to approach a man she finds attractive. They just sit on their hands and hope the guy they like will notice them, which is crazy if you think about it because if he doesn't she'll never know what might have been.

If men didn't approach women the human race would have gone extinct long ago.

[melaniee789456123]

To be really straight forward here, it shouldn't matter at all. Female, male, non-binary, and anyone in between! Whoever makes the first move doesn't matter!

[FinalFantasyBro]

Making the first move honestly shouldn't be restricted to a gender of you are a guy or girl who are interested in someone you should at least try to get the guy or girl noticed you other wise you ain't going anywhere.

[UniquelyBasic]

I think it should be both. If you like the person then talk to them, no matter if your male or female.

[libsaretards]

Whoever has the guts to make the first move. My first true love made the first move.

[crossdressingrihno]

Given the political climate these days I'd probably say the females should

[bowenw]

It makes no difference.

[oldermale]

No reason stopping either sex asking first

[Qwerrtty]

Both