Can you be in love with two women at the same time?

[t-8900]

I only have one world that I live in and it's only so big. There is bit one center and that needs to be my SO. The other girls aren't a priority or on my radar. Love is proven through hardships endured. Lots of people spout their love but run off the moment things show any inkling of becoming difficult. I wonder how many people who are "in love" with two people will be able to stay by the side of the one going through chemo who can no longer walk or has an illness slowly killing them and keeping them bed ridden. Lots of talk in this life of ours. But few actions being done to show true intentions or affection.

[MJtheCoach]

I don’t know about love I remember I was dating two girls at the same time and honestly I don’t like it at all I didn’t want to bang one of them and she was like why don’t you want to have sex with me anymore blah blah blah I noticed I wasn’t touching her as much. I don’t know it’s weird you can’t have the same energy you could date different girls every week or every month but dating them the same time because problematic I don’t like it I don’t wanna do it anymore there’s always something about inside of me eating on my conscience

[Daniela1982]

Well if you can be in love with 2 men at the same time then why not?https://www.youtube.com/embed/xFB1yytGLRA

[Aerissa_Jade]

One can love more than one person at a time, one has to decide though who they want to be with.

[OlderAndWiser]

Doesn't "I love you" mean that I want to spend the rest of my life with you? I am not into polygamy so how could that possibly work?

[Wgatap999]

I personally know I cannot be in love with two women at the same time because when you're with one woman and you're just dating them getting to know them and then you show interest towards someone else it tends to push you towards the other person and not the one that you originally started talking to

[TheorionMage]

The key words in your question hold your own answer.
Being "in love with" betrays that is 'infatuation'...

There's something in the demeanor or behaviors of EACH
to which YOU find 'attractive; THAT given, and set aside,
which of the two do you find has OTHER attributes
YOU are willing to invest YOUR self,
to develop more than just a 'booty call'? ;)

[PenkWing]

I’m polyamorous. I know love for multiple partners is real. Being in love with only one person is what would feel weird to me. I don’t think gender plays a role. My partners are also polyam and love multiple partners. And it’s the same for gay and bisexual people. For me and for many of the people I’m lucky to have close, it’s real. The opposite would feel like jail.

[AncientWisdom]

Men evolved to be polygamous if you look at the biology of us. Monogamy benefits women it does not benefit men, because of the biological clock difference. This is simple evolution. It’s also very self explanatory if you study this as I do. I am seeing a phenomenon of role reversal in modern western society while interesting to observe , it’s very detrimental to evolved human nature and sexual evolution. Women evolved to be hypergamous, which is no where near monogamy either. So the result is all these unhappy people , and failed relationships , because modern society insists on demonizing natural human behavior. We are slaves to genetics our minds may want to change it but it cannot be changed in a small window of time caused by social constructs. It took eons of time to get here it will take many more before our story is over.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Can you only love one family member at the same time?
Can you only have one friend at the same time?

Romantic love is no different. I love many women, some long gone, others still around. It's why I repeat often that most humans aren't really monogamous.

[Ironic_Method]

Absolutely. There will be a ton of people who will tell you that it's not possible to love more than one partner even though it's objectively false.

For example can you love both your parents at the same time? Both your kids? Two of your favorite meals? Two of your favorite shows? Two hobbies? Two pets? Stands to believe you can love two partners as well... but I also understand that people sometimes want someone all to themselves, which is also valid.

[AydenHazor]

If you're talking the feeling of romantic love, you can absolutely feel it for multiple people, but it's the choice to act on the line for one of them and only one of them as your partner that sets apart a relationship. I also think we're too stingy with the weird love in English when we only apply it to romantic love, so I make sure my friends know that I love them, but that's a different rant altogether lol

[Wade12345]

Yes, but I only want one woman. I've been in a situation where I had crushes on more than one woman simultaneously. It's a very confusing situation to be in, believe me.

[Seangreen]

I don't believe that to be true and it's not the first one but the second one they're really in love with because if they were really in love with the first one they would have never fell for the second one and that's truth

[jshm2]

No. Only 4 or 6 at a time.

You've clearly never seen the posters on little boys rooms, have you?

[KieranByrne]

No, i can be 'In love' with one and be infactuated by another!
Being in love means I will spend my days and time with you!
Infactuated means I find your charm attractive!

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I can be in love with many women at same time but the degree of attraction and the reason would be different.

But can I stay with all of them fck no

[Anonymous]

I know from experience you 100% can love 2 people. I also am a loyal person. I have never cheated on anyone. I was in love with my ex and in love with my current. It is possible. Anyone who says no doesn't understand love.

[Bdsmaster]

Probably yes luv, love is a form of strong attraction to someone it can to more than one person at a time but it rarely happens cause if we are strongly attracted to someone we do not tend to look at someone else.

[DarkWinterNights]

People often mistake lust for love. They are very different. Love takes time, dedication, loyalty and hardships to form and grow.

[Anonymous]

Not likely. I would say if i'm interested in 2 women at the same time it's probably because I'm not in love with either of them yet. Because when I'm in love the volume gets turned down on all other women. It's not that they don't exist. It's more like they become a face in a crowd because they don't stand out like the one I love.

[Mangospacho]

If you’re in a relationship with someone you’re in love with and there’s another woman you’re in love with, then you weren’t in love with your woman you’re in a relationship in the first place.

[Jamie05rhs]

I can be interested in more than one at the same time, but I can't be in love with more than one. And when I'm in love, I stop being interested in the others.

[FilmGuy93]

Nah... and you wouldn't even want to be, honestly; not if these were genuine relationships. One woman is a handful, so two would be too much.