Was he trying gauge my interest in him?

[Anonymous]

Last time when we chatted it was late. We chatted till almost 1am.
Previously when we’ve chatted I’ve stopped reaponded to his texts after 11pm.

I asked him if he always goes to bed late which he said yes to. Then he playfully hinted that I’m staying up later than usual. Then I told him that I don’t have work the next day because I took day off from work.

then he was like ” I almost got worried that I had an effect on you with my bad example lol”

[Midori999]

He was being genuine when he said that. He really doesn't want you staying up to talk to him if you have work cause he doesn't want to ruin your sleeping cycle.

[Asker]

Well he’s the one who usually replies back to me on those hours lol. Also he asked me “aren’t you normally asleep by 11pm 👀🤔” with those suspicious emojis lol.

[Midori999]

omg. GURL. My guy gives me those damn eye emojis as well! LOL Sometimes I use them right back :)

It's like another way of staring at you (or what my guy said lol)

[Asker]

Why do they used that tho.. it’s like he’s accusing me of something.

[Midori999]

Girl... I wish I knew 😂 I kind of want to tell him to stop (and I did but he did it again).

[Asker]

So you don’t think this guy was fishing for validation?

[Midori999]

He could have been but he might have wanted to double check that you're not losing sleep

[Asker]

I’m a grown woman tho. Has he being caring then if he was worried about me getting no sleep or low key he didn’t want to text me 😳?

[Midori999]

You'll have to ask him lol