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The sad truth is that most guys will always meet more rejection than success.
They probably tried once and have relived the rejection everyday.
Tbh no. Hitting on girls as a guy is much more risky than the reversed.
its like on chat i am The Rock while face to face i am only rock
Yeah but I just end up looking like a clumsy weirdo lol. I do have a girlfriend now but she pretty much asked me out.
First, I don't wanna get beaten up by approaching a woman
Second, that woman would have no interest in me.
Ya it just took a lot of of practice to finally get comfortable.
And you were finally successful and was like ahhh… I got this”
Ya lots a times even made then gifts like necklaces but didn't understand the signs they may have been given me to say yay or nay.
Love me some shy guys
*blushes*
@Deserter being sarcastic?
Huh?
But I doubt you have ever approached a guy before
@moviedude714 🙄oh hun ofc I have. Otherwise I wouldn't be dating my boyfriend rn. 💀He was too shy to make a move so I did. 😏
Well God bless you for that
Ok, now both of you kiss 👁👄👁
How long have you both been together now
Why do I get the feeling this will always be extremely rare
I've had 2 girls ask me out, ine became a girlfriend, the other a friends with benefits
@moviedude714 we're about to make a year now
How did you and him meet
@TheLittleInnocent How do you feel about short guys?
@moviedude714 through a mutual friend. We were going to hang out and the mutual brought along some of his mates. One of them was my now boyfriend
@Deserter I'm short myself (5'0) so I don't mind as long as he's taller than me
Yes, the hurdles in this topic extend beyond shyness. There's a problem with the culture.
I don't want to have my freedom or my life put in danger just for approaching or talking to a woman I find attractive.
Probably more than you'd think, with mixed results.
Yep and for years have been met with constant rejection.
Act shy is good to get strong women until you get them to bed.
Yep. Catastrophe, each time. I'm not the kind who can approach women successfully.
I am such a man. I am afraid of approaching women. I've never tried.
I have tried but i get nervous because i worry i will get rejected
Approach a stranger? No thanks. That’s how you get accused of sexual assault.
Very well said
Oh yeah thatd be a good idea. Get registered as a sex offender.
Yes I hv tried talking to stranger girls I like bht it never go well... being an introvert I don't even hv much topics to talk about... also i get too nervous that's visible on my face..
Yea a handful of times, I just use dating apps now, a lot less stressful
I am rarely ever shy but I have been a few times, women laughed at me for it
I've tried, doesn't really work most the time. I just wait until she shows positive signs.
No I don’t, there’s no point. We know women want confident and good looking men… of which I am not one of those men. Sorry
Yeah and I've been successful but only when pushed by friends or with friends never on my own
I usually fail. I never really find a li k to connect and start a conversation on
I've tried once and she spit in my face and told me to kill myself
Classic🥲
Shy guys are beta males! Trust me ladies, you must avoid such men, instead go for a confident alpha or Sigma male.
No I haven’t. Fear of how they’ll perceive me as a creep or weirdo is hurtful. It’s best to forget they exist.
I think its difficult for guys
Unfortunately some women fake flirting just to reject us later. They like games
Yeah and I regret it.
This is whole life story till now...
I have a few times. They all rejected me.
Catcalls work really nicely
Yes, we are *Hides* * Shy*
Yes, everytime it gets 0.05%
Yes. What else did you want. to. know?
I tried. It turned out she was already taken.
They will be to shy to reply...
It’s hard To say
I asked this question a year ago.. did you look up my name?
how are we supposed to approach?
Your feet usually take you to where you want to go.
I get it man. Firstly, work on yourself a bit. Then start with a head nod hi.
@cookiecrusher that tells me nothing
That's why I have a girlfriend
Not scared but yes I have
Lol that bad for a guy
Yes but I usually end shying away
it's really unbearable
Tried approaching females?
brave ones get a score
No... its why I'm single
No no they don’t
I tried, I failed...
I have
I’ve tried twice
And?
I haven’t been with anyone. I’m an anxious person
Of course
Yeah a few times
Nope 😸
Yes; I have.
It was when I was much younger, though. I haven't recently. It's been over a decade.
Yeah I have
yep and got rejected
Have you?
I have, yes..
You're a rare bird.
Chef?
Am I a chef? No.
Ohhhh