Why am I just a pass time girl all the time?

[Anonymous]

Guys will text non stop for 2 weeks and then I will see they got into a relationship with some other girl...

[FlutteringFeelings]

Guys can only do what you allow. Be aware of the red flags early on because a guy just doesn’t fall off the face of the earth out of nowhere. If he’s inconsistent in the beginning then it won’t be long until he ghosts you. Getting to know guys should be the same process as picking out grass weeds from your garden.


Next, next, next, next, and next. Until you bend down and you almost pull out something that you thought was a grass weed but it was a four leaf clover. Don’t get hung up on what guy didn’t text good morning or didn’t ask you out to get fries from McDonald’s. You have your standards and you didn’t give away anything to those guys (hopefully). As long as you’re not allow these guys to kiss and caress you within those first 3 months then there’s nothing to worry about.


He doesn’t text you and he’s in a relationship with another girl? Okay, cheers to him you wasn’t chosen and you continue dating. There are too many men out here and it’s about positioning yourself for when the next man arrives rather than wasting time on the man who isn’t valuing your time.

[boggboss]

Talking to guys that just like the attention or not able to keep people intrested if it's online dating tho it's pretty normal

[FilmGuy93]

Guys just don't connect with you on an emotional level, for whatever reason.