
Is it a red flag if my boyfriend posts this on Facebook? see image?


It’s only a red flag if he’s accepting numbers from females and random people he doesn’t know. The post is confusing. It would’ve made since if he said “If you had my number before message me. New phone.” It could mean so many things but overall listen to your intuition.
Well he has female friends so I already know he’s going to be accepting numbers from girls. Just don’t know why he’s making an actual post about it as if he is looking for new friends like the other girl said on here. Sigh.
Maybe he's being lazy and wants them to give the numbers instead of doing it himself?
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He talks to a loooot of girls.
Why do you say that? Lol
Meh. I don’t believe he is talking to a lot of girls. He spends 90% of his time with me or talking to me. The other 10 is when he’s at work and even still he is texting me throughout his shift. So I don't know.
Because I knew that he still had contacts so it was odd in this particular situation that he posted that.
when i switch phones sometimes i used to have them stored on my phone itself rather then in the cloud so i didn't have any backups until i later decided to store it in the cloud. but after a while i decided to store those contacts in the cloud so i wouldn't lose the numbers again. he very well may have lost those numbers like i did but he very well maybe trying to pick up other women especially with a message or post like that
It's very suspicious, especially since he's not lost his contacts. I'd ask him and talk to him about it.
No, it means he got a new phone and probably lost his contacts.
He didn’t lose his contacts because he still has his phone that has all of the old contacts in it. He could just move them over if he’s going to collect new numbers from Facebook:/
I'd say that he either is lazy and wants people to just come to him instead of him manually putting all the numbers in, or he is looking for new friends. You could always go "Hey, why are you asking people to message you their numbers when you can just transfer them from your other phone?" It'd be interesting to see how he responds.
Well. I can’t technically do that because we aren’t friends on Facebook and I Kinda just randomly looked up his page and saw that 🤦♀️🤦♀️ sooo he would be pissed that I was “spying” on his Facebook.
I don’t know either
Kind of weird that you are in a relationship together and both use Facebook but are not Facebook friends. You should ask him why he posted it since he still has all his contacts.
Girls really think, that men have lots of girls messaging them like "hey cutie"? y'all must be dreaming.
my boyfriend is kinda fb popular so I wouldn’t be surprised tbh
Hmmm, seems suspicious to me because he didn't lose his contacts numbers to begin with.
Yeah that dude is looking 👀 confront him sis
You think so?
Did you ask him why he posted that?
No, we aren’t facebook friends and he doesn’t know I see this.
He's your boyfriend, yet you're not FB friends? Huh? LOL
Obviously, he doesn't want you to know what he's doing on social media. Is it a red flag? Maybe not, but it's not good! LOL
We talk about Facebook and stuff. He told me he added our relationship on his profile so I don't know.
He thinks I’m too insecure to handle being his fb friend
Sounds like he might be correct.
Yeah I am kind of sensitive only because I was raised in a very conservative household and he was not. So he’s very open and social about certain things that I sometimes find offensive.
Whatever your background, you are what you are today, and the question is "can you handle the trust aspect of a relationship?" If you can't, it doesn't really matter what your explanation is going backwards - that doesn't change the "now". You can either get over it, for real, or not, especially if you've no reason to distrust him.
Hmm comment on it and see what’s up
He's looking for some
Some what?
Lmaoo
Yes it is
Why do you say so?
no, why would it be?
I don't know. Just given the context of the situation I guess
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