Well he has female friends so I already know he’s going to be accepting numbers from girls. Just don’t know why he’s making an actual post about it as if he is looking for new friends like the other girl said on here. Sigh.
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Why do you say that? Lol
Because he's looking to reconnect with people who are not his contacts. That means loose connections. He's casting a very wide net.
Meh. I don’t believe he is talking to a lot of girls. He spends 90% of his time with me or talking to me. The other 10 is when he’s at work and even still he is texting me throughout his shift. So I don't know.
Then why did you ask if it's a red flag?
Because I knew that he still had contacts so it was odd in this particular situation that he posted that.
He didn’t lose his contacts because he still has his phone that has all of the old contacts in it. He could just move them over if he’s going to collect new numbers from Facebook:/
I'd say that he either is lazy and wants people to just come to him instead of him manually putting all the numbers in, or he is looking for new friends. You could always go "Hey, why are you asking people to message you their numbers when you can just transfer them from your other phone?" It'd be interesting to see how he responds.
Well. I can’t technically do that because we aren’t friends on Facebook and I Kinda just randomly looked up his page and saw that 🤦♀️🤦♀️ sooo he would be pissed that I was “spying” on his Facebook.
You're not friends on FB with your own boyfriend? Why not?
I don’t know either
my boyfriend is kinda fb popular so I wouldn’t be surprised tbh
You think so?
No, we aren’t facebook friends and he doesn’t know I see this.
He's your boyfriend, yet you're not FB friends? Huh? LOLObviously, he doesn't want you to know what he's doing on social media. Is it a red flag? Maybe not, but it's not good! LOL
We talk about Facebook and stuff. He told me he added our relationship on his profile so I don't know.
He thinks I’m too insecure to handle being his fb friend
Sounds like he might be correct.
Yeah I am kind of sensitive only because I was raised in a very conservative household and he was not. So he’s very open and social about certain things that I sometimes find offensive.
Whatever your background, you are what you are today, and the question is "can you handle the trust aspect of a relationship?" If you can't, it doesn't really matter what your explanation is going backwards - that doesn't change the "now". You can either get over it, for real, or not, especially if you've no reason to distrust him.
Why do you say so?
I don't know. Just given the context of the situation I guess