Been dating a guy for 5 weeks. He is inconsistent with texting. Is it too early to ask what type of relationship he's looking for?

[Anonymous]

Been dating a guy for 5 weeks. Lately, he doesn't text much between dates but our conversations are always smooth in person. He has never called me on the phone. We already do couple things like kiss, hold hands, and make out. I don't want to fall hard and be in a casual relationship with no labels. Is it too early to ask what type of relationship he's looking for?

[RHK36]

No, 5 weeks is plenty of time to ask if it's going anywhere.

[Asker]

How can I ask without sounding possessive?

[RHK36]

Just straight up ask him. If he gets offended or dismissive then you probably have your answer. I only like straightforward and clarity when it comes to communicating. Most guys are pretty straightforward and prefer not to beat around the bush. So if he gets all heated by it then he's either too immature or is looking for something casual.

[emperor90]

I dont know maybe he is wasting yout time

[Asker]

Is it good for me to tell him I'm looking for a potential relationship?