Started dating a guy about 3 weeks and have been on 5 amazing dates Out of nowhere there’s been fewer texts and we haven’t planned for a next date?

[Anonymous]

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What should i ask?

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Yea he is recently divorced what would that mean?

[OlderAndWiser]

That's mucho dates in 3 weeks. Have you had sex already?

[Asker]

We sure have

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he's moved on to his next conquest/challlenge. Maybe you were too easy.

[OlderAndWiser]

Recently divorced means he is not wanting to get into a serious LTR and he may have sensed that you wanted to move in that direction.

[anonguy2000]

Has it been physical yet? He may have found someone else also. Hard to say

[Asker]

Yes we had sex

[anonguy2000]

Its possible he may be dating multiple girls and is unfortunately moving on. Nothing against you at all or anything you did wrong but that may be his nature right now and nothing you can do about it... was he recently divorced or out of a long term relationship

[Asker]

Yes he is recently divorced.. what could that mean

[anonguy2000]

Honestly he probably is out trying to sow his wild oates and sleep with different women right now. It's nothing you did or how you look or anything. He is just pursuing women right now. He probably missed out on a good thing with you... but yeah. Nothing you could have done different or changed. Its all him

[Asker]

This is why i don’t date… Should i send him a text calling him out on it or just let it phase out

[anonguy2000]

It's up to you really. Might make him feel bad if he has a heart and consider his actions in the future more carefully. Or he won't care at all and its a waste of time. Maybe just chalk it up as experi3nce and move on.

[Asker]

I just want to be like i guess things changed.. good luck or something ugh so frustrating

[Asker]

Or lime so what happened?

[Asker]

Or like everything all good you have been mia

[anonguy2000]

I know it has to be totally frustrating. If its any consolation you aren't alone. Plenty of women ghost guys too. Very frustrating but its throwing good energy after bad at this point. You did nothing wrong Im sure. Best just to move on

[Asker]

Thank you

[hello123456789]

He's ready to have sex with you.

[Asker]

We have had sex

[Anonymous]

Let him Decide if he is in or not anymore

[Asker]

Do i ask him up front?

[Opinion Owner]

Its ok to do

[Opinion Owner]

If he is free to date u again