Guy I went on several dates with stopped texting. Should I wait for him to text first?

[Anonymous]

We had a great date the other night. Both just started seeing each other. He stopped texting after I turned down his invitation to his friends' hangout. Should I wait for him to text me? I was last to text. I sent a pic of what I was doing. All he said was to have fun. I'm the one in green.

[ItsMeElliana]

you should text him first, make another plan.
it shouldn't always be the guy texting first, he might just feel like you dont actually care that much and also, texting first shows interest. so if you're interested in him, you should text him first and make plans or whatever.

[Changiis07]

Leave it!!! Let the guy pursue you. And don’t put anymore effort than what he is :) this was a good text

[Asker]

Thank you. Spoke some truth

[Asker]

In your opinion, why do you think he suddenly stopped texting?

[Changiis07]

Maybe he is busy. How long has at been since you’ve last heard from him? Did he text you last minute on this invite? Or was it like a few days before. I think you did great by responding like that. It shows that you have a life and are not waiting on him to invite you anywhere. If he is interested he will continue to reach out etc

[slatyb]

If you want to see him again, invite him to meet you somewhere at a specific time. If he doesn't accept, or propose an alternative, then it's over.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

On one hand if you like him why wait & on the other hand although you were the last to text you ended the conversation.

[In_Trance]

You turned him down !!! Smh

[Asker]

Yes but it was because I made plans with my friend way beforehand. I also sent a pic of me and my friend hanging out. Is that a turn down?

[In_Trance]

It's a turn down. He's already stopped texting; guaranteed he agrees with me.
You need to make the next move

[Asker]

Do I ask him how the beach was yesterday?

[In_Trance]

Sure, some light conversation is good to start with

[Asker]

Thank you. If a girl texted you in this manner, would you do the same as he did and stop texting her?

[In_Trance]

Absolutely