I had my first time sex recently, the guy said we should date. We were texting the first week but he rarely message now. Is he not interested anymore?

[jazmiine]

So I decided to lose my virginity and I meet this guy. I know him online for a short bit. But still we meet like after a week of talking online. We had a talk, some beer and did the deed. After, he said he wants to date and continue our relationship. Asked me to delete my dating profile. If not, he even jokingly said we could meet like maybe once a year? I laugh but I agreed to us dating. We messaged each other the first week but he rarely message me now. Does that mean he is not interested anymore? Should I give this up?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes the novelty of a new relationship wears off pretty quickly for some people so he could’ve lost some interest, BUT he might also be waiting for you to message him first, or he could just be busy, or he just needs some time alone. Maybe try to ask him out on a date and see what his vibe is like (if he’s changed his attitude or looks disinterested).

[jazmiine]

We are pretty new but I unfortunately was hired in a far away city it takes 8hrs to go visit his place. So we are LDR, in a very new relationship. Very fragile to maintain.

But maybe we can decide for a date midway if we have similar free time.

I'm also thinking, of meeting so I can decide what to do.

[Opinion Owner]

Ah okay, an LDR this early in a relationship can definitely be very fickle but it can still work, definitely takes more work to maintain tho.

You might need to spend some quality time together, maybe at least watch a movie online together? You can definitely talk to him directly and ask for his opinion about the future of your relationship

[jazmiine]

Ok. I'll do just that hehe.

Thanks a lot you're a real help.

[Opinion Owner]

No worries at all, good luck with everything and congrats on the new job in the new city!!

[LazerBean]

Either he was just interested in sex from the beginning or he's no longer interested.

[AviatorTom]

Give up on him. Move on and find a nice guy to have a relationship with.

That guy conquered you, and once that happened, the thrill for him was gone. He's a player, and you are better off without him.

[RasmusAiken]

It seems that both of you were primarily interested in the sexual encounter and you each got what you came for.

[jazmiine]

😅 maybe, so it's the end probably.

I don't know what's happening actually. I'm just holding on.

[Erron_Black]

He achieved his goal, you don't care about him anymore

[eagle1951]

he probably is doing this with more then just you

[Wise4myage]

Seems like just used you for sex?

[jazmiine]

I know right. I'm fine if he said "let's not see each other again" after we were done but he said we should date. He initiated the invite. I was wondering if maybe he is feeling guilty 🤔 and said those words for assurance only?

[Wise4myage]

Yes, possibly?

[jazmiine]

I see

[billmunch]

How old are you?