we are both in our twenties, and slept together for the first time recently. he's been hitting me up a lot talking about how good the sex was, how hot i am, and to receive nudes. we agreed to be friends with benefits, so i always send pictures and our conversations get HOT. but he doesn't follow through on meeting up again. he said "i probably act like i wanna fuck you less than i really do because i feel like you expect it and every dude is probably like that with you. i don't wanna be like every other guy who is obsessed with you." but at the same time he never makes plans to fuck? i'm confused. it seems like an excuse. we agreed friends with benefits, where is the issue!
From my POV, you two had a GAP between, on which sounds like he already "met" someone else, so i'm guessing that "meeting you" again, sparked some old memories, he sounds like he cannot be "fairhful/stable" just to one girl, he likes to ecperiment with other girls too, but also sounds like you are the "closest catch" when he's far from "other girls". And thinking that u had encounters too while apart. So now His Mind and Feelings playing tricks to him, thinking "you could have" any guy you want...
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It’s possible he’s in another relationship or he’s jerking off to ur pics too much and is satisfied at the moment.
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you will have to talk to him, but getting the truth may be difficult because people don't like to expose their deeper selves.
we can only make guesses. most everything comes down to "what emotional energy" is driving the person. If he's ashamed, afraid... of intimacy, commitment, religious/family limitations... that would be the major reasons I'd guess he holds back from his hormonal drive.
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Maybe he has other options or he dont want to seem like he is chasing after u
Sorry, but all he was after was one time sex. But you could ask him.
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