Is it possible to find a girlfriend if you don't go out much?

Question

I know guys who don't meet girls and don't have lot of friends. How do they find gfs?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

it's not impossible, but it's incredibly unlikely. Which is one reason why people try dating apps, but relationships almost never happen via dating apps, and for most guys, NOTHING happens in the real world due to dating apps. Dating apps are for the top 10% (and an *occasional* exception) to get casual sex from lots of women, and for lots of women to get a lot of attention from a lot of guys who they never intend to have sex with or even meet in person.

Meeting people out in the real world is the only thing that works, but, yeah, you have to actually make the effort and go outside.

jaybee281 · Accepted Answer

I do truly think that that problem would be fixed by going out more and looking more attractive - Now I'd say "online" but women online are very picky (especially if they're looking for a serious relationship, and rightfully so of course) - and how picky women (most, especially if they're very attractive, again rightfully so) are means he has to beat the competition which is a bunch of other dudes who are swiping right and might be more attractive than he is - Doomed plan..

Ginevra1998 · Accepted Answer

You probably need to go out and approach women you find cute. Its difficult online. Live your life and you might see a woman of your taste, then just go and talk to her (as long as its in the day, don't scare us when it's dark, its our biggest nightmare)

Somegirl678 · Accepted Answer

i know some guys approach women randomly on the streets, u could have a go at that lol

Honestguyopen · Answer

I would suggest picking activities you enjoy and be loyal to the places you go where there is a mixed crowd. This way you can run into someone and then it's about striking up or holding a conversation

AndyOh · Answer

On-line, dating sites, sex boards... and a Whole Lotta Luck!

Better odds if you just get out and do things you like. Maybe the stars will align and you bump into a gal who takes an interest in you. We hope anyway.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Probably much harder, but possible. You still have to be actively looking though. nearly all of my hobbies are traditional male-dominated. The few that aren’t- some outdoorsy, hiking and camping aren’t exactly sociable activities.

Fireguy17 · Answer

It sure is. Join one of the better dating sites, where you have to pay to join, not one of the hook up sites. The vast majority of those people are also looking for the same thing.

Pj1981 · Answer

Sure it is. I hardly ever go out and I don't do online dating. I have a couple times but I haven't in 4 years

globetrotter22 · Answer

It can be a long time girlfriend or they met them online. Or they just got lucky and met them through happenstance.

nonratracereality · Answer

Through meeting in person or through a phone call or email transmission.

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

Yes, espacially now. with the internet and all the apps, websites,...

exitseven · Answer

I have heard that people can meet online. It is probably harder but it has been known to work.

kellytheman · Answer

I find that they might get lucky once and might find a girl that they are compatible with when they finally go out.

DaveToo · Answer

When you get the answer to that, please feel free to enlighten me.

clampfan101 · Answer

Are they making them up? lol I can’t think of anything else.

shanshu · Answer

That's why online dating was invented, I have no luck with it, I suck at dating, no girl finds me attractive

Jerre · Answer

Hard to say for me. I go out a lot and never have trouble finding a girl.

Likes2drive · Answer

Yeah through dating apps or friends if you don’t go out

Den1971 · Answer

Always. There's girls every where. Stores, stop lights, gas stations

Better_off_here · Answer

you can meet someone anywhere if you leave the house for any reason you will run into someone you may like after all.

TheAfrikan · Answer

Probably we meet girls once we do hit into our hobbies or rather once they show up in the course of our hobbies.

najekim · Answer

Some ask family whether they know of any single ladies available.

OddBeMe · Answer

They don’t. Luckily I’m already married so I can be happily introverted.

Clarke498 · Answer

Yeah, I just used them internet and apps and it worked out well.

Deku2009 · Answer

Yeah it’s completely possible just gotta make the moment happen regardless if it’s online or not

Joshua0213 · Answer

Nah surely they go places. How would a person not go places?

Johnhunny88333 · Answer

@jessiebellll its not impossible just very difficult. are you looking for a boyfriend?

imbeingmyself · Answer

online like tinder and many more, I guess there will be a girl of the same thought..

Anonymous · Answer

Then when I started going to clubs and dancing

FilmGuy93 · Answer

It's possible but extremely unlikely

AviatorTom · Answer

Online girl. You can find anything online.

ChrisMike1919 · Answer

Everything is possible...

Seangreen · Answer

In this day and age nobody goes out much

moviedude714 · Answer

Online dating or dating apps I guess

zagor · Answer

Wondering that myself...

ALewis30 · Answer

Yeah, but it's a lot harder.

Waldoe · Answer

personal ads, also a good way to find random sex

SalvatoreCordileone · Answer

You have to go out to where they are at

Twalli · Answer

Friends of friends, dating sites, or luck

DevinAM · Answer

Possible, but difficult.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

They don't find girlfriends.

billluc69 · Answer

you need to get out some to meet people

Amur8711 · Answer

I don't know, either. I need to know too.

Dave88 · Answer

It's very hard, impossible almost

slatyb · Answer

Online if at all.

dudeinohio · Answer

Online Dating.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably don't.

emperor90 · Answer

It is harder

PeterSmith1983 · Answer

Online

Abdulwahh · Answer

Chances low

Anonymous · Answer

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