Why are the best men already married 🙄😫😫? (Page 3)
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Because they're the best, and women who get them take them and keep them. If you found one of the best and he was single and liked you, you wouldn't let him go.
True say.
All the people saying that you're too old to attract them by looks are bullshitting. By all accounts I qualify as one of the best men. I certainly have qualities (that are not physical) that women seem to desire in men. My girlfriend was 32 when we started dating and I've been with her for over 3.5 years now. Although this may not help you with finding the best men, you may be able to screen guys before dating to decide if they qualify. The best men are those that are good people in nonromantic settings. They are kind and courteous without an ulterior motive. These people may not be crème de la crème of good men, but they'll be better than most and among the best.
Thank you very much, I hope you have an amazing new year 🥰
32 is not old by any means
@malwins I know, but guys were saying that given the choice guys go for younger women. I chose my girlfriend over a girl who is 1 year my junior and while they don't look exactly the same they were pretty much equal from what I knew about them then. I still picked the older one.
The best men aren't married.
You just see married men as the best.
Fix it.
I have had great experiences with married men being respected and the conversations so refreshing compared to a single man, I suppose its a matter of person and not the fact they are married though.
It's the fact that they're married.
Yep 😄
Fix it
That's how it works men and women who are most desirable will have an easier time getting a spouse, so it makes sense
Same reason all the good women are taken, they get them early on, all you can do is wait till they get divorced which is pretty good odds but then they already have kids
I’m available now though since I’ve been through all that already
Yeah I understand this really well I also have a child from a previous relationship which went very bad, I met the most amazing man as a friend and I fell totally in love with him but he is married and has two children, one minute he is completely besotted by her the next he would moan about her, She was very controlling and reminded me a lot of my ex the way he was. I guess I just met him a little too late, he is literally perfect but I cut all contact as he is taken and I am not a homewrecker and my feelings were getting stronger i didn't want our friendship to be ruined.
Yeah it’s best not to get involved with someone still married. They would have to be divorced first. I’ve been divorced over 5 years and still getting no where
No I won't get involved she found her Mr right and to be honest he's that charming and great he could be anyones Mr right, all kudos to her she found a great one, let's hope we find great ones too.
Yeah I hope we do
No they are not. You just been looking for the needle from the wrong heinstash.
I hope to find a good one in the near future.
Well same is true with women. So what does that say about you?
It says I obviously attract the wrong kind of men.
if the best ones are married and you are not married, that means you're not one of the best and those men you don't like are exactly on your level but you falsely thing, you're better than them :P
Not true at all, I have never been proposed to, I had a child with a man who left me because I was to obsessed with my career apparently and a few dates have led to nothing but casual dating, a man who is ready to commit is so hard to find.
well... i have nothing more to say about that. you said it all.
Divorce rates are higher than marriage rates. So don’t judge yet and count your blessings.
If you want a 'good man™' you have to tear him out of other harpy's claws. This leads to new dilemma, a 'good man' who cheats on his woman isn't a good man anymore. The quadrature of a circle, somehow.😂
Then he wasn't a good man, he was an opportunist who settled for whatever came. I've seen good guys telling hot girls to "get lost" if they try to seduce him or flirt with him.
No, but like any other valuable thing good potential spouses will be snapped up fast. You need to put yourself out there more often and meet more people. It’s a numbers game. Don’t give up.
Commited people have learned all the things single people haven’t by living with each other. It’s a process for both genders.
Cuz smart girls snap them up and actually appreciate them.
And don't be thinking there isn't one for you, you just have to date a lot of quality guys and you'll find one. Time to get busy.
@shaysh87 maybe check out the number of up votes this post has gotten. It's very clear that the majority of men agree with Mr oracle.
Or at you just going to call all of them misagynists.
Statistics and data contradicts you or mr oracle
@shaysh87 Have you not heard of - "there are lies, there are damn lies, and then there is statistics"! Stop befooling yourself.
@Changed_Person
Only you lie. Statistics and data and research do not lie
Statistics and data do not lie, but they can be biased and still have the risk of sampling errors.
@Tstrbrainer
I have multiple very legitimate sources from very well known popular websites.
When were these data collected?
Because they don’t play around and settle soon by the time you meet them they are married lol
Because they get first pick of women. The more desirable a person is the easier it is for them to find a partner, the same goes for women.
It's expected for those men to be already taken, same goes for women.
You're probably overlooking a guy who would be great for you just because he isn't a Chad.
Not you too.
This is exactly the issue with a lot of 30+ single women. They have rejected a lot of potential (good) partners just to get with that top-tier % man. Only to find out that these men do not want them. I have several family members and acquaintances who are in this exact situation.
Or they've been sportfucking their way through their 20s only to find out that these do not want to commit to them. Many of them happen to be single-mothers. So they try to settle for a nice guy for financial aid or because their biological clock wants them to bear a child asap. These women are often unsatisfied with their choice because they are used to higher calibre men in their younger years lol
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 I don't know how you can go through life without seeing this in action lol but ok.
@TruthBringer hypergamy is such a tragedy, for the men it leaves behind and for the women it ultimately dupes in the end.
I see this 100 times daily, and that's not an underestimation.😗The "Best men are taken"... Bill Clinton, Donald Trump, Tiger Woods, etc, etc... Women know what they want, what they're attracted to, and that's exactly what they get. 🤗
Please work with me here.
For sure there are girls who like Chads. But are those all girls? Are those even the girls you want? Only bimbos with the mental capacity of a grape want them. Not the kind of girl we want.
The good ones don't go for them.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 good women, like good people are a very small minority.
But I will for sure let you know if I see any of these good women who are not already taken haha.
Sadly I agree more and more
@Juxtapose Nailed it!
I mean I agree about people in general. I have less and less faith in humanity.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 I would only put your trust in people who have proven themselves to you.
I agree.
@dowser19 💯
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Nope; the good girls want them, too! 🤷
@Jamie05rhs Let's make sure we are talking about the same person.
I am talking about the guy that is an absolute idiot. Has as IQ equal to his age. He has a overly agressive attitude. His only qualities are his body and... that's it.
I am not talking about the guy who looks good, but is also nice, has a backbone being agressive only when necessary.
The first is the Chad and no, aside from bimbos, no one likes that guy.
@This_Is_My_Opininion8 Ok, maybe there are different definitions of "Chad"s. Lol
@Jamie05rhs His definition on what a "Chad" is, is quite unaccurate considering Chads are often high value men having shit going on in their lives and not necessarily being asshole muscleheads with no brain.
@TruthBringer That's actually what I thought.
@Jamie05rhs then tell me what is yours?
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Basically the same guy that you described but after he graduates from college and gets an office job.
@Jamie05rhs an office job is not enough to make him appealing with his many flaws and bad personality.
@This_Is_My_Opinion Who said he had a bad personality? I think Chads have GREAT personalities! They always have. Even from elementary school age. That's why we all want to be friends with them.
@Jamie05rhs oh so you don't put the trash person's in "Chad" category.
So a Chad to you is a good person, with a good job who looks good?
Of course women like that.
Men also like women who are good persons, with a good job who also look good.
That's literally what everyone wants.
@This_Is_My_Opinion Lmfao. I never said he was a good person. When did I ever say that?
@Jamie05rhs here:
"Who said he had a bad personality? I think Chads have GREAT personalities!"
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 That's right. I said he had a good PERSONALITY.
Might I remind you that Matt Lauer had a great personality as well.
So did Bill Cosby.
@Jamie05rhs don't know who that guy is. Buy if you aren't a good person, you don't have a good personality. Period.
@This_Is_MyOpinion8 I think you must be a little naive, man. Tons of evil people are very charming.
@Jamie05rhs that's called being fake. Why? Because in fact they don't have a good personality.
But unless you are saying that only people who are actually bad achieve greatness in this world I don't see the point you're trying to make. You are ready to say "women only like assholes" aren't you?
Nope. That's the opposite of what I mean. Yes, lots of women DO like assholes. But many women just like charming guys with great personalities (many of whom happen to be fuckboys. But the girl might not necessarily know that.)
@Jamie05rhs we are on the same page than. Yes I agree. Fuck boys know how to take it.
Tell me something. Do you think a good guy, with decent socials skills, grooming and a steady job will be single for long?
@This_Is_My_Opinion8. Ok; cool.
He might, if he's selective. He may get a lot of female attention, but he'll turn them away if they're trash females.
@Jamie05rhs as he should.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Agreed!
The best men are already married they already have an idea of who to marry beforehand.
Totally agree, thank you for commenting 😊
My opinion is they are very few and far between because most women are extremely "selective". So I guess depending on what "best men" is for you... lol
Haha I say that with women. All the best ones are taken. But it's way more comfortable to talk to someone who is taken, rather that someone who is single.