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I know her intention was to inform, but after reading this she must have been depressed lol
I disagree that a woman's degree, career, income is unimportant. I just think women value it more than the men.
@MrOracle at least here in India (Asia), girl look for money and only money. Girls in their 20/s keep on rejecting guys and often date with bad boys for fun! Not-so-rich boys want to marry but girls keep on rejecting them and wait year by year for the best (richest possible, one life!) one.
Here is the thing -
In early 20/s the boys just start their career or business and they do not have money and girls are prettiest in her 20/s.
When both boys and girls are in 30/s, the boy might have earned a lot of money and his wealth usually increases with time. But girl start to 'loose' her beauty and probably the emotions and this loss usually continues with time. At this time, girl does not have much to offer to a boy!
@LZPanzer Yea, i care about these, but only to some extent. I prefer smart girls over more hotter not so smart ones. I know going to uni won't make you smart/intelligent, so i'm not saying that i need that as a req. It's a plus if she is not depressed cause of her job as well..
For The First Time Ever, Women in Their 30s Are Having More Babies Than 20-Somethings
www.sciencealert.com/for-the-first-time-ever-women-in-their-30s-are-having-more-babies-than-20-somethings
@LZPanzer
I’m 26 and I date guys 28-32. I can easily tell you from my experience that most young millennial guys prefer a woman who has a career and education.
Misogynists on here may tell you that men don’t look for those things but I Garauntee you that if you have a career , guys will respect you more
@Changed_Person
Statistics show that most Girls are marrying guys just a few years older. So your talk about girls marrying old guys is untrue and probably just a fantasy.
@Edward02
I’m not looking to get married. I’m looking to have kids by the time I hit my early 30s.
@shaysh87
For guys there is a very big gap between datable and marriage material.
Guys are not picky when it comes to dating. We are very picky about who we marry.
Just because we are dating you doesn't mean we want to marry you. Dating just means we are check out that possibility.
Unfortunately women seem to equate dating and marriage to be the same criteria or similar criteria. For guys this simply isn't true.
@LZPanzer
Typically guys in their late 20s or 30s won't “date” a woman without intentions of marriage. By the time a guy hits a certain age , he won’t be interested in playing around. Most people are hooked up in serious relationships or marriages by the time they hit 30. Babies start coming out in 30s. Most guys already have kids by the time they hit 40.
Guys who play around in their 20-30s will only find themselves still single with fewer options by the time they hit 40. People get taken as they get older. Don’t wait till all your friends and peers are married to begin dating
@LZPanzer
Many people like to say that a woman’s options diminish as she gets older. Trust me , It’s the same for men. Maybe not as bad as women but it doesn’t get better
@LZPanzer
There are nice women out there. Reality is , everyone knows days see relationships and friendships as disposable. If you grow bored of one women, you can easily dump her and get another. There’s no value in being a partner. Once you grow tired of someone, just rotate partners.
Friendships for Millienials / gen z last for a maximum of 5 years. In the past , friendships used to last for 15-30 years. People divorce way too often. People are even avoiding marriage so they don’t need to commit to one person forever. People are constantly looking for something or someone better. Once they do meet someone hotter or more interesting , they vanish,
This is why I won’t get married, there really is no incentive
Even looking for a friend that you can rely on is extremely difficult nowadays. When I try to make conversation with someone , very few people are actually emotionally available. And those who are emotionally available tend to be members of the old generation such as folks in their 40-60s.
Nowadays it’s very common to see someone with 1000 Facebook friends but nobody they can truly rely on in their times of need
It’s also extremely common to see couples who date 5-10 years only to break up.
@shaysh87 Your article proves my point. But it's not that women in their 30s have had a large increase in children, it's that women in their 20s have had a massive drop off in children.
And this trend is continuing to worsen. Tons of women in your generation are going to be alone forever because they weren't interested in marriage and children (or anything but the top 5-10% of men) in their 20s, and as those men get older and more successful, they are going to reject those women just as they were rejected.
People used to understand that the best path to success is to build a good life together, but today, women expect that good life from Day 1, and they are undermining their own futures. But they don't grasp that until it is too late.
@MrOracle
You like to constantly put down women in their 30s but the reality is, most women get married in their 30s especially if you live in a modern city. Most birthing mothers are in their 30s.
The lies that you’re spewing out is just your imagination , not what happens in reality
People are getting married later Ans later in life, both men and women. Most women are birthing later too.
@shaysh87 I'm not putting women down, I'm simply telling them that the situation changes - a lot - from their 20s to their 30s, and that they have to make changes in kind if they want to be successful. I didn't say they couldn't get a man or get married or have kids - they can, IF they are willing to do what it takes to attract the kind of men who want those things.
What I wrote is only offensive to women who think that they'll have the same options and ability to attract men in their 30s and 40s as they had when they were in their 20s, without making any changes. That's simply not the case. Men will overlook a lot, and even accept a "bad deal" if the woman is young and fertile, but around 30, that exemption expires.
It's like having a Disneyland Fast Pass in your 20s - you don't have to stand in the long lines waiting for rides because you have a Fast Pass and get to cut the line. But the Fast Pass expires, and when you're above 30 or so, the days of cutting the line are over, and you have to wait in line just like everyone else. When you are used to always having a Fast Pass, having to wait in line is a harsh reality that a lot of people have trouble accepting.
@MrOracle
I’m waiting until my 30s to get married and have kids. I’m not afraid. My mom got married and had me and my bro in her 30s. My moms cousin also married had her kids in her 30s. All 5 of my aunts had kids in their 30s.
And now I see a fool like you telling me that I can’t have kids in my 30s.
@shaysh87 Yes, they do - but that's a BAD thing, not a good thing. It PROVES my point.
If you go to your boss and ask for a raise, and he responds by cutting the pay of everyone else doing your job so that you make more than they do, it may be true that you're doing better RELATIVE to the other workers, who are now doing much worse - but it doesn't mean that YOUR situation has improved - you're still making the same money you were before.
Likewise, the fact that a higher percentage of women are marrying and having kids in their 30s doesn't mean that the raw numbers for women in their 30s has gone up - they haven't - it means that the numbers of women in their 20s marrying and having kids has fallen WAY off. And that's BAD! It's bad for women in their 20s, and it doesn't help women in their 30s either - or men, for that matter. We all lose.
I never said that at all. I simply said that your options for attracting a partner will be significantly reduced, and that the top end of the market will be almost completely unavailable to you. I never said you couldn't find a man - it just won't be the kind you could have gotten in your 20s.
@MrOracle
You like to constantly tour around that womens dating market will be reduced as they get older. Well it’s the same for men. Maybe not as bad as women, but mens dating game doesn’t get better as they enter their 40s either. Everyone in your social circle is either married or has kids.
@zeitgeist057
Mroracle has a history of shitting on older women on here. Last time we spoke , he even said that women in their 30s can’t have kids without IVF
@shaysh87 You are an Indian. It is clear from your dumb fuck crude answers. Where did you read that old guys look for young girls? Stop being frustrated old lady! Your time is over!
@shaysh87 Your replies reflect frustration and anger. Instead of venting it out on @MrOracle , you can get yourself checked so that you can see the reality with a broad mind! Yes, you can get married at any age be it 30/s or 40/s but you will surely not get the 'best men', which is the subject of discussion here.
@Changed_Person
Reality is this website is filled with bitter misogynists who hate women. So they go around devaluing women by saying things such as “are women worthless after they reach the end of their child bearing years?”
Or constant talk about how women are undatable , unwed-able after the age of 30.
Constant talk about how men get more desirable as they lose hair , grow wrinkles , lose muscle mass , gain weight , go bald , saggy balls as they enter their 40s.
Or constant talk about how all 18 yr old girls like dating 40- 60 yr old guys
This is all just a fantasy of a bitter angry aging single man who can’t get any woman’s attention.
Overwhelming majority of men on this website who constantly shit on older women are the same frustrated guys who Can never ever get a date
@Changed_Person
[Yes, you can get married at any age be it 30/s or 40/s but you will surely not get the 'best men', which @Changed_Person
[Yes, you can get married at any age be it 30/s or 40/s but you will surely not get the 'best men']
As far as I can see, Mens options don’t get better as they hit 40s either when they start losing hair , gaining weight , white hairs , wrinkles. Saggy balls, erectile dysfunction
What makes you think girls are attracted to that? How many 18 yr old girls are dating 45-60 yr old men? None. Maybe gold diggers but no woman would ever be attracted to them.
@shaysh87 No. There are all kind of people on this site but you are depressed and frustrated and only see those men.
When girls had some power (or value), in their 20/s they become extremely choosy. Now guys have money the will become choosy.
I encourage you to run a feminist movements, where you bash all the males, and tell them that they should accept older women, they should see the "soul" instead of "beauty", "age does not matter", and do not forget to call them misogynist. Maybe then you may have some more options.
30/s male can get marry to 20/s girls. 30/s girls will have to marry 40/s men.
@Changed_Person
Check out marriage statistics. Overwhelming majority of marriages are less than 10 years age gap. So yea… if you’re a 40 yr old man, your chances of getting a hot young 21 yr old is very slim
@changed_person
I’d rather get married at 40 to the right man than to marry the wrong man at 25.
@shaysh87 A 40 years can surely get a 20 years old gold digger. Guy will get ass and girl will get money. 30+ year girl does not have either money or ass, lol
@Changed_Person
30 yr old women have careers , cars , houses and don’t need to prostitute themselves to old rich grandpas. Women get financially stable as they get older , just like men.
The only young women who are willing to have sex with you are desperate evoke college girls looking for sugar daddies to pay their tuition.
Once they are finished with college, they will dump you and marry a young handsome man in his late 20s to early 30s then start a family
@shaysh87 All handsome men get married by the age of 25-26 with a girl of age 19-26. And this is the question. However if you get a man of your choice, then all the very best.
@Changed_Person
Men at 25-26 don’t get married. On average, men 30-35 get married. The age of the woman is usually 29-33.
20 yr old girls are usually dating 21-25 yr old guys.
25 yr old girls are usually dating 26-32 yr old guys.
30 yr old women are usually dating guys 33-38.
@shaysh87
You are way too butthurt over the reality of things. All statistics on the matter have proven that women in their early 20s are the most attractive to men of ALL ages. There is no if or but to that.
That is pure, physical attraction - meaning other things to play a role for picking a partner. But it is the hard reality.
Additionally studies have also proven that women are their most fertile and have the healthiest children when they give birth during 22-28 (+/- 1-2 years since these numbers are from the top of my mind). With every additional year past 30 your risk to have a child, have a risk-free pregnancy AND have a healthy child increases logarithmically. Or in other words. With every year these risks incrase by a bigger margin than the previous one. Just because YOUR mom had children in their 30s doesn't take away from statistical likelihood. Also its an logical fallacy (=anecdotal evidence).
You can accept this reality or not. That's on you. But don't pretend like this isn't the case when science clearly disagrees with you.
@FakeName123
Talking about women in their early 20s being most attractive wasn’t even the topic being discussed,
I never refuted that younger women were more attractive. I never refuted that young women were more fertile
My point is, women in their 30s are still marrying , having kids with men. Actually more women are marrying in their 30s than 20s. So this alone proves that women in their 30s are still desirable.
Doesn’t matter how much you like to shit on older women. When statistics and data all proves that more women get married and have kids in 30s than 20s
@FakeName123
And what is your obsession with women in their 20s? It’s like you talk non stop about them. Are you some sort of pervert or something?
Because the reality is , A 40 yr old man who only dates 20 yr old girls will only dump her by the time she hits 30 for another hot 20 yr old girl
Not everyone is a pervert like you where only looks matter Ans nothing else
There are gold diggers Ans you’re a sex digger
@shaysh87 I wanna squeeze your ass with both hands while kissing you. Do you have a fatass?
@shaysh87 I'm not following MrOracle on other questions, so I don't see all the things you are accusing him of. All I am commenting on is this question and all I see is a realistic view, not with any hate or trying to hurt anyone.
Just like you would realistically tell someone that their athletic career is going to be at its peak when they are younger, and as they get older it's not going to be as easy to get the best performance. To say that isn't "hating on" older athletes, it's just saying something factual and realistic. I don't see anything saying older women are worthless or any of the other accusations you are throwing out. It sounds like you are dealing with past trauma instead of paying attention to the present thread of conversation. I'm sorry if you are feeling attacked or torn down, I don't think that is anyone's intention.
@shaysh87 I also agree with you it's the same for men. As I get older, I naturally am drawing less attention from younger women. It used to be they would flirt with me often, now it is rare.
@zeitgeist057
Listen dude , everyone knows that dating is best when people are in their 20-30s. It’s the same for men. But my problem with these people is the fact that they are talking about older women in such an arrogant , disparaging and condescending way as if they don’t age themselves. They seem to have sadistic joy in making excuses to put down women.
And I will tell you that it is because these men have been rejected by women so much that they want to come in here to take revenge
Data have proven that average age of marriage and birth for women is getting older and older. More women are having kids and getting married in 20s than 30s.
In the past @MrOracle loved spewing that women can’t give birth in their 30s without IVF, or how nobody wants to marry a woman in her 30s.
Well data has proven him wrong and I can easily pull up the statistics
@Changed_Person
Are you mad over the fact that more women in their 30s marry and give birth than women in their 20s?
@Jamie05rhs I am back bro! Two Indian girls have ganged up, one is some influencer, they are misusing the platform and deleting my account.
@shaysh87 I wanna date you but then I will squeeze your ass with both hands. Done? Okay. I will come over!
I couldn't have said it better mate. You also explained my problems of getting what i like. My smile was enough to pull in my 20s...
Get yourself checked by a good psychiatric! Wishing you a good health and recovery :)
Open your eyes. Girls in 30/s have lot of options but not as many as they had in their 20/s.
Most girls marry for money and most guys marry the beauty. Girls over 30+ have lost beauty and only going to get old. Guys over 30+ are only going to get richer. While girl get the money they were always looking for, guys have nothing to gain in this deal. Hence, only a fool will marry 30+ girl.
@Mary087 Good. Option will always be there! But asker said "good men" are taken.
@Changed_Person
Haha that’s hilarious because marriage statistics still shows that overwhelming majority of women marry men less than 10 years older than them. How do you explain that?
Gold diggers prostituting themselves to rich men aren’t the real definition of true love or marriage.
And if you’re 45 years old balding , wrinkly, looking worse every year , you’re not gonna be able to get an 18 yr olds attention.
So you also won’t get the best women.
Men over 35 also have hard time finding a partner. Though there may be 30+ age girls available, but they don't find it worthy to get married to them. Exceptions exist.
But if someone in 30/s or 40/s have decided to find a good partner and marry then they shall surely find. They just have to search hard.
@Changed_Person
When you’re 35 years old, balding , lack of options , you will have no other options but to get married to a woman in her 30s. You don’t have another 10 years to get balder wrinklier and fatter still hoping to score a woman in her 20s. Just letting you know that your options don’t get better as you age either
So quit your pompous attitude as if you never age or exit your prime
Men around 35 have chances to get with girls in age bracket of 27-32. Or they can choose not to get married! Marrying a 30+ plus loose ass girl is unworthy. Worst decision any man can ever take.
For women over 35, their only option is to get marry to a guy in a age bracket of 35-43. However, those guys will still choose to be single instead of marrying 30+ years old "burden".
@Changed_Person
Well your chances of getting a “hot girl” diminishes as you get older too.
So you better stop wasting your years before you have to marry a 40 yr old woman,
Im 23 and i dont waste any time in fact i wanna get married one day but it's funny people try to put the blame on women like its our fault and we can control guys that break our hearts... the reason im single is because most guys just want sex and nothing serious. Get over the age bullshit and look at the way people have lost value in relationships
Yes it is much harder as you get older im not disagreeing but my sister is healthy and actually really gorgeous for her age and I've seen women in their 20s who look far worse.. so we can't lie and say health doesn't play a factor because it does too but I'm super happy she found someone at her age and doesn't mind her age and her struggles she faced in her first marriage. Age matters with the children part because of fertility issues but not being a lazy person also does, if a woman takes well care of her body, health, skin& mind that can go a long way. I know you guys will say im possibly crazy for saying this as a 23 year old and yeah i have a lot to learn still but im taking awesome care of myself now and even when im in my 30s but we shouldn't always put a damper on age. To me i dont get why everyone cares so much, number 2 love has no limit,& number 3 there needs to be less hate and more kindness in this world so let's spread that instead of negativity.
@shaysh87 it's not like im wanting to be single forever and especially not after 35.. i just have had bad luck in dating. Its the dating style these days and lack of effort. Marriage and one day being a mom is something i value wholeheartedly and i dread the fear of that not happening and no i dont party and i also dont whore around. I don't know what the issue is besides just unluckiness and the wrong guys I've met
@shaysh87 you are a fucking cunt! Nobody would want to date or marry you! Why would they?
@Changed_Person
Are you mad over the fact that more women in their 30s marry and give birth than women in their 20s?
Possibilities are endless. Meet lot of men. You will definitely find you man. All the very best.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now! I hope you don't mind me replying. But I often wonder if those women come across as being special because they're stable.
Dating brings so much anxiety that people say and do the most and sometimes silliest of things just to be accepted.
Then there are times some after being so ill treated don't even bother to worry about finding the right one, just the right Mr or Mrs right now!
@lilyanony1 I think you're probably right about that, yeah. But I also think it's because a married woman is more relaxed and confident that she is loved by her man, which you could say is a form of stability, yes.
I think it has to do with the fact that married women aren’t interested in anyone or she doesn’t have to please anyone or she doesn’t get nervous around men
I’m a single lady and I find that guys tend to like me the most when I am free to talk about anything that I want to them. In front of attractive guys , I am never like this cuz I’m too nervous
To be honest a job is a job I'm not too bothered as long as they are earning a living and would provide and take care of our family, My ex partner who left me and our child had a career when I met him a few years down the line he completely lost any motivation to work, he became addicted to drugs and I was taking care of us all on my income which isn't much, He had the cheek to say my career always came first. It had to or we would have had nothing, he lied, cheated and took everything, I am now just 30 this year and I feel I have a child and I'm very alone, I have tried the dating scene and many men I have met had the same traits he had, I hope to find stability and happiness one day, The reason for this post is I met a amazing man who became such a great friend and brought me new found happiness but he is married and I'm not the type to become a homewrecker, I fell head over heels in love with him but I wouldn't have ever said how I felt as he is unavailable, I found he's whole attitude to he's relationship with he's wife and children so uplifting, I felt the connection within seconds (that has never happened in my life) hopefully this will happen again but with a man that isn't unavailable.
wow, you have been through a lot.
I have to agree with you about staying away from married people, no matter how bad they say it is.
That has never worked out well for anyone.
I live in a small rural area and went on E Harmony had had very good luck there.
I met women that I would not have found any other way.
I didn't go out much to bars etc.
You have to be honest in your profile as well as what type of person you are looking for.
Most people on sites like that are not there to just hook up, but there are some of those regardless of what site you are on.
It can take a while, finding the right person is time consuming and a lot of work.
Good luck!
When you obviously have a woman, you are "pre-selected." Another woman has "signed off" on you, and women want what other women have. This is why women will approach you when you're in a relationship, but never when you're single. It has nothing to do with who you are or how you're acting, and everything to do with women assuming that your woman sees desirable things in you, so therefore you MUST be worth having.
I've taken a female friend to a party, and had girls who had been at other parties and ignored me suddenly come up and try to talk to me. Nothing about ME had changed, but this time, some OTHER WOMAN seemed to approve of me, and thus the other girls were now interested. And I wasn't even romantically or sexually with the girl I came to the party with - the other girls had just assumed.
@MrOracle if that were true, every married guy would be having side chicks. I agree with you to a point, but I do feel women are more naturally attracted to a mature and responsible man vice insecure and weary little boy.
@mobiusforniner Women usually date bad guys or best guys in their young age. It is proven at 80% women go for top 20% men in dating. Once the dating is over, and top 20% guys are taken, these women in 30/s look for someone who just pay their bill for the life, usually the good guy who they themselves rejected!
Not gonna happen. Good guys are awakening.
And there are those good men who just haven't found the right girl yet. Or girls rejected them and a lot of guys just "give up" dating for a while and obviously women won't approach men constantly, so chances of anything happening is low. These men will probably start looking for girls again at some point at whatever age. And then the girls will find good men again. Until then it's just fuckbois everywhere.
It could be one of the reasons why "good men" gets sometimes misunderstood by women who got abused in toxic relationships. Women may think the guy is just faking it and it's just an act maybe.
To be honest. It's not really difficult to tell if a man or a woman is toxic. Comes out pretty quickly in a relationship, a lot of times in just few dates.
After a while it's really not really on the toxic person if you one chooses to stay with such.
Your totally right, I have got to say con men are very hard to work out till later down the line, One of my friends from school was with a man for years he was living a double life with another female kids etc. She didn't find out till quite some time after. I Suppose it's a matter of finding a good one which is very rare in this day and age.
You don't need the developing problems. I stay single and if someone comes along, then ok. If not, I am fine also. Miss some things, some not.
I sure try. Company is the biggest thing though, it could come tomorrow, probably not, but I don't worry about it.
Just about your update. Do you know why taken men come off as more attractive to lots women? Because they don’t care about impressing you or what you think of them (as opposed to a single man who is interested in dating you). They are just being themselves. Some of the unscrupulous ones might have idea or two of getting in your pants. But most taken guys are just don’t care one way or another.
Women have very strong intuition and sniff out hints of desperation in men which fair or not (usually very unfair) is a huge turn off for them. Taken guys will rarely give off those vibes. So they are a challenge. Some women get even more turned out that they are “forbidden”.
I can remember how differently women acted around me when I was in a long term relationship. I've had women try to give me their number and always try to connect on social media. It’s just nuts.
I really wish women can be more intro perspective about this. You can fantasize about it which we both know goes nowhere. Or even if your dream came true and he leaves his girlfriend/wife for you then he will very likely leave you for someone else. Not worth it at all.
I totally agree with you, This man is one in a million I have dated a lot of men and found not one of them respected me or treated me or even took the time to talk to me the way he did, It just happened to be a married man who literally felt like my soul mate, I know it's not worth it all and i would never want to break up a family so I did step aside the friendship with him.
That’s because his horniness is greatly dissipated given his steady access to you know what (hopefully). Its like the scene in the old movie “there is something about Mary” where Ben Stillers friend tells him to “clear the pipes” before his big date. He’s more relaxed and honest.
If he wasn’t married he still probably would be a great guy. But he would be more anxious for something if he was attracted to you. Even if he was patient and as well mannered as you said you would still sense it.
I get it that women don’t like pushy guys. But it’s in our biology to have those needs. Doesn’t mean we should be an aggressive creeps. But women shouldn’t get all taken aback if they “sense” that. It’s normal (that and needing romance).
Spend your time meeting single men. Just because they are single it doesn’t mean there is something wrong with them. They might be waiting for the right woman. Also dating as a semi good looking guy vs. dating as semi good looking girl is radically different.
I would say good/best men is a bit misleading. She probably mostly means it in terms of behaviour, not just looks. Just like she said, he met a mature and kind guy. I don't know a lot of guys like that, and i'm a guy hah. There is always something not completely right with them..
@ElvenMr oh I totally mean behaviour I'm not at all shallow with looks, I would prefer a great man with a great heart than a beautiful looking man with a ugly heart, I just seem to attract the ugly hearts and I can't understand why, I suppose it doesn't help I am very in to my own looks I have botox anf fillers and I enjoy beauty regimes, I don't have an amazing job and I'm not that smart.
The more you care about your looks, (i mean after a certain point) the more primitive/toxic men you'll attract imho. Oh and i find that showing others that you have a good heart and good intentions is way harder, then showing that you are a jerk. And girls might misinterpret something a guy says and now they think the guy is an asshole.
There is a sweetspot you can stay in as a girl, but i have no idea where that is tbh. I know that i won't even try with girls who look like they put on too much make up, or have fake boobs etc.. a bit like how you described yourself. Although lip filler and some nice make up can look good.
I would prefer girls who stay natural tho.
I always think girls who care too much about her own looks will care too much about mine as well, and well i'm not perfect.. so yeah. And i think to myself they probably don't want anything serious anyway.
@ElvenMr that sounds like me, I am really in to my looks but looks don't mean a thing to me on a man it's the personality for me, I got bullied when I was younger so I decided to really try harder to fit in with the way girls were preciceved as pretty, I don't want someone to judge me by the way I look but I must just send out the wrong messages, I mean I love make up beauty hair nails the works but I also love emo rock music etc. I have such an open mind, I just want to find happiness with someone who loves me for me and the same love for them ❤
Dumb luck and high standards. Closest I can get to a standard is that neither of us lost our virginity until I proposed. My virginity was my choice. Not fair to demand my wife do something I’m not willing to do myself.
I don't really care about the concept of virginity, what about her personality? How was that different from other women and what are some examples of behaviors you would dump women for?
I believe the number of sex partners plays into the concept of loyalty.
But I always pretended with other women that I dated that the number of sex partners wasn’t a big deal, in order to get them honest about it. Only one other woman got past date 2, and she wound up cheating on me, then cheating on her new fiancé, then getting pregnant and coming to me and saying if I didn’t raise her kid, she’d abort it. I got picture message of the toilet a couple of days later.
That’s why I say “luck.”
I can fuck and fuck sluts but never cheat when I commit.
To each their own though, thanks for the info and sorry about the crazy ex.
My perception of a "best man" wasn't intended on looks, loyalty, respect, stability etc. I just found married men used to the life of being around a woman and knowing the traits of married life as they have already experienced this, I have male friends that are married and I seem to find them more down to earth and ready for commitment, all the single guys in this day and age I have came across aren't looking for anything serious and half of them were still contuining the bachelor lifestyle.
A lot of these singles you are referring to also have major issues which is why they are still single at such a ripe age
Yes I agree with you and what you're looking for is a very special person which is out there I know that for you I can feel your energy and you have a very beautiful heart and I'm pretty sure that you'll find that person pretty soon it all depends on how this covid-19 stuff turns are the direction it starts going that's what's holding me back I think
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