Why are the best men already married 🙄😫😫? (Page 2)
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Because men of quality, who are wanted, are an opportunity that women will not allow to pass if these men happen to be single. That man, if he is smart, will be picky in who he chooses to give him commitment to. And a smart woman who knows other women want her man will make sure she keeps her man interested by being a good partner who takes care of him. If she fucks up, another woman will come right in and do everything right that the other did wrong.
That’s what happens when you don’t find a partner in your 20’s. The emotionally healthy people that wanted a partner found one. You didn’t for whatever reason and will have to find one among the men who did the same, or men who are out of a failed relationship. But it’s not hopeless. My wife and I both made bad marriages, then met and have been very happy together.
80% of divorces in the US are initiated by women. This would suggest that a lot of the middle-aged men available are ones that other women found lacking in some way or another. Also, a high-quality single man in his 30s stands a good chance of attracting a woman five to ten years younger than him. This makes things difficult for women who find themselves single in their 30s and later.
The best men aren't taken. Many of them are single, they're just not spotted by women. All the pimps, baby daddies and wannabe gangstas are... and not only that, but they've got a handful of women flocking around them daily. I'm. watching it right outside my building. My roommate is even 1... and not a nice guy to women at all, though he's good on his half of the bills. He brought 3 over last night-and that doesn't count his main squeeze who he half caves in her head about every other week. Nuttin nice about it...😏
The best solid successful good-looking men are snatched up by well-rounded relatively stable-minded women with little or zero baggage when they're in their 20s. As the years pass, time and life wear at you, and you become older and more jaded the best men you're going to qualify more and more are the guys you would've rejected when you were young and glowing. At 35+ you really need to be looking for guys who will treat you right, respect you and do the best they can to be there for you. You're long past the expiration date for white horse prince charming. Go for the nerd you rejected at 23 but now he's 42, got into shape and still has a crush on you.
Not true but realistically there's a reason they are married. However since over half marriages end in divorce are they really the best men? Just find someone you are compatible with that your could see going through tough times with. No such thing as perfect relationship.
Good, best, bad are very subjective.
How many guys like the 'most amazing man' have you turned down in the past?
Did you think that they would be still hanging around for when you were 'ready'?
I haven't actually turned any of the decent guys away I have had two serious relationships in my life and both started well and ended up very bad, the men I tend to date are the only ones that show me attention and they turn our to be the type of men that I have no intention of committing to.
That is just confirmation bias; the food on someone else's plate always looks better. If the taken men weren't pre-screened by other women, you would find a reason to not like them.
I understand what you mean, When I met this amazing married man I am referring to i actually didn't know he was married to begin with, I felt he was respectful, kind and charming something I have never experienced before, Had doors held open for me, Umbrellas to hold in the rain, I mean the 30 years I have been alive I have never had a man treat me like I meant something before, I hope there is other men like this but available
Other men like him are out there, I guarantee it!
I wish I could have a sign or at least the address of someone like him 🤣
Oh great, not another one of these... The next thing we're going to get is "all the other men are trash" at this rate.
Nope not all men are trash, I seem to meet the trash that's all 🤣
From having enough male friends I know often some of the best guys are hidden in plain sight.
It’s easy to be kind for two minutes to strangers. In relationships there will always be times when they’ll be difficult to deal with and others when they’ll be sweeter than honey. Love isn’t easy.
New pic is gorgeous😍
the best men statistically date 22 year olds maximum. its far too late for you to date like that
perhaps its time we warn young women sooner that dating needs to be done before school. your college degree can wait, your relationship potential cannot
Only women who can’t see the true value in a good man say that and usually let them slip through their fingers or he didn’t become a good man until he met a great woman like that old saying goes
I did meet a amazing man and he was unfortunately married. We were friends nothing more but I fell hard for him.
That’s why men and women can’t be friends
Yep, Unless your friends with couples and you are also in a relationship, On them terms I think its acceptable
No not even then
They don't mess around and marry the woman they are compatible with so it happens easily for them,& that woman knows what she has. Don't worry im sure your future husband is out there somewhere. Im 23 and too hope to marry one day too.
Because they are the best men and somebody else latched onto them first. You have to be fast to catch the good ones.
Totally agree.
I could say the same for all the best girls, since I've never been anything but single because every girl I've ever looked at is unavailable or else unsuitable.
Yep totally understand this, let's change my term on best men in to best people 🤣
Some of us end up with crazy cheaters and get divorced. Only down is we usually have kids or so I am told. Men get a bum wrap because most women think the man was the problem. Lol
Women can be just as bad as men tbh. It's a matter of person I suppose.
Lol I know, she was the cheater. I think most people blame the guy because it was more common at some point not sure any more.
I still feel men get targeted more than women of the perception of being the bad guy but honestly it works both ways, you always bad and good people in any type of situation in life, I just used the term men because I'm a female who is interested in men.
The thing is the women who noticed there ways of life and how they carry themselves through different life circumsatnaces,
and behavioural style did not take no chance in saying yes to them but they simply followed the brains and said yes to them.
Though our times of present many people do fall in lobe for looks or material things and tbat is where the problem begins from.
Yes, the best men are taken... by the best women, who were smart enough to know what a good woman actually is, and try to be that woman, and to jump at the opportunity when she finds it rather that squandering her prime years looking for something that won't make her happy in the end.
The best ones aren't taken. They're just having fun with multiple women, and have no need to commit to one :)
Those type of men aren't the "best men".
@3QOOs Natural selection says otherwise.
Triggered some disembowelee-wannabes with this one lol.