Because women's standards are too high and they won't compromise. You can be better than her in every way. Looks, income, personality, etc. But she might still reject you cause she can get a guy that's even better than you in those ways (only for sex though). For this reason women think they're 9s and 10s when really they're like 5s and 6s
Hmm. That hasn't been my personal experience, but maybe those guys you are referring to were expecting the world. I was never told to date up. I was just told to be normal, but that will never happen.
The average women has far more sexual mean value (SMV) than the average male early on. So the party which is weaker and had less choices has to compromise.
It's not true. I like tall guys and I have been told to compromise. I am in good shape and people want me to date chubby guys because a man is allowed to be visual but a woman is not because it's a man's world 🤷♀️
Who tells you such FUD? Go for what YOU want. And she better look fukkin good in the morning, with no makeup, cuz if you marry her you'll be staring at that mug for the rest of your life. She better fuck like a minx too.
One word: hypocrisy. It's apparently okay for a woman to demand that her potential 'significant other' be tall, rich and successful, but if a man doesn't want a woman who is fat, that's somehow unacceptable.
My standards is no fat women. No short hair women. No hair dyes. Has to be taller than 5'5. Can't be in debt. Can't have more than 2 kids, that have to be near empty nest.
@Qdbrown My standards are minimum 6ft2 tall, minimum 7.5 inch cock, well dressed, high earnings, dominant, strong jaw, muscular, deep voice, big hands.
I meet your every criteria and I found dating so burdensome I don't. I can't imagine what an average height average earning guy needs to do to date anymore if it's bad for me it must be hell.
Stick to a woman closer to your own age. A woman in her 30s is typically looking for someone who is childless and without baggage. A man to start a family with
Wellll my older cousin and I got in an argument because he said most men wouldn’t want rich women because they wouldn’t respect them. So now that sounds like men choose not to go after them
@Tinana why would men want to be disrespected? Women do look down on lower income men.
That's why men work so much more overtime, stay at jobs they hat for years, have longer commutes and are %98 if those killed or dismembered in the job?
We earn money to appeal to women because we are judged by our income.
Ladies, let me help you translate this. In a nutshell, why are you trying to force / normalize men into accepting single mothers. I will fight to help men have more self-confidence than that.
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Because women's standards are too high and they won't compromise. You can be better than her in every way. Looks, income, personality, etc. But she might still reject you cause she can get a guy that's even better than you in those ways (only for sex though). For this reason women think they're 9s and 10s when really they're like 5s and 6s
Hmm. That hasn't been my personal experience, but maybe those guys you are referring to were expecting the world. I was never told to date up. I was just told to be normal, but that will never happen.
Because social media has set unrealistic standards and men want women who live up to Kim K body types and Kylie Jenner lips.
Most girls just want a cute guy who takes care of themselves and their girl.
The average women has far more sexual mean value (SMV) than the average male early on. So the party which is weaker and had less choices has to compromise.
So they stop complaining about being single?
I don't know. In my xp, both sides are told they have too high standards. And in my opinion, neither side should date someone they don't want to.
It's not true. I like tall guys and I have been told to compromise. I am in good shape and people want me to date chubby guys because a man is allowed to be visual but a woman is not because it's a man's world 🤷♀️
always? im 54 and dated so many women i lost count years ago but i can't recall ever being asked to ''compromise standards''.
Who tells you such FUD?
Go for what YOU want. And she better look fukkin good in the morning, with no makeup, cuz if you marry her you'll be staring at that mug for the rest of your life. She better fuck like a minx too.
Very simply, because men are used to making compromises while women aren't... women want it their way only.
One word: hypocrisy. It's apparently okay for a woman to demand that her potential 'significant other' be tall, rich and successful, but if a man doesn't want a woman who is fat, that's somehow unacceptable.
Describe specifically what you mean by 'standards'?
My standards is no fat women. No short hair women. No hair dyes. Has to be taller than 5'5. Can't be in debt. Can't have more than 2 kids, that have to be near empty nest.
@Qdbrown My standards are minimum 6ft2 tall, minimum 7.5 inch cock, well dressed, high earnings, dominant, strong jaw, muscular, deep voice, big hands.
Go get'em.
@neilsmart, as in hard or soft?
LMAO
I meet your every criteria and I found dating so burdensome I don't. I can't imagine what an average height average earning guy needs to do to date anymore if it's bad for me it must be hell.
@Slartybartfast we just have high standards that many men can't reach.
@otaku_owl_91 minimum 7 inches hard
@neilsmart cool. I'm black, so 😌
@otaku_owl_91 and what does that have to do with it?
We're "blessed". 😏
@otaku_owl_91 what length is your cock?
@neilsmart about 6 on soft, 9 on hard.
@otaku_owl_91 that's very respectable, puberty served you well. I'm intrigued
Why do you feel the need to listen to people about what standards you should hold?
What desperate and despicable
creature has asked you to compromise your standards?
I would kindly remind them that true love never compromises.
Hell if I know. It's not like landing an 18 year old debt free tattooless virgin is difficult, lol !
Coz woman has i go one day leave her family to guys place. So the guy better pull up his socks. Lol
Why do you take a look at the negativity towards 30 something yr old women on this website?
What are they saying?
My only problem with 30 somethings is that I'm too old to date them.
@jerdanro
Don’t wait until you’re 47 to start dating. If you want to get married , do it before 40.
I don’t to be rude but I always laugh when I see 50 yr old guys who want kids. Who waits that long?
I was married for 17 years, I've been divorced for 3 years, and I have 3 kids. I don't want more kids. Just a companion. Someone to love.
@jerdanro
Stick to a woman closer to your own age. A woman in her 30s is typically looking for someone who is childless and without baggage. A man to start a family with
That's actually what I meant. 38 or 39 is my lower limit.
Women date up, men take what they can get or opt out..
Wellll my older cousin and I got in an argument because he said most men wouldn’t want rich women because they wouldn’t respect them. So now that sounds like men choose not to go after them
@Tinana why would men want to be disrespected? Women do look down on lower income men.
That's why men work so much more overtime, stay at jobs they hat for years, have longer commutes and are %98 if those killed or dismembered in the job?
We earn money to appeal to women because we are judged by our income.
Sorry for the typos, I'm litteraly hundreds of feet in the air replacing lights ATM..
Told, by who, kiddo? Seems you've read some bullshit on 4chan, and have run with it.
Ladies, let me help you translate this. In a nutshell, why are you trying to force / normalize men into accepting single mothers. I will fight to help men have more self-confidence than that.
Because men were put on earth to serve women, didn't you know?