My female boss wants me to go out with her... should I agree?

[Anonymous]

She's 34 years old.
She's always been extra friendly with me (but she's like that with everyone) but last week started to text me on WhatsApp, ask me how I am doing, if we can go out and drink something together, etc.
Today She asked me if tomorrow night we can go out and also if I have a girlfriend or something when I told her I'd let her know.
A coworker told me she got a guy tranferred because he had a girlfriend, so I don't want to end up the same way or get fired...
What do I do?

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+1 y

She texted again asking if I'm free tonight. This morning I was stupid enough to tell I had nothing to do...

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+1 y

We went out together yesterday night.
Nothing weird happened but she asked what free day I want her to give me this week (she makes the schedules) with the implication she'll have her free day that same day.
I hope I haven't messes up

[OlderAndWiser]

Save all of your DMs with her so that, if you don't work out and she retalitaes against you, there wll be evidence to prove an employment sexual discrimination case.

[Asker]

Already doing that
She seems to be really nice and not vindictive but you never know

[loveslongnails]

Why are you posting this anonymously?
Obviously with your age difference, she's a cougar and wants to use you for sex. If you do decide to go out with her and she wants to have sex, try and record it so you have something over her if she tries to transfer you or fire you. I'm not joking about this. It will be difficult to do if you have sex in her house, but find a way to get it done. Or, if you're worried she'll mistreat you if you turn her down, tell her your gay. :)

[Asker]

What's a cougar?
We just had a drink together now, she's more friendly than anything else but wants to hang out again

[loveslongnails]

A "cougar" is an older woman who likes and seduces younger men.

[Interstate]

Tell her NO. If it goes South, your job becomes in question, and honestly I would report it to Corporate. It can be construed as Unprofessional and she is abusing he authority.

[Anonymous]

There's no right answer to this. Sorry man. Good luck.

[Asker]

I know
It's a 'damned if you do, damned if you don't situation right

[awkward_author]

That’s not a good idea. You can probably report her for sexual harassment at this point, though.

[Tomtom9494]

She’s lonely and is taking a risk seems too embarrassed when rejected and will send you off or have you layed off

[Anonymous]

I would avoid going out with her... unless you are moving on to another job.

[es20490446e]

it just depends if you like her.

[Anonymous]

Go and bang her

[Asker]

Don't I risk anything?

[Opinion Owner]

nah maybe she will even give you a raise or promotion

[spartan55]

Do not do it.

[boobliker]

only if you like her and? job?

[In_Trance]

nope

[fireforeffect]

It is dangerious.

[Anonymous]

Bad idea my friend.