Why does my ex always breaks up when I hurt him but takes me back so affectionately and sweetly when I want to get back with him?

[Anonymous]

[destinyball]

he acts impulsively and is ready for the breakup because you cause him pain but isn't ready to lose you or watch you move on without him

[Asker]

No, he's ready to let me go if I don't love him, with utmost anger. But when I go back to him he is very affectionately taking me back

[destinyball]

if you're hurting him then you shouldn't keep going back because it will destroy him

[Asker]

No, I love him. I didn't hurt him intentionally. But unintentionally

[bones_20]

Why do you hurt him?

[Asker]

By mistake

[bones_20]

I feel like I need a lot more information on this situation. Right now I don’t really understand it.

Have you two tried talking to a therapist? I feel like maybe that could help.

[In_Trance]

Wtf even is this?

[destinyball]

yeah fr