Yeah I mean who needs to have sex with someone first to figure out if he can have a relationship with them? My fear is he will sleep with me until he gets bored or till someone he actually wants a relationship with from comes along then he would have “hit it” without any commitment and he can ghost me or tell me “we aren’t compatible” and I can’t get mad because I agreed to having something casual first, to see if we could be more. Feels like I’m walking myself into a trap but on the other hand he could just genuinely see himself more physical with me than relationship and he would like to be physical with me and see if feelings grow overtime. but If I do take him up on his over I’m gonna be very careful and also keep my options open and not expect much here
If you feel that way, then be forward with him. Don’t setup yourself like that. It will jade you damage your self esteem. Chances are he will fuck you for a month and then move on. Don’t prostitute your body to garner attention from men you like. It’s a bad route to go down. You’re setting the relationship in a trajectory for failure if this isn’t what you want. You have value outside of sex and no one else will see that if you just offer sex without people getting to know you. I’ve been there and done that. Exercise high self value. Don’t give into temptation like this. It’s a trap.
every man is different though he could be saying this with full intention of never have a relationship with me but I guess that’s something I have to figure out on my own
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You think he’ll hit it till for some reason he doesn’t anymore without any commitment
Can't be sure but most probably, yes. People with commitment don't talk like this.