
What was the "ick" that caused you to reject someone?


In college, this woman used to come into the store where I worked all the time. One day, she was on the phone with her son, and she started excitedly talking about me to him telling him how I was beautiful and a good person, and that we should meet (she said this without asking me about any of this and she and he were total strangers to me outside of me asking her if she like needed a dressing room). She kept at it even though I was like, hey stranger lady, I don't know you or him and I dont't want to meet. Eventually I just said sure, thinking she'd hand me his number and then leave me alone and I'd never call. Nope, she turns around and she's like, he'll be here in 10 minutes. I was in shock and instantly regretted saying yes to try and brush her off to leave me alone. Literally 10 minutes later, this guy shows up and he's clearly a gang member. He's got the tell tale tattoos of gangs in our city, he's got gold teeth, he's mumbling his words. It was an instant no for me and super awkward because the mom was standing there like she was looking at her future daughter in law. Thankfully I never saw them ever again.
God, I know what youāre talking about with the spit. I think my āickā was a guy in high school who would snort and clear his throat at the same time, like every 5 minutes. I donāt know what it was, but it made me cringe. He would talk to me and do it, and I would just have the urge to gag, I couldnāt deal with it. I had to tell him that I was too busy at home to even consider dating
Horrible, horrible teeth. The idea of kissing her made me want to spew a fountain of vomit! And she was otherwise a very nice and attractive lady!
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I rejected one guy for telling me he looked at porn and I rejected another guy for slandering me when I was in a relationship and not able to date him. When I was single again, I remembered how he treated me when I was taken.
I once told a guy to leave after 2 hours of potentially fucking because he smelled like armpit and his breath didnāt smell any better. [he came over when he got off work - didnāt even have the common decency to go home and ensure his hygiene]
So I told him to ājust goā lol looking back I do feel bad but at the same time itās like ācāmon man. Get your shit together.ā
There was a guy I met up with at my apartment for the first time.
And he came onto very aggressively. He stood close to me, wanted to cuddle and kiss, and kept asking what I thought of him.
He also went outside to buy some weed and came back up after.
Safe to say I kept him at a distance, and the next day I messaged him that that was it.
They started smoking. That when I lost complete interest.
He had a crush with almost every girl in school, he came to me when they all rejected him.
He said he's not looking for a relationship.
his sexual past
he wasn't tall
She was a trumpanzee
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