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You know what the problem with people is… first y’all worry too much what others think. Second people are completely unable to simplify life. They have to have a set of goals and circumstances. What if you happen to find a guy you like and he looks awesome? What if the fucker puts on 50 lbs cause he changes jobs or he gets sick you don’t wanna date him? So god damn stupid we gotta have hot rather then gotta not be unhealthy.
Who wants to date a guy who is a slob or doesn’t care enough to bother taking care of himself?
I’m not interested in playing mommy to someone who let himself go.
It's shallow? I wasn't at all aware of that. Why is that? Can you provide more information on this? Does it mean that regardless of how much I like someone, that I should reject him because someone else regards it as shallow, or not, or this or that?
No one is complaining about women wanting to date guys with sexy bodies.
The criticism is about women overlooking other serious character flaws because of the hot body. (And getting played. Or worse, possibly abused.)
No man here has any issue with any fit, muscular man getting a woman. They worked hard. They deserve it. Respect to them.
Ehhh I beg to differ. There’s a lot of men on here that argue with me about them not being the “20%” and how life isn’t fair lol
@kyleelyn199723. Well, that isn't me! Lol
@Jamie05rhs oh I know! Lol but best believe 🤣
Though, women going after the top 20% isn't really a personal problem but a mathematical sociological problem. And it isn't so much a problem for men as it is a problem for women. Because the women all compete with each other for those men, and even the ones who "win" usually don't get to keep the men.
But I never complain about it. I don't give a shit.
@Jamie05rhs it all comes down to who you are as a woman yourself
@kyleelyn199723 What do you mean?
Shallow on both ends!! In the real world amongst the ordinary peeps , not everyone will be chiseled, gorgeous, hot.. now I'm not saying there are not very pretty folks out there in shape and don't do shit to look like that... sorry to say those people aren't very humble... believe it or not but pretty folks get a few unseen perks that a... not so pretty person would get!! That's just being real.. 💯😏
It's not! I just get tired of hearing you b****es complain when the attractive, fit guys f***s you and kicks you to the curb. Take some responsibility for your choices lol.
Grow up! I want someone who looks like Scarlet Johansson and has a heart of gold. I'm just smart enough to know she doesn't exist. And so should you lol
:/ ...
It is not shallow if you are fit yourself. Likewise, men who demand for fit women.
Everyone has a different taste.
For me, I don’t care much. If I love a person I love them with their extra kgs.
It would even be great to cuddle with a fluffy person.
Everyone has the right to choose, don't care what other people think about your problems, the most important thing is to confidently express everything you want to know, I will definitely not date unhealthy men.
I wouldn't call it shallow if she's not being a "body positivity for me" person. There's a lot of women who will only date the "peak" of men but if a man makes any remarks about them they'll throw a tantrum.
In short date who you want. Idgaf.
Not shallow at all... if it is then I guess I am shallow as well. I enjoy eyecandy myself. Sure I like a guy with other attributes too but I also enjoy a guy who looks hot in and out of his clothes too.
Preferences are preferences, regardless of which gender has them. If that's what you want then that's up to you.
I think limiting your dating pool potentially means missing out on some great people, but that's your choice and no one else's.
Wanting to date someone who is in shape and takes care of their body is not shallow.
It's not its just a preference and peoples preferences are ever changing without them even realising a lot of the time but if that's what you want and you can get it why not.
I think it's fine if she likes a particular type of guy.
Just like I want to date a skinny girl with small breasts.
Why you care about being called shallow?
https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/HotGuyUglyWife
Blondes aren’t close to being my preference. I like women with black hair particularly Latina. But she could also be white, black Middle East whatever. I think I had every girl look at me besides maybe Indian. Haven’t been associated with a lot of them.
My ideal blonde is a somewhat tall, fit with a phat ass. ❤️
I'm blond but have small breast, however I prefer fit guys. Who really cares about "shallowness" opinion of some guys who project their inability to find partners on preferences of others?
Both are considered shallow and both can do whatever they want.
Why is it shallow for men to wanna date hot women? If you just thought of 100 reasons then it’s the same thing as why it’s shallow for women to wanna date fit girls. You see it 247 how everyone saying girls are not perfect and men expect girls to be perfect but it isn’t true. A men just wants girl who isn’t fat takes care of herself and is called shallow for it. There are girls who won’t date a guy who’s too short or a guy who doesn’t have abs even if he’s in really good shape