Under what conditions would you forgive cheating? (Page 2)

Question

If he is truly sorry and truly wants to be only with me.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

None, there are zero conditions in which I would forgive it. If she cheats then she loses me as someone she interacts with in any way.

acooke-13 · Answer

I don't. I simply, leave. He obviously doesn't want to just be with me if he's cheating on me.

Anonymous · Answer

If she is truly sorry for cheating, then I would definitely forgive her if she gets away from my life.

FreakInTheBedroom · Answer

It can be forgiven but the trust will never fully be their again

Toast792 · Answer

Depends on what you consider 'cheating'. I'd need a specific scenario to form an opinion on this

Mediterraneansoul · Answer

Where DNA is exchanged and genitals have mixed there is only a room for forgiveness if they both get lost. No way you could let someone back into your life to kiss and love whrn theh exchanged what is special between you and them

hi_it_is_me123 · Answer

In such situations torture should be allowed or cheat back in order to make him have emphaty and guilt. These low lifes deserve the worst.

awkward_author · Answer

I'll forgive cheating if it was done without a sober and stable mind.

_Damien · Answer

I've forgiven cheating once, but our relationship ended regardless. She did it because she was sexually frustrated and I could see why.

Deserter · Answer

She'd have to fulfill all of my sexual wants and desires to be given a second chance. If she cheats again it'll be the same, but I'd actually dump her after getting it.

EaterPeter · Answer

First and second time proper apology. A few if it had already happened second time first apology is kind of void. So only first time sincere apology with proper follow up. 4 steps?

msg999 · Answer

I am Turkish and there is a Turkish proverb about such situations. Its English translation is like that "The one who forgave the betrayal his wife will soon realize that she is no longer his wife."

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Cheats always cheat again…. Not even if they died in the process. I’d just say, “bye”.

bean2k21 · Answer

Were you clear about the rules before he cheated? If not, then he's done nothing wrong.

blissinanarchy1 · Answer

If the guy that had sex with her catches a few bullets

mattclark242 · Answer

um if they really love you them maybe other wise no.

Anonymous · Answer

well here is the issue, what if the girl got pregnant from the person she had an affair with is the better question? abortion are murder. so give birth the that child either give it away to another family or keep it and we go our separate ways.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Noooooo, Marish! Don't do it! Don't take him back. You should not tolerate that AT ALL, sister! You are worth more than that.

Staximus · Answer

None. It's not forgivable. If he truly wants to only be with you, he would have never cheated in the first place. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Effie2004 · Answer

Never would. My uncle wife would cheat he kept taking her back. To point the kids they had. Turns out not be his. Causing my uncle to take his own life.

AdithyaR · Answer

I would never. I can never someone if they cheat on me cause the trust is broken irreparably.

douride2 · Answer

There is never any conditions that would warrant me to forgive cheating.

donnny2367764 · Answer

Under the condition that she sucks me off in front of the other dude she cheated on Me with

Gingerguy33 · Answer

Never it’s not worth it there’s much better people out there

Cowboy6666 · Answer

Um how can you say for sure that he is truly sorry and won't cheat on you again?  Any assurance about that 🤔

Naughtyboy71 · Answer

Being honest it the reason he cheated say he cheated  he wanted to fuck her that decision was made  are you giving him everything he needs

Anonymous · Answer

When mankind can come up with a way for the creep to unfuck that person! THEN I might consider it! Otherwise, you are DEAD to me!

AMA_ImAnOpenBook · Answer

Cheating is a 1 and done. I will forgive you, but the relationship is over.

boobliker · Answer

none at all if go off with some one else then she gone.

Better_off_here · Answer

well, i guess if she showed me she had changed and could be a better person. with time i guess i could forgive her.

Riannalee · Answer

Only if u did as well. Otherwise take it from me as the victim many times... you can try to forgive... but you will NEVER forget

whosnumber1 · Answer

it would depend on the circumstances of our relationship.

Lunatic1 · Answer

Never. If you cheat once we are exclusive, we are done.

Anonymous · Answer

Never because, one of my ex girlfriends had sex with her guy friend when i was 18 at the time and it was very unexpected  It was so much drama and horrible for me

Hanrej · Answer

I would forgive it if she felt like she could be honest about it in the future.

Paul09 · Answer

Zero conditions. You go back, you are a pushover. Bring used.

Guanfei · Answer

None. Cheating is unforgivable, you cheat, you're out and dead to me.

Edward02 · Answer

only if the guy pointed a gun at her head and said: kiss me or I'll kill you…. in that case I forgive

Paigecreator · Answer

you can't tell the heart of men like when they are truly sorry and when they are pretending to be sorry Smh🤦‍♀️

Anonymous · Answer

Under no circumstance should cheating be forgivable. Y'all are grown adults who are conscious of their actions. If one of you cheats, that's the end of the relationship. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

fireforeffect · Answer

The Bible tells us that if our brother sins against us and asks forgiveness, we should forgive. I know it is difficult.

Anonymous · Answer

If it was with another woman and she involved me in future endeavors.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't... ever! With me it's one strike you're out.

notawomanagod · Answer

i tasted my buddies dick in my exes vagina once so i kinda had to let it go

Nwahillbilly · Answer

My ex offered to get me to go and fuck her with them

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on what he did. If he only got a blowjob you can easily forgive him.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably if the partner did it under threats of harm or blackmail

brezzybaby · Answer

Nope I can never forget that

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Under no circumstances.

Anonymous · Answer

If he had a really big dick and she just wanted to try us

Anonymous · Answer

Typically I wouldn’t forgive cheating. Now if they got drugged or something absolutely extreme happened then things could be worked out

Heartache0405 · Answer

Cheating is unforgivable in my book.

RedStiletto88 · Answer

I would NEVER forgive a cheater.

Agape93 · Answer

None. I don't forgive betrayals.

Billlewis · Answer

All circumstances.

AncientWisdom · Answer

None no excuse for cheating.

ohshee · Answer

I wouldn't forgive I would just on

Marianna34n · Answer

Well i would never forgive him

Blackcupcake · Answer

never… the trust is broken

Under what conditions would you forgive cheating? (Page 2)

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.