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Can 14-17 year olds have a 21-year old boyfriend? (Page 2)
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I think it's gross if they're still a minor and in high school. If they're at least 18 or 19 and you're 21, then I believe that is okay.
If a 21 year old dated a 14 year old then they are sick in the head, regardless of what gender.
You don't want to get a sex arrest. That follows you for your whole life. If you are interested in a young girl, Maybe 16 and up, approach the parents first and show them your honest intentions. 14 is too young and immature.
Why are you hiding behind anonymous? Please show yourself so I know who to point to when I contact the FBI :)
Don't you think 14 and 21 is too big of an age gap? The maturity level is very different from each other. I'd say you go for 16+
İ was with an 18 year old recently, I have to say it depends on the people but it sure is difficult, people at those ages are still chaotic and building towards their adult form
I like age gaps and younger girls... but at least let them be an adult first, dude.
Exact-fucking-ly
It'd be a bad idea to date girls that age, due to their immaturity. Date 18 and over.
14 is too young, gunna be illegal in most countries. 17yr old sure, if they want.
I just don't understand how dating a 14 year old is legal, anywhere when you're that age.
if you were my daughter i would say No, but as a person on here legal or not it is just strange, odd, makes me wonder why this 21-year-old man can not get a girl his own age to date?
Reminder for why I'm not having children, the world was and will keep remaining a shithole.
Now look who needs to get off of Reddit and touch some grass (or eat it as you would put it). No wonder you're so defensive and aggressive when you're very much the one holding this incredibly pessimistic view about the world. Poor girl.
@TruthBringer Yeah you seem like the kind who would enjoy the movie Cuties. You really need someone to tame you down, you are too childish and whiny for a man who believes in the "truth" lol
@poof_22 Funny you mentioned that since I actually am very much against such a movie. So now implying I'm a pedophile without there being a single indication for that. You need help, missy. Go touch some grass.
@TruthBringer so are you a pessimist or a realist? Cause you seem to fit the delusion narrative better.
Is that what you call a comeback? Wow. I've seen 12 year olds being better at roasting attempts. I can smell the next logical fallacy coming.
@TruthBringer go argue with some 12 year olds then. They seem like the perfect opponent for you.
No need for me to do that considering because unlike you I'm more capable in holding intellectual discussion with people who aren't immature to throw temper tantrums and personal insults when met with a different narrative than they have. Thanks for the good laugh.
@TruthBringer you ignore peoples arguments and continue running with your own narrative. I've seen types likes you, it's never about understanding each others point but to simply play devil's advocate. Keep getting all worked out, I don't even take you seriously to hold a discussion let alone an intellectual one lol
You've not given a proper argument to begin with. I've come with an argument to the other person which you didn't manage to debunk, but rather resorted to shallow personal attacks and name calling. Missy, you hold no credibility whatsoever. And yet you think you're the one in the position to decide who should taken seriously. Coping at its finest. you know what that reminds me of? These dudes who get rejected by a girl and then tell her that THEY dodged a bullet, although they are the ones who got rejected. Same principle, different context. 😂
" Keep getting all worked out". Still projecting lmfao. Enjoy that cope 😂
@TruthBringer You created your own definition of feminism. Let's be real for a sec, you don't care about understanding someone's point or else you would make an effort to listen and not throw baseless "arguments". I don't know what's going on with your life but fuming over someone's comment on the internet it's genuinely pathetic and quite laughable.
@poof_22 I actually haven't created my own definition. Everyone knows by now that feminism strays away from the culture of traditionalism trying to build a new narrative in the world for women. That's the whole point of their existence. And sweetheart, it is you who starts fuming over people who don't hold your belief system. Hence why you're so keen on throwing personal insults. It's quite funny how you're so blind to your own actions.
@TruthBringer As I've mentioned earlier, the basic CORE of feminism is the liberation of women from ze patriarchi and feminism has many branches with certain ideologies. If you can't understand that, it is not my problem. You personally can not dictate what makes someone a feminist or not because you are clueless yourself. How can I argue with someone who makes shit up and parrots the same rhetorics as incels? I'll keep throwing "insults" cause they seem to bother you enough to mention them so keep going I guess, I enjoy it lol
@poof_22 Feminism is far more than that. Especially since traditional women are seen as "victims" of za patriarchyyyy and therefore feminists stray away from being called that. Well, unless it is in their benefits. Hence why we call it selective-feminism.
Your insults are actually funny because they reflect your own personality rather than my own. So please do keep going indeed 😂
@TruthBringer traditional women are way more likely to stay in abusive relationships with men when they are depended on them financially and a lot of them take advantage of that by treating her life shit, happens way to often to not call it an issue. You still didn't get through your thick skull that feminism is not one big linear dogma that all women agree on since liberal and radical feminism for example are pretty damn different from each other.
When people start using laughing emojis on their texts, it's an indicator of annoyance and petty passive aggressiveness but sure boo
You’ve pulled yet another red herring that has completely nothing to do with the actual discussion that was at hand. We are talking about whether identifying as a feminist AND a traditional woman creates an oxymoron or not. We weren’t discussing other topics like in which type of relationship do most abuses form.
Just because a majority agrees with a minority (feminists) about certain things, doesn’t make the majority feminist. It just means they agree on the most obvious, especially since men actually do so as well.
You cannot compare your blatant insults someone using emojis to express how much you're amusing them. Nice try. But you failed once again
@TruthBringer
You are an imbecile who loves talking out of their ass but sure whatever you say love
Feminism believes women should have the right to choose their path in life. Whether that is being a stay at home mom or a woman working in STEM. Both choices are respected because they are choices.
Feminsim does not support the idea that women should be forced into a specific role.
Cause truth be told, you can start saying that dating men enforces patriarchy, pregnancy and birthing men and not throwing them in a well when they are newborn enforces patriarchy. There are some dynamics you can't change unless you want to exterminate all men or humanity but as long as you don't force people to fit certain roles against their will and believe individual freedom , why would you be anything but an egalitarian? Sooo choosing to be a housewife is different from being forced into this role. As long as you are supportive of womens right to have the freedom to choose the life they want for themselves, you can classify as a feminist.
Ooff here we go with the namecalling and 'ZA PATRIARCHY' cries. Again, it seems the point is going straight over your head as it has been for the last 10+ times. Feminism wants to stray away from traditionalism. That's the entire point of feminism. To "liberate" women from traditionalism. Yes I know that it's about giving them the free choice to do what they want in life. At the same time, they have to purposely stray away from traditional gender roles. It is gender roles that they are probably most allergic about. Again, you're living on an oxymoron mentality. So tradtionalism is that which they revolt against. You cannot call yourself a feminist while being traditional. It's either one of the two. And you do NOT NEED to call yourself a feminist when thinking that women should be free to choose whatever. Otherwise that makes us all feminists, which is just bollocks.
I don't even need to address your last paragraph because that massive red herring does not have anything to do with the actual discussion
Plenty of women who don't identify as a feminist are still living their lives free to choose whatever they want. I can argue most women are not even feminist. At least not in my country.
CAN they? sure.
SHOULD they? I wouldn't think so.
I’m all for age gaps but NOT when it comes to kids!
It’s legal
It's legal depending on his nationality... Most countries think 18 is legal, many others feel 17 is, etc
14 is a kid in my eyes legal or not
Same here
Welp morality doesn’t matter if it did gays wouldn’t be allowed to get married
I think 17 might be ok but I think that kind of pushing it still
Depends on the state’s laws. Sometimes 16 is allowed, but I have never heard less then that.
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chris handsome
no that's fucked up
only acceptable if you've started your relationship when you were both underage
its illegal
the police would class it is grooming
No. Even though legal, the issue is as she matures, so will be her decisions. She will change her mind. Trust me.