My boyfriend used to say how he loved how inexperienced and innocent I am, now all he does is shame me for it and call me immature and abnormal. why?

[Anonymous]

What is wrong with him, can I get another guys input.

He's 29, im 24. He's my first boyfriend ever, he was a bit of a play boy. We haven't had sex, we're in a long distance relationship. but we have phone sex though and talk everyday. but this past week he's just been so nasty to me

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+1 y

I put my phone on silent because he kept arguing with me and then I picked up and he said he’s breaking up with me because HE deserves someone who will answer the phone and not be sneaky lmaoo, wow

[DJB72]

Sounds like he's goading you into breaking up with him because he's too immature to be a Real Man and find an honourable/honest way to tell you it's over.

There's a good chance he's already with someone else.

Either way, you deserve better.

[Vesuvius87]

Long-distance relationships rare ever work and if after a year max, neither reunite it's pointless.
It's likely he's already cheating on you. You're wasting time doing phone sex and if he's promising the moon and the stars, that's another waste of time. Date someone in your local area that actually wants to spend real quality time and isn't just into worthless minutes of pleasure any woman can give out.

[OlderAndWiser]

He has someone else and he is trying to bait you into breaking up with him so he can walk away without feeling guilty about breaking up with you.

[Asker]

I tried to break up with him last week and he got so emotional and upset and said im the only one he wants to talk to in the world and he can't take it if I cut him off now

[OlderAndWiser]

He is putting on a good show.

If he is involved with someone else, he has an internal conflict. He hasn't lost his feelings for you, and that makes him feel guilty, which then turns into anger.

Ask him if there is someone else.

[Vesuvius87]

He sounds like another narcissist putting on the show. Don't fall for it. So what if you cut him off now. You're be free and happy to find someone else that isn't wasting your time. What is so great about your relationship besides phone sex and his previous love declarations?

[slatyb]

Why do you care? He’s shown himself to be a rude uncaring asshole. End this and meet someone capable of giving love.

[LegendaryIcon]

how do you know he's your boyfriend, if you haven't had sex yet

seems like you're just a friend, that likes to put the label of "boyfriend" on it, just to say you have one

[LegendaryIcon]

yep. he's right

you didn't really deserve him

[Asker]

Yup, I didn’t deserve him at all

[LegendaryIcon]

exactly

[poneglyphs]

How long have you been dating him? How does he make fun of you?

[Anonymous]

Because he's a jerk who probably hoped to use you, take your virginity and leave. Get rid of him.

[Opinion Owner]

This is exactly what's wrong with girls. You asked for opinions, but don't like what you're hearing. You want people to tell you what you want to hear. He's a jerk, but you want us to tell you that he's a great guy who's misunderstood. He's a jerk looking to take your virginity. That's why he's trying so hard.

[zagor]

Sounds like he is manipulating you. Find someone you can meet in person.

[cookiecrusher]

Because he is 💩

You picked a wrong man, i'm sorry to say.

[Anonymous]

Time to dump that chump.

[Pterodon]

Dump him. It’s over

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Pterodon]

Which word didn’t you understand?

[Asker]

How is it over? It can't be deemed fixable under ANY circumstances? When a guy starts talking like this, there should be no coming back from it?

[Pterodon]

Nope. It’s over

[DWornock]

He want to f**k you.

[lycanthrope3]

Dump him