Why lament for just the positive side of “old fashioned”? Honestly, women have more independence, and I think it’s good that way. Men are free to pick, and so are women.
Because times move on, also the era you're referring to also didn't treat women as equal, they weren't second class citizens but they were laughed at if they joined a male dominated field
There's only so many ways you can re-invent a bicycle for the sake of novelty before it doesn't work anymore and you faceplant into the floor. The real world is not kind to ideals.
With girls using men for money and free meals, i don't want to be targeted as such. It makes me feel like a wallet on legs. And as such if I don't want to be the next one being used for money, then I am to take a few basic precautions.
Cause our intentions are out in the open from the moment we first make contact. If a girl wants to fuck she will make it clear to a guy she doesn't want anything serious... same goes for guys
because women are not longer lady like... If you desire traditional courtship, then act like a lady and not a basic tinder slut. Smartphones destroyed women and love in so many ways.
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The clear answer to your question is feminism, which has had a lot of unintended and unpleasant consequences for women. I say unintended, but those consequences should not have come as a surprise to anyone.
Because women are sluts. If a large portion of women are not virgins, dating cannot possibly be anything like how it used to be in the past.
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True in some aspects. I’m glad men aren’t like that anyone. Girls today don’t deserve this (for the most part). But I’d rather date a girl that is more independent and doesn’t use me for my money.
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Also I very much doubt that in actual fact you want those old fashioned men. You think you want them but you don’t.
You had to be known people or friends someone who was around you there was a lot of time and effort involved which made sure that it's put on only person.
The time and resource were utilised very optimumly and optimisticly
You had to build up the courage for few days then go to the gal and talk to her and all your classmates knew whom you would have crush on.
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Times have changed. I miss those days. People are all about instant self- gratification now.
I think movies and television have trivialized relationships. Social media has made it difficult to make real connections with people.
Why lament for just the positive side of “old fashioned”? Honestly, women have more independence, and I think it’s good that way. Men are free to pick, and so are women.
Because times move on, also the era you're referring to also didn't treat women as equal, they weren't second class citizens but they were laughed at if they joined a male dominated field
It still is. Nthing has changed because people nature doesn't change.
People where whoring around back then too, but do to a lack of technology it wasn't visible to the masses to see as it is today.
You answered the question with the question.
Old fashioned is just a term out of date
There's only so many ways you can re-invent a bicycle for the sake of novelty before it doesn't work anymore and you faceplant into the floor.
The real world is not kind to ideals.
With girls using men for money and free meals, i don't want to be targeted as such. It makes me feel like a wallet on legs.
And as such if I don't want to be the next one being used for money, then I am to take a few basic precautions.
women today have the upperhand on dating, so it would of been smart to make this a female answer only question
Weird to think that people haven't been hooking up since the beginning of time. You're looking at a nostalgia that doesn't exist.
Dating sites made things become too electronic. Cell phones and texting contributed to that also.
It can be, but both parties have to want to do it that way.
I'm older, so if I were still dating that is how I would prefer to go on a date.
Cause our intentions are out in the open from the moment we first make contact. If a girl wants to fuck she will make it clear to a guy she doesn't want anything serious... same goes for guys
because women are not longer lady like... If you desire traditional courtship, then act like a lady and not a basic tinder slut. Smartphones destroyed women and love in so many ways.
The clear answer to your question is feminism, which has had a lot of unintended and unpleasant consequences for women. I say unintended, but those consequences should not have come as a surprise to anyone.
Because people became materialistic.. I blame a lot of this on social media... people are trying to be something they are not
Because women are sluts. If a large portion of women are not virgins, dating cannot possibly be anything like how it used to be in the past.
True in some aspects. I’m glad men aren’t like that anyone. Girls today don’t deserve this (for the most part). But I’d rather date a girl that is more independent and doesn’t use me for my money.
Also I very much doubt that in actual fact you want those old fashioned men. You think you want them but you don’t.
Why do you think that?
Well if an old fashioned man came up to you like you described you would probably think he’s weird. Many girls would
Technology mam , it's brought people physically closer but kept there souls apart
Dating earlier was a process.
You had to be known people or friends someone who was around you there was a lot of time and effort involved which made sure that it's put on only person.
The time and resource were utilised very optimumly and optimisticly
You had to build up the courage for few days then go to the gal and talk to her and all your classmates knew whom you would have crush on.
It was tough but worth it i guess
Yeah I miss the old days where women stayed home and cleaned.
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