What happened to traditional dating?

It seems dating is fast-paced and has no excitement nowadays. I've chatted with people on the phone, and they automatically assumed we're dating? There's literally no courting or meeting, so how are we dating? I've been single by choice 11 years as of this month, and it was the best decision seeing how dating is nowadays... modern dating has destroyed meaningful relationships and what it stands for. It seems a lot of people don't have morals or respect anymore when it comes to dating - they're out for what they want and can get.
What happened to traditional dating?
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