Does it get annoying when you get treated differently because someone finds you attractive?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes because when I was obese everyone treated me like utter sh! T. Now all these fake demonic creatures want to get into my pants and want me to be their girl. Girls also bullied me as a fatty, not as bad as men did, but now, those mfs are all jealous and wanting to be fake with me soooo… I don't know. I honestly don’t know which one is worse, having people be fake with you and trying to bed you and being jealous and competitive with you, and sexually harassing you. Or you being an obese monster why gets bullied and disrespected every other day. Not having not one man date you because those dogs think you’re disgusting and hideous.

Sasha_Gee · Accepted Answer

It can! When you're dating there is that fear creeping in the back of your head that your date just likes you for how you look. And when that happens to be the case, you just feel defeated.
If you're being friendly to someone, they think you want to sleep with them.
If you're being friendly to a guy who is taken, their girlfriend might think you're trying to take him away and they'll glare at you.
Or people will automatically think that good looks and an unhealthy big ego and arrogance go hand in hand and people will judge you while all you wanted to do is make friends.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Go to be honest it's a very beautiful thing here's the thing though pay attention and everything goes around because you will see the difference between the people that are bullshiting you because they want something versus people that really find you beautiful and attractive it's a whole different world like I said in the same breath or telling you a lie they will tell you the truth they just don't know it but you would probably be getting that quite often so go with it enjoy it there's nothing wrong with it it builds confidence and everybody needs confidence

Oigit · Accepted Answer

If you think that's annoying, try looking like you are a villain from a movie. Though I have to admit it does have some advantages. Some people can be really nice if not overly so. Also they tend to make room for you to shop the same isles when you are in a store. Instead of taking up nearly the entire isle between themselves and their cart. But the oh shirt looks you get can get pretty old, pretty quickly. Nerve grating enough that you might go full super villain after catching enough of them.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

When I was 20, I met strangers who wanted to be my friend while knowing nothing about me because they thought I looked nice, and when I gained weight from lifestyle changes, these same people rejected my friendship less than 4 months later. I’ve read many stories about morbidly obese women who become beauty queens and beauty queens who become morbidly obese, beauty is unstable as water and I would never want somebody to base a friendship or relationship on it.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

I’m not sure. I don’t think I get treated differently lol

Desconhecida · Answer

It depends. Treated like a stupid brainless woman? Because beautiful people tend to have their brains judged by their looks.

Berethor · Answer

Poor girl, you suffer so much. :(

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I don’t get that, however I know girls that do find it annoying.

they refer to how they look, how lovely etc.

They then add in a ‘oh and you are intelligent’ as an after throught.

whereas actually. We should lead with the positive non image things.

A person is more than how they look, positive and negative.

Киттйлинк · Answer

I'm weird if someone treats me different in a special way I feel bad about it as if I don't deserve this treatment and I don't want it.. but then when nobody treats me with any extra attention I feel sad that I don't feel special haha maybe I'm just emotional about anything now I'm annoying to myself being this way.

We should feel good and happy to be treated good.

mangoandmartini · Answer

yeah I have experienced this. I am a bigger girl and obviously now a days that’s not attractive to anyone, I am married so I don’t care about other mens opinions but prior to this I could be with friends and I wouldn’t be noticed same with my job sometimes it’s nice a litter flattery, a flirt someone else to find you attractive - men are very anal when it comes to look’s unfortunately.

Cherry234 · Answer

This happened to me a few times. It is a bit annoying because of the way the guys who liked me acted toward me. They were either being creepy or they were acting mean. But other times they were just being friendly so I didn't get too annoyed if they didn't come on too strong.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends. Are they being creepy, coming on too strong, harassing me when I clearly don’t return the attraction? Then yes, it is annoying.

But if they are just being extra nice to me, then it doesn’t bother me.

If I like them too, then I love it - though then I usually convince myself I was just imagining it or reading too much into it.

Jasmine-Darkfire · Answer

I've only been treated a certain way, not sure if it is cause of how I look or not. I do worry when someone gets a little to much into talking about how I look all the time, rather than other things that they might be obsessed with it.

InferiorElegy · Answer

Oh I wish I had that problem, I get stared at and called names and given dirty looks because I have a very ugly face. I've never once been told I was handsome by anyone who saw my face. I'm sure you get treated nicely for being pretty where as I get treated like I'm some creepy monster because I'm ugly.

DesiUwU · Answer

Yes it gets annoying because then im unable to tell if someone is faking it and if they like me or not or if they’re just doing what I want because of my looks.

MCheetah · Answer

This sounds like "Hot People 'Problems'," with double quotation marks on the "problems." Enjoy while you still can. After 25, it's all downhill for you!

Daniela1982 · Answer

Are you talking you or the Husky? I don't know, I never had that happen.

SenileOldMan · Answer

I don't find it any less or more annoying than when someone does so because they think I'm smart, or kind, or brave, or anything else.

driven159 · Answer

It is funny when I was younger worked out i would walk into clothing store and the female clerks would meet me soon as i walked in now that I am retired not in the same shape some grey hair, I have to hunt them down

4afriend · Answer

Not annoying. But it can be frustrating. If I'm in a relationship I get looks. If I'm single I feel invisible. Would like if it was the opposite.

exitseven · Answer

I would be annoyed if somebody treated me differently if they thought I was un-attractive.

annabananna · Answer

Only if they are with me and a friend and completely ignored the friend when they are talking. That’s just rude.

nawtee_me · Answer

love the Huskey, what is his name? And you are gorgeous but you shouldn't be treated differently because of it. Who is treating you differently? If it is a boyfriend that that it normal.

Phoenix98 · Answer

People have more or less always treated me the same.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

It's frustrating.. I don't hate it though. It's just very telling. Kinda depressing.

Kitty_V · Answer

Absolutely not unless they’re being mean because they’re insecure 🤦🏻‍♀️

Anonymous · Answer

Enjoy it while you can it doesn't last forever and once it is gone, you will miss it.

Waldoe · Answer

no... sounds like you are "fishing for compliments"

Aisha216 · Answer

Yup. I even see it when I’m not dressed up vs when I am. A lot of people are shallow, don’t overthink it.

Dasjdee1 · Answer

You are attractive though! Take that as a compliment

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No, I get flattered!

Avicenna · Answer

Nope, no way am I offended by that

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

I don't think I have noticed the difference

Ironic_Method · Answer

At work, I hate it. Outside of work I like it.

Anonymous · Answer

No I think it's kinda nice

jasco · Answer

Never notice but nice doggo

devoygf · Answer

poor girl , it must be hard

2021biguy · Answer

Maybe they like your dog, lol

Twalli · Answer

You would prefer they don't?

karieskhalid1 · Answer

It depends like how they treat you..

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Depending on the person

Chthou95 · Answer

Welcome to the real world kid

Anonymous · Answer

yeah actually. they can be kinda smothering

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't know. I am unattractive.

AndrésC64 · Answer

No idea.☹

Wise4myage · Answer

No, why?

Joker_ · Answer

Yeah

EaterPeter · Answer

Yes it can

Fuentes · Answer

Nope

In_Trance · Answer

Lol no

Preeti161101 · Answer

Nope

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