No. I'd rather not win someone over with a behavior that I can't keep up long term. If someone doesn't like me the way I am then it's better if they just look for someone else. If I had to pretend it would just stress me out. Isn't the goal to find someone who likes you for who you are?
You can't really do that if you're not yourself with them so I just don't bother. But I'm very pragmatic and lazy so. If someone has an attractive interesting personality it can be that I show more interest in them but that's just because I have something to talk about with them and I find them genuinely interesting not because I'm trying to win them over by making them feel important or something.
100% I can try not to, but I do.
If a girl asks me to help at work, I'm always more enthousiastic to help (unless she's a bitch)
No sadly I'm sorta the opposite sometimes and that tends to cause confusion. It's no wonder the men I'm not attracted to think I have a thing for them while the ones I'm attracted to think I have an attitude with them. I just don't like to make my interest obvious so I try to act mean to downplay my feelings. It's self sabotage at its finest.
Yes, i can't help but be extra polite with really pretty girls because i feel very inferior to them. I've always believed in pretty privilege, told myself id be respected more if i were prettier. And I've seen people be nicer to other just because the latter are really attractive.
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I’d be extra nice to my boyfriend or husband and he would have to be attractive to me but I don’t treat friends or family or anybody better due to attractiveness outside of romantic connections.
No, I will not lie I use to in the past, but I feel like we all have when we find someone attractive and we start to think we have a chance so we act nicer to them. But I learn that evil girls have the prettiest face so no I honestly treat everyone the same, man or woman. It doesn't matter the gender either the way I treat a stranger that is a man is the same way I will treat a stranger that is a woman, no exceptions.
Only if I want to sleep with them. Otherwise, no. The Halo Effect of the attractive does not affect me. If anything, I trust attractive looking people even less because they tend to be assholes and can get away with it, too. So option B for me. (It's also funny how only women said "They are not nice to anyone.")
Yes, of course.
This is the dirty little secret about men - when they first see a woman, ANY woman, within seconds they summarize in their little brain whether she's do-able or not. It's either HELL YES or HELL NO, whether or not he actually could or would. And any future interaction is tempered this with thought.
So yeah, guys are nice to women they find attractive. PERIOD. Men are a sex machine - it's what they're built for.
Yes but not in a way I overlook reasons to dislike them and not be nice.
Basically I still have to like them otherwise nah. So not really simp like.
I know now that women respond better to aloof, uncaring, stoic, hard to get dudes. So I play it like that. If you’re hot at all you’ll get the ice block refrigerator deep freeze “Go away I’m busy” treatment.
I used to be super nice and fall over myself. I also got tired of being dumped and treated disrespectfully and ghosted for dudes who act all not interested and dismissive. So …figure that out.
I'm cool to people in general until u step on Nike air maxs 😂 if she my type the corny in me creeps out like damn why I say that out loud bahaha lol I'm like a little kid all over again lol I haven't got that feeling in a long time tho !!
Nope. I’m aware of their beauty but I don’t over or extra for anyone on looks. On character or personality? Yeah I’m almost like willing to defend them in any chance I can
I don't judge on appearance, skin color, or status... I'm equally polite to everyone, even homeless individuals. You have to be nice to everyone around you because you don't know what that person went or is going through..
Nope! I treat everyone the same. You can hide a camera and do like a prank on me, i will be doing the same with everyone
Tbh I catch myself doing this sometimes and I actively try to stop myself now becuse I don't know I dont like it about myself
u EXTRA nice, no... I am always very careful with this, lol
I'm just nice to everyone (most people) in general
Yeah, if the girl sends me good vibes, I would find myself sending be extra nice to her and her appearance makes no difference cause I don't go by appearance
B) If anything, it’s the total opposite. I tend to be nicer to those that other people label as ugly.
Humans by NATURE want the best looking mate, as we are animalistic by nature. This isn't always what your heart wants, but it is certainly what your hormones lead us by attraction to
Yes, a bit, like I smile extra at them unconsciously I think. Also since I find a happy person and genuine smiles attractive, so it follows each other :D.
I tend to go quiet. Probably from over-thinking. :)
Not extra nice but nicer cause i wanna impress them
In the past I have been more rude to people I find attractive. I feel like they get enough attention
I find myself doing nothing but watching. Like Joe from YOU except I’m not crazy or anything. When you’re a master of black holes, relativity can become relative
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