Girls, If you ghosted a guy would you ever come back?

[Anonymous]

[Usernone]

Sad to say I did and regretted it... well regret is a strong word. I learned from the mistake and advise you to stick with your initial gut feeling. If you ghosted a guy, it was for good reason. There's someone else out there

[Asker]

You regret coming back to him? Why what happened? I’m the guy and this girl ghosted me

[Usernone]

Things didn't work out, had I not gone back I could have avoided the disappointment. When anyone returns to someone, it's because there was hope of things working out, but ultimately, the same thing that caused the original ghost issue, rose again.

[little_bird1]

Not me, but many people do because they are thrashes and think of ghosting as if it's no big deal.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I really try not to ghost people. If I did I might come back, either to give him closure or because I had a change of heart.

[crimsonandclover2]

I never ghost people

[crimsonandclover2]

Unless there's a serious reason

[Asker]

What would be the reason if you did?

[Blackcupcake]

nope

[Asker]

But what if the reason you ghosted him was you were scared and you liked him. You only ghosted him because he hurt you by ignoring you

[Blackcupcake]

I’m not immature like that

[little_bird1]

I wouldn't ghost because I'm scared and certainly not if I like him. Now, if he ignored me, then yeah goodbye. I actually did that yesterday with a guy who ignored my two last texts, I simply blocked him. It's because the attraction died instantly and I don't want him coming back.

Maybe not ignore girls anymore?

[Asker]

@little_bird1 I didn’t ignore her on purpose I really liked her. But she wasn’t communicating with me and I tried so hard with her to talk it out and then she hurt me so that’s why I ignored her because I didn’t know what else to do I was so mad it had gotten to this stage. All she had to do was be honest and talk to me. I know it upset her after but what was I supposed to do, keep going around in circles with her?

[Blackcupcake]

C O M M U N I C A T I O N:
“the act of giving, receiving, and sharing information -- in other words, talking or writing, and listening or reading. Good communicators listen carefully, speak or write clearly, and respect different opinions”

if you ignore someone then you’re not communicating with them. if there’s an issue then you should be communicating that with the person, if you feel like they’re hurting you then communicate it. if you feel like it’s not helping and want to stop the communication then TELL THEM that you no longer want to talk to them. ignoring and ghosting and all of that bs is childish and immature.

[Asker]

So you think it was my fault then?

[Blackcupcake]

I think both hold equal responsibility