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Most of them are worried about what people will think about them.
because women are terrified of rejection. they also desire the chase to satisfy there emotional insecurity.
Duh... it's risky, they could say "Hell NO" the same risk all guys are supposed to take... it's called being a "Man"
@Maverik54 In the age of dating apps & hookups, she has an easier time avoiding commitment with one man.
Because it's easier for them to just not do it and most prefer it, so why would they challenge a status quo that advantages themselves?
And that position is protected by the nonsense excuses they make for themselves and for each other. E. g “men don’t like it”.
Centuries of chivalry. And free drinks for the gals.
In my country, if a girl does it, it's considered worthless.
Very good question. I wish I knew the answer. Equality and all that.
Because we've been told not to, that guys have to do the chase & want to do it, it's not our job
Who told you not to? All the guys I know love it when girls ask them out. I know I would like it
No it because u a woman and it embarrassing for a woman to ask us out because we are taller
@Yuuibtony taller? So ridiculous! I'm pretty sure it's not about height!
@Nazgol you sure? I thought that was the reason
I've heard so many girls say this getting my entire life I've never heard anyone actually say this to a girl.
Who told you not to and since when do women always do what they're told? Isn't that just an excuse women like to hide behind?
Girls do ask guys out, I was asked out and I have heard of girls who asked guys out
Because women suck at rejection even more than men do. Next question.
Because they are egoistic and have attitude problem.
I am valuable, but he does it to everyone. I do it only for those who deserve it because I'm valuable
Not at 30.
@Ryfyle lol I'm 30 yo
Your point?
I hope this is trolling
@Anonuser838383 no I'm not
you're really that narcissistic
@Anonuser838383 yes I'm is it prob?
At post wall? Absolutely embarrassing.
The ratio varies from woman to woman, but it is typically some combination of entitlement and cowardice.
because women enjoy being chased after makes them feel sexy
cuz most girls don’t have to and they’re more scared of rejection than guys are
They don't because, among other things, they then might be expected to pay for the date.
It's the same reason as us Guys but Women don't get pressured by society to do it.
They do or they're too scared to. They all have high standards so you're probably just getting ignored
They do when then want to
Sometimes I do, depends how well I vibe with the guy.
Because they aren’t use to rejection like guys are. Guys will get rejected 9 times out of 10 asking a girl out but we’re so use to it that it doesn’t phase us. Girls aren’t use to being told no
They do. In fact, it's a good test to see who really likes you opposed to someone who just wants to settle down with or use you.
Scared of rejection and I don’t like making the first move
Neither do guys, but we still have to do it
Bro it will be like better you than me 🤣 situation
@dragoblack I know I was just answering honestly
Social construct- Message me privately for lectures... Lol
Because women are entitled and are raised to believe men should do all the work.
they do... at least in my experience
They figure "what's the point" ? Just like a lot of guys are finally learning now too.
Cause they are big pussies. lol
Actually we are just more particular about who we peruse
@Subarugirl That's a good excuse.
I initiated the relationship with my husband, and we have been married for nearly 5 years now.
High value women are concerned with more than just the physical appearance of a potential partner, they look at character.
@Subarugirl
That's great. 1 woman asked a guy out and now they are married. 90% of the female population still doesn't do that, and just cause you did, doesn't mean everyone else does.
2nd. It's great that you at least perceive yourself to be high value, as do most women and people in general, but asking a guy out doesn't make your high value, or even matter in the context of what I was talking about. I also never said anything about the appearance, so not sure where that comes from either.
The question is why do MOST women not ask men out. And the answer is they are afraid and know that guys will do it, so they don't have to. I. E. They are pussies.
Take a look through the comments bud, a lot of women do.
@Subarugirl I can look at a bunch of comments from random people on the internet. Or I can go off of my real experiences in the world, and the experiences of all of the men I know.
But let's go with it. Even reading the comments, there is more saying they don't. Even the women, more of them said they don't, or don't have to compare to the ones that did. The men were the same. More saying they don't than they do. I guess those don't count.
Besides that, Are you honestly going to tell me that women ask men out just as much or more than men? Is that really what you see happening on a daily basis, with the people around you, in public, in media?
Sure some women do it. But most don't. Women can say they do it all they want, but when it comes to the real world that just doesn't happen that much. They count shit like going up and asking a question as "asking the guy out" or standing around him waiting for HIM to make the move. If you really ask questions, it's not what is happening.
I'm not trying to be an asshole. It's just willful ignorance of the real world, in order to fit the narrative you have created in your head. I wish women were out there asking guys out as much as men. But that only happens for a select few men. And most of the ladies are all asking that guy out if they do. Not the 90% of other men that they make work for their attention.
But I think I've spent enough mental energy on this for a liftime. Good luck with that. Glad it worked out for you.
Your experience is bias. Are you familiar with concept of confirmation bias?
@Subarugirl I am, are you? Why is my experience biased and yours isn't exactly?
Also, more people agreed with me... what about that?
Because I’m using more information other than just my personal opinion. I’m also paying attention to the explanations that women are giving for the way they act.
@Subarugirl Are you paying attention to all the other responses saying they don't? There are more of those than comments backing you up. You ignoring those in favor of your explanation is the definition of confirmation bias. lol
All I’m saying is that it isn’t as rare as you seem to think. But you’re the one making generalizations. I’m was just giving an explanation. If you don’t like it that’s fine. How ever just because you don’t have women perusing you, it doesn’t mean that they don’t pursue men, all it means is that they don’t pursue you.
@Subarugirl
Insults are always a good way to contribute to an argument I would say. Shows a lot of class and character. And not that you don't know what you're talking about at all. Your husband is a lucky man ;)
I must be a hideous troll, how else could I not agree with you. lol
Good luck honey.
I’m sorry that you feel insulted, that was not intended as an insult
Because I’ve always been chicken shit.
Thank you. At least that's an honest answer. But it's scary and nerve-racking for us too.
they drop the hint and men do it. not fair but thats the way it is.
Knight in shining armor syndrome.
I always did.
I asked my guy out and it was definitely worth it.
Chicken like most guys are
Probably because you're ugly.
The best possible response.
based
I have been asked out by girls on many times,
They do its just very uncommon.
Because we are "supposed" to be impressing them.
@Maverik54 They want to be the prize.
The way of the world.
They do, they just might not phrase it as "out"
Because girls have no skills!
Girls don't ask you out
The stigma. That's all it is
Girls have asked me out before
I never liked it either man
To scared of rejection like we are
... They do-
They don't need to
It looks awkward
Entitled and not confident enough. It all depends
Conceit.
I do
Society and Culture
They do, just rarely
We do.