Is it true that guys nowadays don’t want relationships? (Page 2)

Question

It seems like nowadays guys don’t want relationships or a girlfriend or even being monogamous. They seem to just want to be “friends” with a lot of girls who they can hook up with. Is this the new normal? Are girls like me who want a relationship eventually just wasting my time?

grega239 · Answer

I want a relationship.  The problem is that women dont find me attractive enough and i dont trust them whatsoever. So i just dont hang out or around women.

Djaay · Answer

For the most part yes , not myself tho. You'all women must have forgot all the man-haten going on since 2016 to present. I guess you'all reap what you sew.

infp6w7male · Answer

Not all people are the same. You shouldn't stereotype all guys now wanting a relationship just because you met one who doesn't. I think we need to avoid generalizing guys only wanting hookups.

Juxtapose · Answer

Really? Because if anything I can't get you women to commit when I want to.

Shiningtempest · Answer

@juicyred921 With the rise of dating apps & hook-up culture, I am not surprised that some guys don't want relationships at all.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys want a relationship with girls that don't have a high body count. Girls are too picky and nice guys are left out. If girls stopped sleeping around they might meet a nice guy that really cares for them.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Personally, I'd like a girlfriend, a relationship, etc; but the truth is that these days there isn't much of real value on offer.

Likes2drive · Answer

I come across many women that don’t want a relationship and I do so I guess it’s the younger ones that don’t want to get tied down for now

Ratpack60 · Answer

No you aren’t wasting your time. There’s guys like myself that do want and like being in a relationship. Be patient you will find one.

TsAubreyKate · Answer

If you couldn’t lock one down in your late teens and 20s you’re gonna have a really hard time women make dating harder for themselves than it is by not being realistic

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nah I still want to be in a happy healthy relationship with a good woman but on this book up culture we live in I'm not surprised that what girls and guys want

Canada2 · Answer

Not for me but I am not going to start one just to have one. I like to make sure we have a connection

jasco · Answer

Their will always be guys who want relationships, just gonna need to fine it

SecretGardenBlood65 · Answer

Women need to gather themselves in this regard. If a woman does not value herself, men will only see women as something they use sexually.

noohair · Answer

Men used to have to make commitments to a woman for sex. Women wanted freedom and equality. This is how it looks.

Shy_Steve · Answer

The problem is you Girls keep getting attracted to the same types of Guys, If you tried dating more Shy Guys you will see the difference.

Naughtyboy71 · Answer

Really don't think anyone ready for the a steady relationship

Reijen · Answer

Hm, I suspect that's the way the internet makes it seem. I'm sure most guys would want a partner, ie a girlfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

Casual hookups, friends with benefits and high body counts = zero point getting into relationships.

Anonymous · Answer

I think we want a relationship, but most girls aren’t meeting our standards, so we compromise

cookiecrusher · Answer

Pick men not boys. And among the men look for somebody who values relationships.

My-lover · Answer

Neither do women it's all about quenching the itches

BaldAvenger · Answer

No, we want them, just need to find one we can tolerate

InferiorElegy · Answer

It's just safer these days not to date. Plus also cheaper.

nawtee_me · Answer

I prefer to be in a relationship. Would you like to go out?

Mediterraneansoul · Answer

Yes. Most are just doing the smash and run. Girls are moving mad too

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

I haven't found a woman worthy of a friends with benefits, NSA, or even an actual relationship.

Stillguy664 · Answer

I WANT THIS! If only a cute girl considered me deserving

Στέλλα_Κανακάρη · Answer

It's not true for all boys. Some girls don't want relationships too.

yyyuuuiii · Answer

The bad boy, player guys don't want relationships because they have options.

Anonymous · Answer

Dating is pretty much over in major cities. Maybe date a woman.

Apulu_3 · Answer

This have nothing to with gender too.

slatyb · Answer

No, it’s not. People still get married.

romantic6655 · Answer

depending on the person's desire

KlinkyCoder · Answer

No - they have been sent away from it.

Ray123456 · Answer

To a certain extent, yes.

MrTaboo · Answer

Why have a relationship when guys can just hookup?

Pohjolan · Answer

Nah you just choose fuckboys.

admles · Answer

No, we just have much higher expectations now.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Marriage isn't lucrative, so

ChiTownLov · Answer

We're out there. We may just be hard to find.

andylakes9 · Answer

Definitely true for some. Not all

Anonymous · Answer

All the good ones are taken

kitty71 · Answer

indeed

Ryfyle · Answer

It's a "you" thing.

888theGreat · Answer

I believe in them

fireforeffect · Answer

No, not at all.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I want one

Anonymous · Answer

We want some throat

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