I had feeling for my best friends long time ago I felt bad cause I didn’t tell him cause he is taken it’s so hard for me he told me he had feeling for me and he kiss me first also we had sex it just happened he really likes me, I’ve been really sad cause my depression
Lying. I’ve been deceived a lot in my past so if the woman I’m in love with tends to lie a lot or isn’t completely honest with me I’ll have major trouble trusting her and make me question things I shouldn’t be questioning.
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I briefly dated a woman and reunited with her 2 years later. I reached out but I said “I am not looking to pick up where I left off”. She took that as “oh so you are 100% okay with the friéndzone” and proceeded to take full advantage of me. I finally hit a breaking point, called her out on it and then blocked her out for good. Never looked back however for a time i did really like her.
I instantly lose any feelings for someone the moment they say anything homophobic or really misogynistic. I also lose any romantic interest at all if I find out they're anti-vax or anything like that. Personally, to me they are deal breakers.
Not a crazy feminist. Just don't support homophobia and really sexist views when seeking a partner and someone being anti vax is a hard deal breaker for me. Don't really need to explain myself further.
I'm pretty sure only one of us went to university and actually studied in a science-related field and it wasn't you, but whatever makes you feel most comfortable to sleep at night.
That's the problem. If you've been to university then you have gone through a brainwashing system. Tell me this, how many billions has the American government paid out in compensation for vaccine injuries?
@Stephen_77 it's amazing how people are talking about trusting the science and then they are slamming Dr Robert Malone when he is the one who laid the foundation for the mRNA tech.
Pretty sure I'm entitled to my view? I get all my vaccines and I'd rather a partner who has those same values. I support vaccination for myself and for any partner. Why is this an argument? Don't like it then obviously it's not compatible and I wouldn't be interested romantically.
That's fine. You can. I won't stop you. I just wouldn't date you. I don't know why my personal preferences got you all up in arms and one guy being particularly creepy.
You're too young for me anyway and your personal preferences don't really bother me. I just get fired up when people mention the vaccine stuff because that is highly politicized and I think legitimate doctors are being censored because it goes against the oligarch's narrative.
Nothing wrong with antivaxers. I put them in the same category as alien lizard people abducties, big foot groupies and those bald guys that give you flowers at the airport.
@Slartybartfast Coming from somebody who has no clue what's in the vaccines and doesn't know the long term effects, yet still rolls up his sleeve to get jabbed. Laughable idiot.
I litteraly work in labs that created one of the vaccines. My best friend was in the pandemic response team that stopped several outbreaks before Trump disbanded it and threw out our response plan!.
I wouldn't bother with antivaxers anymore than when the exact same people say they were abducted by aliens.
That's is how antivaxers look to educated people, nutjobs
But then last week I was in a room filled with antivaxers , in body bags.
As the nurses say at the research hospital I work at , we only lose the unvaccinated now..
@Slartybartfast And you're pulling crapout of your ass. How much has the American government paid out in compensation for vaccine injuries? Are you aware of the damage this fake covid vaccine has done to so many people? You people are mass murderers.
@Stephen_77 I don't care about anti vaxxer insanity any more than flat earthers or ufo abducties. They are usually the same people. I'm not arguing with you, I'm laughing at you.
She was getting paid to string me along. And her profile was hooked to bots, in case she wasn't there. She may have been somewhat honest about her life, but was dishonest about her intentions with me.
I caught her having it away with my then best friend.. I was i my teens and it was the last time I was hurt in a relationship. Since then I have been very careful who I fell for
Too many lies, shady behavior, making me feel like I'm not important to her. It's funny how many women think that all they need are looks to keep a man. Nothing could be more wrong.
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She became so codependent and admitted that she only liked me due to attention since no one else would give it to her. She projected all her problems as if they were mine. She eventually had me running to her place 2 times a month in order for me to talk her out of suicide. Sad and hurt to let her go but I had to for my own health.
For one, they didn't love me back. Or even respect me.
And for another girl, I found out they weren't actually attracted to men (bisexual), and was disgusted and heartbroken when I found out, and I dumped them.
He told me he didn't want to date and that he probably never would want to date anyone. That broke my heart and it took me a long while to get over him.
He has been true to his word though. He hasn't dated anyone that I'm aware of.
And when I walked away and got detached and met my new man I realised how physically mediocre my ex looked and how socially awkward he was and how cringe his humour was sometimes and I started wondering how did I ever cry for him ><
He was smart, not a whore and muscular tho so imma give him that.
My case wasn't romantic love but one of best friend who I clicked with greatly. I lost all of it when I finally realised how toxic they were. Only saw it once another friend who got the same treatment from her told me and opened my eyes.
well we are in long distance and so im not really sure but im convinced he tells his friends about me and even came out and told me his friends also thinks im dumb and stupid i am. so him always calling me dumb , stupid and shouldn't be teaching and how much more intelligent and smarter they are then me.
Maybe it was all an illusion to begin with and you never "loved" them in the first place, you just thought you did? When you really love someone, you don't stop. When you're "in love", that can change in a heartbeat.
they never stopped... they just evolved into something else, we're good friends nowadays even great friends with some
we used to love each other, now we love to see the other doing great
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She had escape plan weeks before she leaves and before she leave she was trying to hurt me in every damn possible evil way though I had damn bad time. It wasn't in my hands but I just don't feel in love anymore. Saw her 7 months later karma got her ass she was sick and had severe depression I offered help but she was acting bitchy I blocked her
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when she kept cheating with numerous guys for 3 years and got engaged to a guy she only knew for 4 months when i proposed to her first. whatever trust i had with her went right out the window and things between me and her haven't been the same and may never be the same. i still get terrified just to even google search her name not knowing what the hell i may find
Stuff it down. Get rid of everything they’ve given you, avoid them, and stuff those feelings way down. If they were a bad person, I mean. It’s a process for me rn.
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I had feeling for my best friends long time ago I felt bad cause I didn’t tell him cause he is taken it’s so hard for me he told me he had feeling for me and he kiss me first also we had sex it just happened he really likes me, I’ve been really sad cause my depression
Lying. I’ve been deceived a lot in my past so if the woman I’m in love with tends to lie a lot or isn’t completely honest with me I’ll have major trouble trusting her and make me question things I shouldn’t be questioning.
I briefly dated a woman and reunited with her 2 years later. I reached out but I said “I am not looking to pick up where I left off”. She took that as “oh so you are 100% okay with the friéndzone” and proceeded to take full advantage of me. I finally hit a breaking point, called her out on it and then blocked her out for good. Never looked back however for a time i did really like her.
I instantly lose any feelings for someone the moment they say anything homophobic or really misogynistic. I also lose any romantic interest at all if I find out they're anti-vax or anything like that. Personally, to me they are deal breakers.
Nothing wrong with being anti vax. Are you another one of those crazy feminists?
Not a crazy feminist. Just don't support homophobia and really sexist views when seeking a partner and someone being anti vax is a hard deal breaker for me. Don't really need to explain myself further.
Oh, so you're a brainwashed snowflake. lol
I'm pretty sure only one of us went to university and actually studied in a science-related field and it wasn't you, but whatever makes you feel most comfortable to sleep at night.
You are disgusting. I'd never be interested in someone with your views. What is your objective here?
Oh I don't care what you want. Or if you're interested in me. I like a good fight.
That's the problem. If you've been to university then you have gone through a brainwashing system. Tell me this, how many billions has the American government paid out in compensation for vaccine injuries?
@Stephen_77 lol she won't answer or care.
@Stephen_77 it's amazing how people are talking about trusting the science and then they are slamming Dr Robert Malone when he is the one who laid the foundation for the mRNA tech.
Pretty sure I'm entitled to my view? I get all my vaccines and I'd rather a partner who has those same values. I support vaccination for myself and for any partner. Why is this an argument? Don't like it then obviously it's not compatible and I wouldn't be interested romantically.
Yep, and we are entitled to disagree with it until our faces are blue.
That's fine. You can. I won't stop you. I just wouldn't date you. I don't know why my personal preferences got you all up in arms and one guy being particularly creepy.
You're too young for me anyway and your personal preferences don't really bother me. I just get fired up when people mention the vaccine stuff because that is highly politicized and I think legitimate doctors are being censored because it goes against the oligarch's narrative.
Each to their own. Sounds like a you problem.
Yep, me vs all these corrupt fuckers. I wouldn't have it any other way.
Enjoy your day o/
Why don't we just force you and do things to you that you don't want. You're young and 21 and Beautiful. So naive.
I see you're Australian. I live there too.
@J_J_Johnston wtf dude? That came off as rapey.
Nothing wrong with antivaxers.
I put them in the same category as alien lizard people abducties, big foot groupies and those bald guys that give you flowers at the airport.
Laughable idiots.
@Juxtapose Because these people don't care about truth.
@Slartybartfast Coming from somebody who has no clue what's in the vaccines and doesn't know the long term effects, yet still rolls up his sleeve to get jabbed. Laughable idiot.
@Stephen_77
How do you know what I know about anything?
I litteraly work in labs that created one of the vaccines. My best friend was in the pandemic response team that stopped several outbreaks before Trump disbanded it and threw out our response plan!.
I wouldn't bother with antivaxers anymore than when the exact same people say they were abducted by aliens.
That's is how antivaxers look to educated people, nutjobs
But then last week I was in a room filled with antivaxers , in body bags.
As the nurses say at the research hospital I work at , we only lose the unvaccinated now..
@Slartybartfast And you're pulling crapout of your ass. How much has the American government paid out in compensation for vaccine injuries? Are you aware of the damage this fake covid vaccine has done to so many people? You people are mass murderers.
@Stephen_77 I don't care about anti vaxxer insanity any more than flat earthers or ufo abducties. They are usually the same people.
I'm not arguing with you, I'm laughing at you.
@Slartybartfast Why can't you answer the question, smartass? How many billions has the American government paid in compensation for vaccine injuries?
Consistent and continuous behaviour that only broke down who I was. Started subtle and became more obvious over time.
If you don't like him the way he is, don't try to change him. All you do is push him away
She was getting paid to string me along. And her profile was hooked to bots, in case she wasn't there. She may have been somewhat honest about her life, but was dishonest about her intentions with me.
I caught her having it away with my then best friend.. I was i my teens and it was the last time I was hurt in a relationship. Since then I have been very careful who I fell for
Too many lies, shady behavior, making me feel like I'm not important to her. It's funny how many women think that all they need are looks to keep a man. Nothing could be more wrong.
She became so codependent and admitted that she only liked me due to attention since no one else would give it to her. She projected all her problems as if they were mine. She eventually had me running to her place 2 times a month in order for me to talk her out of suicide. Sad and hurt to let her go but I had to for my own health.
For one, they didn't love me back. Or even respect me.
And for another girl, I found out they weren't actually attracted to men (bisexual), and was disgusted and heartbroken when I found out, and I dumped them.
He told me he didn't want to date and that he probably never would want to date anyone. That broke my heart and it took me a long while to get over him.
He has been true to his word though. He hasn't dated anyone that I'm aware of.
When he stopped showing he cared for me romantically as much as he did before and started treating me more like a friend than a potential wife.
I just walked away and met someone new who is better for me.
And when I walked away and got detached and met my new man I realised how physically mediocre my ex looked and how socially awkward he was and how cringe his humour was sometimes and I started wondering how did I ever cry for him ><
He was smart, not a whore and muscular tho so imma give him that.
My case wasn't romantic love but one of best friend who I clicked with greatly.
I lost all of it when I finally realised how toxic they were. Only saw it once another friend who got the same treatment from her told me and opened my eyes.
well we are in long distance and so im not really sure but im convinced he tells his friends about me and even came out and told me his friends also thinks im dumb and stupid i am. so him always calling me dumb , stupid and shouldn't be teaching and how much more intelligent and smarter they are then me.
Maybe it was all an illusion to begin with and you never "loved" them in the first place, you just thought you did? When you really love someone, you don't stop. When you're "in love", that can change in a heartbeat.
they never stopped... they just evolved into something else, we're good friends nowadays even great friends with some
we used to love each other, now we love to see the other doing great
She had escape plan weeks before she leaves and before she leave she was trying to hurt me in every damn possible evil way though I had damn bad time. It wasn't in my hands but I just don't feel in love anymore. Saw her 7 months later karma got her ass she was sick and had severe depression I offered help but she was acting bitchy I blocked her
when she kept cheating with numerous guys for 3 years and got engaged to a guy she only knew for 4 months when i proposed to her first. whatever trust i had with her went right out the window and things between me and her haven't been the same and may never be the same. i still get terrified just to even google search her name not knowing what the hell i may find
If you stop then you never loved them to begin with because I think love just happens once and when it does that’s the once and it never dies
Stuff it down. Get rid of everything they’ve given you, avoid them, and stuff those feelings way down. If they were a bad person, I mean. It’s a process for me rn.
I actually expected dislike on my comment lol so ty for the like.