Have you been rejected because you don’t own either a car or a driver’s license?

[scott04sa22]

[hahahmm]

Never tested that out.

To really test that out you'd have to go to a place with zero mass transit, zero uber and everything is spread out so to get to a bar/restaurant you have to go 20 miles down the road from her place. Then you'd find out if she favors you or the guy with a car.

[Bluemax]

No, because I have been in posession of both since I was 17.

[Medicalbug]

Some people have medical conditions that keep them from driving or they have anxiety at the thought of it, so It’s not on my list of deal breakers. Unless they are barred from it for criminal reasons, I can do the driving.

[scott04sa22]

I’m one of individuals who has a condition that prevents me from driving but I can still get around places fine from either walking, busses or services because I have someone from an private Agency who can drive me to some places like bmv, pharmacy pick ups or takes me to sit down restaurants or watches a movies or play video games with me. The person I’m seeing and who is assigned to me doesn’t treat me like shit.

[Medicalbug]

It’s great that you have this service - this case is precisely what I mean. I know someone with epilepsy who can’t drive and his girlfriend has always had the car and the role of driver. It is not something I see as an obstacle at all.

[scott04sa22]

Yeah but I don’t want her to always drive me a around. I want her to know that I’m fully independent

[Medicalbug]

That's not really super important for me either. I guess if I started dating someone who couldn't drive, I would just assume they were independent because they got around somehow before they met me. It's not something I would mull over. I'm not really afraid of being used as a chauffeur service? Lol. Of all the reasons a guy could be opportunistic, that would be very low on my list of suspicions.
But I do understand that if it has been an issue with women in the past, you might feel the need to "prove" it. I really hope you meet someone who honestly doesn't care.

[scott04sa22]

Maybe someday I’ll find someone if the time ever gets right.

[Medicalbug]

I know my stories of "it happens, I've seen it" probably don't help much, but I honestly hope you find someone and have the best of luck.

[designer1]

No but whoever rejects someone for this reason sounds superficial and also sounds like a waste of time.

[scott04sa22]

This is one of my common rejections I get from women because I’m unable to drive for life.

[designer1]

Oh ok so it’s more of them not wanting to have the responsibility of driving for the whole relationship. Dang I’m so sorry.

[scott04sa22]

I can still get around without a car or the need of help. I have services available to me.

[designer1]

Oh ok I see… so the women still have rejected u bc of this? Ugh that’s so annoying.

[scott04sa22]

It is but I’m used to it. They also don’t give me the chance for me to explain it.

[MartianBuddy]

No but it was a major issue for a girl I was dating. It's nice to just meet somone somewhere if they live 30min away. But I had to drive to pick her up, then drive to where we were going, then drive back to her house and back home again.
But where I live Uber isn't viable unless you live in the city (I don't) so it just makes things more difficult

[RedStiletto88]

I had my license at 17 but even when I didn’t have it it wasn’t an issue for guys.

[humanearth]

Many years ago I denied to buy a car because I didn't have a drivers license

[Redstang88]

Nope, had my license at 16 and was driving well before that

[jahaims]

No, I've owned a car and have had a drivers license since I legally could do both.

[Anonymous]

I have actually seen the other side, in major cities where you don't need a car at all. In one city the only reason women wanted me was because I rented out what was considered a "nice car" there

[dumbassmcgee]

For fraudulent voting? Or you want a rental? Nope. Can't say it happened. And it shouldn't.

[dumbassmcgee]

Something might tell me you are illegal. You make it happen. I could care less. Just be nice and humble and don't vote.

[dumbassmcgee]

And earn that shit. Earn it.

[CertifiedHandsomity]

He's talking about a DRIVER license, not just a regular ID

[Uptowngirl88]

No but I have and will reject a guy who doesn't have those things

[luvisrager]

Same!

[Bjitddry]

@luvisrager i live in nyc. Then again men don't ask me out any way

[Uptowngirl88]

@Bjitddry NYC is different most people have chauffeurs there.

[Uptowngirl88]

There might be an exception there

[Bjitddry]

We have public transportation. People who are rich have drivers i guess.

[luvisrager]

NYC is different… here in California it’s different

[Bjitddry]

@luvisrager everyone has a car?

[luvisrager]

Pretty much to get places a car is needed

[Bjitddry]

@luvisrager then i dont see anything wrpng with rejecting those "men".

[InYourHead]

No. But I do use public transportation

[Fuentes]

Minimize rejection and get you a car

[jamesgoldman]

No, I don't even get that far

[Anonymous]

No... I live in nyc lol

[SaoirseS]

Rejected for what?

[Still-alive]

for not being cool :P

[DatGuy_Shawnaay]

Nah.

[888theGreat]

I have and do