Have you ever been rejected by a crush because you don't own a car?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I've had a car since I was 17, so that's never really been an issue for me - but that doesn't mean that men aren't heavily pressured (generally) to have a car if they want a relationship. Virtually all of my girlfriends wanted me to drive all the time, for example. Even if my car was in the shop, I would usually drive her car when we went anywhere rather than her driving.

To be fair, I'm not especially good-looking so not having a car isn't ever going to be the big problem in my dating life... Lol.

TonyMetal___86 · Accepted Answer

Nope but if i didn't own a car and a crush rejected for it than i'll thank god for the rejection cause i don't wanna be with such a girl

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't turn down a guy for not having a car. But i dont drive so unless we’re ubering to eachother... 🤣 When in a relationship for at least a year, i’d help buy him one. I tried to buy the last one a car since he kept wasting his money on vacation cruises. But it bruised his ego for his woman to buy him a car so he kept turning it down saying it would make him feel emasculated. he's an idioy

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

My dating options decreased over 99% online when I said I did not drive but I said it was due to a medical condition and not low income.

MLGbreezy · Answer

No but I think it's a stupid reason. From a guys perspective this is something i often see girls list a reasoning for guys to have if the guys even wanna talk to them. First off your servely limiting yourself and second that is a stupid reason not to date someone. Not everyone's as fortunate to have a vehicle. I'm 22 and only just got my first car this passed summer and honestly the cost of getting the car was to high a price. The only reason I was even able to afford one was cause my dad passed due to covid and we got a bit of money so my mom used it to buy me and my brother a car or else we would've had so many issues. But this day and age with Uber and Lyft and for something like dating a car as a requirement is just dumb. Man or woman doesn't matter which is asking.

The_Maphio · Answer

Uhm, trying to find a reason of why someone might do that for such a reason and I came up with a theory.
They probably endured for a while, but got bored and annoyed of acting as your personal taxi driver whenever you need to move around.
I do believe that if you had a boyfriend you'd ask him to drag you around rather than your parents.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

A woman can reject you for a number of reasons. Not all guys opening line is" i have a car" but if it does come up in conversation just be honest. I never say what i have because id rather pull it out when i need to use it, weather its a car or watch.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Not by a crush no,

but I once when dating I borrowed my ex wife’s car, some small thing lol

my date pretty much turned her nose up not at me, but ‘my’ car lol.

she did not return any calls etc, so thought pot with it.

then she saw me in my actual car lol, and started showing interest lol

MCheetah · Answer

Yes. And I lived in a city that didn't require a car whatsoever and had $200-250 a month auto insurance rates. It was stupid to own a car there unless you had a family. Meaning, the girls who rejected men for such a reason were stupid.

ZackBan · Answer

I've always had a car and even a BMW in recent years but it's never done me any favors with charming women. This generation doesn't see cars as such big deal anymore

Anon621 · Answer

As far as I am aware up to this moment I have never had anybody that has had a crush on me and at the same time I have never truly had a crush on someone else despite not having a car.

Kaneki05 · Answer

I have no intrest in owning car and probably never will own one. So i'll be glad i would dodge all the people who would be that weird.

Punkbuster107 · Answer

The question you SHOULD be asking me is “Have you ever been crushed by a car because you don’t reject?”

Anonymous · Answer

I rejected guys when I was in high school for not having a car. But that’s only because I didn’t have a car and there was barely any where to go have sex or make out. So if u was trying to hit u better have a car back then.

Jesus_is_the_guey · Answer

Yea when I was younger I didn’t have mommy and daddy money so it wasn’t until I was 19 that I finally had a car also reject as in date hooking up was for some reason still ok

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

I've been rejected by A lot of women. Before I had a car and after I had a car. Before I had my own place and after I had my own place. I had one woman reject me because of the type of car I drove

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Nope. Not even by my then 16 year old girlfriend who did have a car and license when I was 15. Granted once I turned 16 I too was licensed and had wheels.

HawkPerception · Answer

They wouldn't be my crush if they judged people like that.

serious · Answer

No. I never tried and so there is no question of rejection also.

blondfrog · Answer

How do you know that's why they rejected you? lol and if someone rejects me cause of that then screw them anyways.

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

Nope. Not once, but if there's one thing I can say for my country it is that we aren't shallow like that here.

exitseven · Answer

I have owned a car most of my life but I could see the difficulty in having my mother drive me around on dates at my age.

laraWM · Answer

No, it would be really offending and then not a good idea to stay with that kind of people

rjroy3 · Answer

Never. But I've also always had a car since I got my permit at 15.

alance99 · Answer

Never but its a lame reason to reject somebody infact i would call that person materialistic

REALSTEEL · Answer

no never had that problem my problem was too shy to approach a female not that im older it dont bother me

jamesgoldman · Answer

It hasn't happened to me but equally I haven't tried dating since I would have been eligible to drive not that I can due to my health

Anonymous · Answer

No but I’ve been rejected for being unemployed at the time. I tried my best to keep it a secret because we were both vibing so well together, but my douchebag “friend” told her and after that she slowly started slippin away.

msc545 · Answer

It's never happened to me. I've owned a car since I was age 16 and right now I own three cars. However, I get rejected a lot for other reasons.

pokerbot · Answer

I've had a car since way back, so no. It's not hard to buy a car, it's running one that kills you financially.

K-I-S-S · Answer

For not owning a motorbike yet. So it's pretty close.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Thank God, no; any man who has experienced this has been dating a child and not a grown woman.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

Wow, that eould have been an instant "remove crush and forget shallow bitch ever existed" :)

Pogi-Paddy-2 · Answer

Yup many times, kinda sucks when they don't take into fact that some guys have vision impairments.☯️

Anonymous · Answer

I’ve always had a car, since 16. Never a nice one tho

Iron_Man · Answer

No I was 10 years old and the girl come around eventually anyway

legalboxers · Answer

Mine mocked me because I didn't drive a BMW. I drive a Nissan Murano. Sorry Im not made out of money

Nazgol · Answer

No. It's the other way around , the guy should have one

OddBeMe · Answer

I’ve been rejected by bitches looking for free drinks and alike.

Waldoe · Answer

I have always owned a car... It was attached to my pacifier when I was an infant

JamieLoves · Answer

No.. I’ve Always owned incredible cars. Funny.. My X wife didn’t even like my car !

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I would not even attempt to date if I didn't own a car.

Joshua0213 · Answer

Yeah once in highschool, although still hooked up with her for thr night but no relationship rip

Wild_Surpise · Answer

I’ve always owned a car so I can’t say. I definitely wouldn’t reject a girl because she didn’t have a car. Especially if she was hot like you.

J9inva · Answer

I have always owned a car. I bought my first car 4 months before I got my license.

Anonymous · Answer

Yep. You want her ass. You gotta have that card, horsepower and lots and lots of Benjamin's

Anonymous · Answer

I’ve always owned a car so it’s never came up, been rejected for other things though

Anonymous · Answer

Yup, my biggest mistake was trying to get with someone like that though.

boggboss · Answer

Nope that would sound like dodging a bullet

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Oh no, I’ve been rejected cause of my looks.

wankiam · Answer

no but to be fair i have always owned several cars

babieg · Answer

Nope by the way that guy is so fine

MannySimms · Answer

If you drive a Maserati, you automatically win.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No. Lol. I've always had a car.

jasco · Answer

Nope but I can see why someone would

jahaims · Answer

Owned a car since I could drive so no

Nahid1707 · Answer

In my younger days perhaps

EaterPeter · Answer

I may have but don't know. How about you?

Luckycharms12 · Answer

When I was younger yes.

matthheww · Answer

This has not happened to me thankfully

itsdeaaa_94 · Answer

Lol no. Not for that reason. 😁

DaveToo · Answer

Nope

karaspara · Answer

No I haven’t

princeofromance · Answer

Yes!

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