
Yeah, I don't see why not
I would prefer not to for certain reasons
I'm currently dating/married to a cop
It depends on things
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You know I actually tried a few times to get a female cops phone numbers whenever I was on the trains or buses. I would approach a female cop and whisper her: "Okay officer here's the plan, I'm going to grab the rail pretending that I'm going for your gun, then I want you to twist my arm and Read Me My Rights and then slide me your phone number while you're putting the handcuffs on me". Some of the female cops laughed at my plan and told me not don't do. But seriously, I would love to have a female cop as my girlfriend and to Read Me My Rights in bed. She would say: "Babe you have the right to remain silent while I rock your reality."
I wanted to but she thought my past would reflect poorly on her so she set me aside.
And she doesn't didn't like chocolate so... good riddance.
Are you African American?
@DizzyDesii
Nope.
Have two black ex wives though
Oh she talked shit about their race or something? I just dont get what you mean by her not liking chocolate unless you meant the actual candy
@DizzyDesii
Inside thing.
I was trying to flirt with her. Her roommate let me into her apartment bedroom while she was traveling.
I put a Hershey's kiss in each pair of her panties in her pantie drawer.
When she came back I was going to say some corny line like "I hear you have something sweet and messy in your panties."
It did not go as planned.
She said chocolate made her nauseas.
Just my luck.
Lol i stopped eating chocolate after it broke me out in hives for the first time in 2019 🤣
@DizzyDesii
Ok... if a guy used a candy that you liked... and used that corny line how would you have reacted?
I’d play along for the moment just tomnot be a debbie downer. But i’d tell him a different dsy that I dislike that candy lol
@DizzyDesii yes
Cops in my country are mostly sleazy drug users, at least the ones I met or heard about. I don't need that kind of excitement in my life.
Besides while I can't blame cops for everything since they have to act within law... I find them rather unsuccessful at their job and often turning the other way when something bad is happening either for ideological reasons or out of fear of seeming racist.
For example when police in UK was aware for months that a muslim gang was raping children and they did nothing to stop it.
Nope. Too much political bullshit going on and i dont find men in uniform attractive anyways (unless he's a firefighter or baseball player). But i’d possibly date a private investigator/detective who doesn't put himself out there on the daily like cops have to
I actually dated someone in training to be a cop but he told me they’d have him on call a lot and i didn't like that. The lack of quality time wouldve turned me off as well
I was going to comment about the political bullshit, being an ex cop myself, but I can see where you are coming from and respect it. I know that it was not easy on my ex a lot of times.
@MrtoddsWildRide yea before the political stuff i considered it. But he was still going to be on call a lot or one of the people he arrested mightve come for his girlfriend/fam so i just rather not be apart of it
I get that. It's a hard thing to be with a cop.
@MrtoddsWildRide im still grateful for what all the good cops and military men do when protecting citizens. But im just not looking to date one
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I’m not into it. I have my reasons lol.
Although, ironically, I am dating a military guy which is similar, but different.
I got very close one time! Met her in a bar and actually, she was so naughty in spite of being a police officer. I was doing body shots of tequila off her breasts at her suggestion while she was acting like a borderline stripper. It actually made me a little bit shy with how forward and naughty she was. Maybe with all the police work she had to do through the day, she wanted to really berserk when she unwinded.
However, the prospect of becoming an item was probably out of the question as I was only visiting the city for a business trip. Yet I found the idea so interesting since I've been in a bit of friction with the law before (just little things like disorderly conduct). Maybe such a girlfriend would have helped me to become a more law-abiding citizen. I'm not sure about that one though. She was wild.
I was really shocked when she told me she's a police officer though. She wasn't in her uniform at the bar and she was the last person I'd ever imagine being a police officer.
Sure, if I like a guy because of the person he is, I wouldn't care what his occupation was. I would, however, be often worried for his safety. That might be the biggest problem.
Unless they look the other way for people they love or like then no.
Because I couldn't be with them for them to be like welp this illegal so you cannot do that. Whether it's a simple thing like watching stuff on a illegal website or more complex.
Same here. Maybe it's just my family and friends but I feel like everybody breaks the law somehow and on a yearly if not weekly basis. From speeding to recreational drugs, even my grandparents are not innocent. I would be down to date a cop as long as she's not going to call me in when I'm doing 80 in a 65.
So here is the deal, I have dated women whos parents are cops, and I am retired Soldier and veteran of 4 combat tours. So cops, soldiers and like have a very different perspective on morality when you are forced to confront traumatic things in your life. So we do not tend to be the most empathic types of people, when you have seen real pain and suffering in you life... survived it and endured.
No I would not date one, because given my experiences I would a person willing to proved that emotional support and have that degree of empathy for other in order to keep me balanced and grounded as a person. Literally I have no empathy for these whinners and complainers always finding excuses for themselves and talking about how hard it is for them... when honestly they have no fucking clue what its like to support and defend people... that whine and complain about how unfair life is... as you suit up for another day of real hell.
I’d probably be dating the cop before I knew they were a cop, because I often forget to ask what people do for work until later. But profession isn’t important to me, mostly they end up with similar jobs to my own simply because I meet them through work or work friends etc. I guess that plays a part too - my dates have usually been people from my own social circles, so it was never an interesting question to ask.
Yeah I would sort of have lol.
Im good friends with one and we just never really got to relationship stage.
she’s now CTSFO.

Meaningless acronym. Are we supposed to have any idea what that group of letters actually means?
@Miristheiss
Counter Terrorist Specialist Firearms Officer
@Miristheiss pretty much everyone I know understands what it means.
I guess foreign people won’t
I dated a cop.
He ended up cheating on me with 2 women officers and this whore that he knew.. all 3 on New Year's Eve.
Never answer your phone when you are cheating.. and if you do, hang up so your girl does not hear you fucking other women..
Maybe, but they need to stay out of my business if I did. They hold way too much power over me and I don't trust them not to abuse it if they get mad at me. Cops have done fucked up shit in the past.
I’ll forever think of Jlos movie Enough where her hubby was rich and could pay off cops to keep up with her. Lmao thats why i dont date the rich either 🤣
A cop may get you shot. People get revenge on cops families all the time
Saaaame! I dont even like dating ex military. Like yes they can be a sweetheart but when that ptsd or those nightmares kick in. Nah they might snap Like how Wolverine woke up in his dreams stabbing people. Im good over here. There are plenty of other women who like men in uniform although i dont
My best friend and absolute love was russian military. I had no issues with him, and thankfully we can understand and help each other with our issues.. but thats more of an aberration. I've seen stories of soldiers who have beaten and killed their families because they couldn't cope.
I tried dating one in the past and he suffered a lot of nightmares. He would scream in his sleep and i couldnt help him wake up. That was enough for me. And then i tried to befriend a military guy but he kept talking suicidal and trying to spill military secrets that i kept tellin him to shutup about because i refuse to know that shit and have the government after my ass.
Damn thats deep. But at least now we know what we do and dont want
Yeap, and still not at all enjoyable. You know they went through hell, you may even know what it was that makes them scream at night, make them afraid to go to sleep and resent waking up at dawn. All you can do is be there. And some times, that isn't safe. Don't even get me started on ptsd.. that's that's whole worse can of worms
*pulls up chair and grabs popcorn*
This could prove to be interesting.
I have done... to be fair she was still technically a trainee at the time (fully qualified now) ... We still get on though she has an unannouched parking violation that she never admitted to that I know about that hopefully is the equivalent to me having a get out of jail card on a monopoly board lol
Absolutely not. I don't want someone controlling me in real life, especially that someone being a woman. I hate BLM, but cops are control freaks and some of them are bullies, too. Too risky. Don't want to take the chance.
40% of cops wives and girlfriend report getting the sh*t beat out of them. Those are only the numbers brave enough to report anything. If that's you're thing, do it, but don't come crying when you have to crawl down the street with 10 broken bones and blood running out ever orifice.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8PUC1TDPe0oYes I would. I actually just told my sister I was thinking about asking a cop out but then chickened out. Divorce is not finalized yet so I'm gonna wait.
They see things that others don’t and on a regular basis. Not an easy job and effects a person. Knowing that. Yes. Still would have.
Yeaah I would and I already have been on a few dates, with a few men who were cops
No, I wouldn't have had a long term relationship or marriage with a lady cop.
I wouldn’t date them because they’re a policeman, you get good and bad people in the police but if he was a nice guy and we got along why not
It depends. As long as he's not biased or racist in any way and doesn't have a power trip then I could give him a chance.
Nope.
Mental horizon of many cops isn't adequate their huge egos. I couldn't pretend to take such person for too long seriously.
I would be a bit reluctant to be honest I’d be scared he would get hurt at work 😔 or if we had a bad relationship that he would intimidate me air my new partners
I did date a cop. It was 30 years ago. We met at a party.
Sure I would fuck the police literally😉 I would definitely date a lady cop man Cops no I would not
I know hundreds of cops. Even a lot of female cops. I would date them just like anyone else.
Currently doing so. Girlfriend became one over a year ago.
Not at all. I’d definitely not. The relationship would be stressful af
I would rather not. I have nothing against cops but I would prefer it if my partner would not put himself in danger constantly because of his job
VOTE E: I have, yes
And I learned some interesting things.
I'll bet. This is my theory: no one is innocent.
@zeitgeist057 That's a good one... you might be right :)
If they have good character I wouldn't mind but other wise I I wouldn't
My girl can't work for ''the System''
She'd be my declared adversary.
I spotted a couple a few years ago I wouldn't have minded getting it on with.
I would have, before police became the enthusiastic mercenary thug enforcers of unconstitutional COVID tyranny.
Now, if I see a cop being kicked to death…keep on walking.
with a few exceptions, career type does not matter.
Yes 😩 not to fetishize them or anything pero like when they got their whole a* uniform on and their built right and they just 😩 iykyk.
Haha. All i can say is that some Miami female cops are fuckin 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
😜😜😜😜
So long as their job stayed away from me? Sounds good.
I would, but only one of those short Latina ones. Currently got me a Mexican one who works in CDJ.
I couldn’t especially if their on the street wondering if she’ll return home that scare me more.
If she doesn't contact me frequently I would be terrified that she was killed though.
I wouldn't date someone that I might get a phonecall telling me that the person has died. :(
I would if I were single. I love the uniform! 😋
No, I don't like most cops. Even if she's nice, It would be a little emasculating.
Hell yeah. Cops are so hot. I'm their uniform fuck
Yeah I'd date a cop for sure.
Lady cop is kinda hot ngl.
I haven't met any I would that are single.
Yes, I would date a woman police officer
Hell no. They’re very corrupted people.
nope... I have enough stress in my life
I'm scared of cops, so no lmao.
Hard to trust them mfs
cop = on duty almost all day
no.
Only if she was hot and not super conservative.
I'm not sure we'd technically be allowed to date
Sure, girls in uniforms are kinda hot
I didn't. You dont shit where you eat..
Sure why not
Heeeeell no
I'd date a women regardless of her occupation
I don’t see why not
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