Would you date a police officer?

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I briefly dated one. Wasn't bad, but she had a temper.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not a female cop. Hell no. I think when women are given power like that especially over men a lot of them tend to use it in a wrong way. Don’t get me wrong some men abuse their power too, but a lot of women are vindictive so I’d think they’d use it in the wrong way more than men would especially toward men. I remember one time I was walking down the street, left my apartment cause my girl had hit me w a cast iron frying pan and tore my shirt. I had scratches on my chest that were bleeding. First person to arrive was a female cop followed by a male cop. Female cop tried to grill me like I was the aggressor. She’s like you know I can arrest you for domestic abuse. I said I didn’t do a damn thing. She’s like well you’re going to have to leave otherwise I’m going to arrest you. I said what did you think I was doing. That’s why I was walking down the street then you tell me to come back here. I think she would have arrested me if it had t been for the male cop there cause he could see what was going on.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Being a cop is tough and stressful job, and long you do it the more it affects you as a person.

I never knew a cop that did not totally self-identify as a cop, so they walk around all day with a badge and gun. And when they are off duty, they still have the badge and gun. Military and law enforcement are not just jobs they are lifestyles. And when you walk around all day seeing the worst humanity has to offer, it affects you and changes you in ways over time that you just do not see happening until it has. By that time, it is hard to walk yourself back to a place and time in which you were a different person, with a life full of different possibilities.

Chevy1_kb · Accepted Answer

no a would be to paraniod in some ways not to do certain things i do if i was in a relashionship with a police man to dodgy police men in uniform are so sexy looking especially if they have the looks to but I'm no thanks

Taniisokay · Accepted Answer

They have temper  as I heard. I will not involve marrying one that's a risky job let alone isn't remote one.

Avicenna · Answer

Hell no- under no circumstances would I do that.

katelynbrown123 · Answer

I wouldn't for the stress and paranoia of always wondering if he could get potentially hurt on the job or killed. It would be the exact same for someone who is in the military for me as well. I just couldn't handle it but I would feel a sense of security if I did date one either though.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I would certainly consider it if we had things in common. However I did go on a date with a lady who had been a police officer in the past but left it for another career. She was awful and we only had one date. I wouldn't judge them all off of her.

Lliam · Answer

No way. They work in a macho environment, deal with the dregs of society and suffer psychological trauma, have a sense of entitlement and often a god complex, are authoritarian, have anger issues, and can't be trusted. If you cross them, they can use their authority to wreck you.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Absolutely not!! Abnormal personalities enter law enforcement because they desire the monopoly on violence and get off on the authority LEOs have. These negativities only accelerate and augment once they've been on the job for a while because they continually deal with the worst of humanity and begin to become immune to it, or worse start to partake in the depravity and become egotistical vigilantes. They are arrogant, violent and a poor fit for long-term relationships because they have no coping skills other than threats and violence. NO WAY!!

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I would rather not create a relationship with a police officer, a soldier, or a bank/money transfer security... somehow increased death risk... is not really appealing to me...

420Rachel · Answer

Seems like everybody’s saying no. If I thought he seemed nice and I found him attractive, I’d get to know him at least. If we vibed we could see how things go, if we don’t connect or if I get any weird vibes or red flags from him though, I’m out.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I think I've answered this question before.
I've thought long and hard about this. I lean towards no, because I'm a soft and tender kind of guy and I know that I would shower my woman with sappy love on a daily basis. And that would make her soft as well. So she might let her guard down and get taken advantage of my some criminal who will murder her.
So that's why I think it's best that a police woman not date me. For her own safety.

Darkest-Knight · Answer

With 34 years working with police no I would not date one. They are entitled and can't be trusted.

jamesgoldman · Answer

No, with my family that would go down like a skinhead in a synagogue

Account · Answer

No, I would not.

Anonymous · Answer

I would, but only if she were dominant and could kick my ass in a real fight.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Nope, i would end up in jail pretty quickly.

CrabCakes11 · Answer

Absolutely not. I’d rather date a good person. Aka not a cop.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I would but if we're going to have a family my wife will not be a cop

Anonymous · Answer

No. You really want to date a woman who has a gun, been trained to use it and has the means to make you disappear?

NathanDavis · Answer

nope

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I wouldn't

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Fuck the police!

OtterMan68 · Answer

yes, if we had shared interests

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