Truthfully, I knew hundreds of cops. The vast majority were true public servants interested in enforcing the law and keeping people safe. However a good percentage of them had really bad personal lives. it seemed like half of them were divorced, some more than once. Cops have an expression about this. When you get divorced they say "he has one behind him" and if they get divorced for a second time they have "two behind him" etc.
My uncle had duty at the academy and he said that they always tell the female recruits to not date other cops. He said that they all do it anyway and they all regret it.
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Nah, her work schedule probably would not align with mine and if there were ever a problem, her colleagues would support her, not the truth.
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I would not want to date a police officer because it's a physical job meaning it's not something they can do their whole life and if they die on the job, I become a single mother having to raise the kids on my own without a man at home.
No, I'm sorry but that's just too risky. Their duty schedule can be very unpredictable and demanding and I do not want to be constantly worried about them getting shot or accidentally killing someone especially someone innocent. I am an overthinker so these thoughts will never let me relax. I do not want him to have enemies and then to show up at our door.
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Never did and I donât know if we would have that much in common, but I wouldnât make that a deal breaker.
(Autocorrect tried to change âwouldnâtâ into âreptilians.â Go figure!) Maybe, if they were one of the decent ones. I had a friend who was married to a cop and the one problem she had is he brought his work home with him. Cops deal with a lot of jerks and a lot of people don't like them, so every time he was in a bad mood, it affected her. They ended up getting divorced because he took it all out on her.
I can't say that all relationships would be like this, but I have seen cops do take a lot of stuff personal. I had a job in customer service once where we took complaints all day, and people cussed us out, and some even got violent.
I've known a couple of cops before and they had short fuses. If I had a job where people got an attitude with me all day, I'd probably be like that too!
If I ever dated on, she would have to treat me like a person and not one of her criminals.
As a man, I would never even think of dating/being with a cop. I'm a traditional dude. That means I protect my woman & my woman has sense to avoid unnecessary danger. It's hard to protect someone who is running all over town/county chasing bad guys and jumping into risky situations 5 times/day. I would also not consider a prison guard, a race car driver and so on.
Over the years I can recall being on a couple of dates with women who were police officers. I recall not really "clicking" with them. However that can go for anyone. So I wouldn't exclude them and I'd be open to meeting another one for sure.
Nope. My friend is a police officer and their schedule can be quite unpredictable and not to mention their jobs are dangerous. They are often getting into a lot of heavy incidents that could lead to them getting killed. I couldn't take the thought of my guy getting shot and killed while on duty.
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nope...
too much stress, risk and tension... some shifts can be too long and not consistent
I would just not want that constant thought of being wary that they could get killed or kill someone Looool hell no. Not only because I'm black but they will probably act on their job if they see me doing something wrong than just "let it slide". And if it goes like "the adventures of new christine" where Barb (wanda skyes) got arrested for being an immigrant... and that n*gga STILL TRIED TO ACT LIKE A GENTLEMAN WITH FEELINGS, i'm wasting my time with this idiot.
Not sure about this one, it would really depend on the person. I know some cops are really controlling and expect that in their regular life too. I would not be a fan then.
I probably would but I'm not sure that women should be police officers. Got the same concern over all these transwomen dominating women's sports. Maybe women aren't very strong, you know.
No primarily from knowing a few & if you recall the news few months back a female officer was fired after it came out she was screwing the entire force.
Thats how they all are. Iâm sure many other precincts puckered their sphincters when that news broke.
maybe, I just don't think the type of person that becomes a police officer is going to be the type that necessarily makes a good wife. She's probably going to be hard work.
Nope. I would hookup with one for the hilarity of actually fucking the police 😂
Of course I would, I'm trying to be one as well
Being able to relate to the unique challenges in the profession from an emotional standpoint is a massive plusFUCK NO. As much as women are already looking for victim scenarios today? No way in hell. Imagine me getting falsely accused of ANYTHING by a female cop. How would it go in court? Go on youtube and see how much lying and victim bullshit female cops all over the US are getting caught in and never go to jail. No way in HELL.
Yo you think she can fix my warrants?
Just kidding. I've never known a decent cop. They've always been dirtbags or rockstars. Guess I'd have a 50/50 shot. I'd give it a try just for the roleplay if nothing else.
sure, why not.
Hopefully she won't lose the keys to her handcuffs.I donât want to date anyone who is âon callâ nor has a job that could risk our familyâs safety. Yes they can protect us but theyâd always have some criminal looking for revenger
Yes for sure. I never had problems with the law or the police so why not. Plus though I work in a different field I´d still imagine making it work. So I don´t see a problem.
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