Would you date a police officer?

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exitseven · Accepted Answer

Truthfully, I knew hundreds of cops. The vast majority were true public servants interested in enforcing the law and keeping people safe. However a good percentage of them had really bad personal lives. it seemed like half of them were divorced, some more than once. Cops have an expression about this. When you get divorced they say "he has one behind him" and if they get divorced for a second time they have "two behind him" etc.

My uncle had duty at the academy and he said that they always tell the female recruits to not date other cops. He said that they all do it anyway and they all regret it.

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

Nah, her work schedule probably would not align with mine and if there were ever a problem, her colleagues would support her, not the truth.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would not want to date a police officer because it's a physical job meaning it's not something they can do their whole life and if they die on the job, I become a single mother having to raise the kids on my own without a man at home.

Genie23 · Answer

No, I'm sorry but that's just too risky. Their duty schedule can be very unpredictable and demanding and I do not want to be constantly worried about them getting shot or accidentally killing someone especially someone innocent. I am an overthinker so these thoughts will never let me relax. I do not want him to have enemies and then to show up at our door.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Never did and I don’t know if we would have that much in common, but I wouldn’t make that a deal breaker. (Autocorrect tried to change “wouldn’t” into “reptilians.” Go figure!)

Leapfrog00 · Answer

Maybe, if they were one of the decent ones. I had a friend who was married to a cop and the one problem she had is he brought his work home with him. Cops deal with a lot of jerks and a lot of people don't like them, so every time he was in a bad mood, it affected her. They ended up getting divorced because he took it all out on her.

I can't say that all relationships would be like this, but I have seen cops do take a lot of stuff personal. I had a job in customer service once where we took complaints all day, and people cussed us out, and some even got violent.

I've known a couple of cops before and they had short fuses. If I had a job where people got an attitude with me all day, I'd probably be like that too!

If I ever dated on, she would have to treat me like a person and not one of her criminals.

hahahmm · Answer

As a man, I would never even think of dating/being with a cop. I'm a traditional dude. That means I protect my woman & my woman has sense to avoid unnecessary danger. It's hard to protect someone who is running all over town/county chasing bad guys and jumping into risky situations 5 times/day. I would also not consider a prison guard, a race car driver and so on.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Over the years I can recall being on a couple of dates with women who were police officers. I recall not really "clicking" with them. However that can go for anyone. So I wouldn't exclude them and I'd be open to meeting another one for sure.

Simslover92 · Answer

Nope. My friend is a police officer and their schedule can be quite unpredictable and not to mention their jobs are dangerous. They are often getting into a lot of heavy incidents that could lead to them getting killed. I couldn't take the thought of my guy getting shot and killed while on duty.

NathanDavis · Answer

nope... too much stress, risk and tension... some shifts can be too long and not consistent I would just not want that constant thought of being wary that they could get killed or kill someone

Sour-rose · Answer

Looool hell no. Not only because I'm black but they will probably act on their job if they see me doing something wrong than just "let it slide". And if it goes like "the adventures of new christine" where Barb (wanda skyes) got arrested for being an immigrant... and that n*gga STILL TRIED TO ACT LIKE A GENTLEMAN WITH FEELINGS, i'm wasting my time with this idiot.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Not sure about this one, it would really depend on the person. I know some cops are really controlling and expect that in their regular life too. I would not be a fan then.

BungusHighFivePizza · Answer

I probably would but I'm not sure that women should be police officers. Got the same concern over all these transwomen dominating women's sports. Maybe women aren't very strong, you know.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

No primarily from knowing a few & if you recall the news few months back a female officer was fired after it came out she was screwing the entire force.

Thats how they all are. I’m sure many other precincts puckered their sphincters when that news broke.

Ben487 · Answer

maybe, I just don't think the type of person that becomes a police officer is going to be the type that necessarily makes a good wife. She's probably going to be hard work.

Rangers · Answer

Of course I would, I'm trying to be one as well Being able to relate to the unique challenges in the profession from an emotional standpoint is a massive plus

arodriguez664 · Answer

Nope. I would hookup with one for the hilarity of actually fucking the police 😂

ronaldo75 · Answer

FUCK NO. As much as women are already looking for victim scenarios today? No way in hell. Imagine me getting falsely accused of ANYTHING by a female cop. How would it go in court? Go on youtube and see how much lying and victim bullshit female cops all over the US are getting caught in and never go to jail. No way in HELL.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Yo you think she can fix my warrants?

Just kidding. I've never known a decent cop. They've always been dirtbags or rockstars. Guess I'd have a 50/50 shot. I'd give it a try just for the roleplay if nothing else.

Fireguy17 · Answer

sure, why not. Hopefully she won't lose the keys to her handcuffs.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I don’t want to date anyone who is “on call” nor has a job that could risk our family’s safety. Yes they can protect us but they’d always have some criminal looking for revenger

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes for sure. I never had problems with the law or the police so why not. Plus though I work in a different field I´d still imagine making it work. So I don´t see a problem.

FreyaRed · Answer

No. They are useful idiots sometimes but they are still idiots.

ZackBan · Answer

The job itself wouldn't be a turnoff nor a turnon.  If I connect with her on a personal level idc what she works as l

Sailormoon95 · Answer

I'm actually dating a police officer right now. Not bad.

convo_king89 · Answer

I’m might be arrested for having a naughty dirty mind. Cops are people tho but all we see them in getting people in trouble for doing their job.. which not exactly glamourous or unlike a nurse giving cpr to save a life.

RavVid · Answer

Not a police girl. Now a Navy Girl thats a different kettle of fish. They look great in their uniform and regulation hair knot.

richardcory · Answer

Maybe, but its not very likely we would be compatible with each other

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I respect them. But never been into uniform people.  I like nerds :)

EmmaMary · Answer

If I was single I see absolutely no reason why I wouldn't.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I probably wouldn't have any issues with it.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Probably not. That seems like it would be too stressful and when I am done with work I like to enjoy myself.

Christoff92 · Answer

That would be the day 😬

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I might. It depends. I'm not sure if a woman who has the personality to be a police officer would be compatible with my personality. But we'll see!

Unknown29 · Answer

Since I’m a man, no way. If I was a woman then yes. I don’t think women should be in combat roles, and that includes police.

Anonymous · Answer

I have a criminal record so I highly doubt a cop would want to😬

Red-Blaze · Answer

Dont see a reason not to at least where I live

Lliam · Answer

Not even if Hell was freezing over.

Anonymous · Answer

Masculine strong men are very attractive. I will definitely.

purplepoppy · Answer

Depends on the size of his truncheon

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, nothing against cops, I just am not attracted to the type of woman who would make a good cop, or even want to be one.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

A woman as a police officer? pshhh hard PASS

msc545 · Answer

No. Not friendly to non-cops, and unreasonably suspicious of anyone who isn't a cop.

LovingJo · Answer

Hmm, depends

Sparkie460 · Answer

If I was single, yes I would

Anonymous · Answer

If it is in her profile I will swipe left. If I find out later I will just tread carefully.

comekitty · Answer

If I was single, sure 🙂

CheeseMonster · Answer

I'd rather deepthroat a cactus. No.

electromagnetic · Answer

Probably in another life.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Nope.

SadyConfused1998 · Answer

Maybe if they are kind hearted

Agape93 · Answer

Nope. Not a fucking chance

Miristheiss · Answer

Casually? Maybe. Girlfriend or wife? No.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Already am.

LazerBean · Answer

Probably not.

Anpu23 · Answer

No I would not.

runnerboy · Answer

I'm way too young for that. Maybe when I'm older

Babygirl_S · Answer

No because he could die 🤷🏻‍♀️

OfDeath · Answer

No. I despise the police.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

If that pig is a real rebel!

collie22 · Answer

I would sounds interesting to me

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