Would you guys date a Trans-Girl if she was attractive and had a good personality and is actually feminine?

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MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Not gay. Not into men. So no.

Not to mention, very VERY few transwomen can "pass" as actual females, anyway. Usually just Thai ladyboys and that's it. Western transwomen almost always look like dudes in drag. Almost none of them are ever under six feet tall, either. So, no. Don't bother with this "feminine" nonsense; they ain't feminine. Not to mention, most transpeople aren't mentally stable enough to have "a good personality" either. They're usually just whiny, immature, entitled, and throw around buzzwords like "transphobic" whenever they don't get their way or someone doesn't kiss their ass.

I have met a few more "stable" transwomen on this site, but they seem like a rarity and I still wouldn't date them cause I'm not into dick or Y chromosomes. You can't shame straight men into being gay for you.

But hell, I wouldn't even date a non-straight biological woman, either. They have to be actual adult females, who are heterosexual and monogamous. Nothing else would be considered.

If you're a man and would date someone who is biologically a man, then you are literally not straight. Not at all. You're queer (homosexual, really), but straight men ONLY date biological straight women, and that is it. You can take that "pansexual" nonsense elsewhere, but the gay men on this post, as well as the "bi" label lesbians need to STOP trying to twist around what "heterosexual" means.

That's the thing that pisses me off the most! It's not enough that they get to be free to be as gay as they want, but they need to try to distort, mutate, and co-opt heterosexuality into being flamingly queer, as well.

VinnyMac · Accepted Answer

This is a very good question and I think soon there's going to be a time when the world will learn and grow in an attempt to better understand things they do not. There was a Trans woman I once met and if you didn't know her you would more than likely not even be aware. I used to work as a cashier and she often came through my till. I remember her always being happy, kind and polite. Being around her made other people feel good about themselves. She was in a loving relationship. Regardless of whether I knew she was Trans or not she was both beautiful on the outside and the inside. For those who couldn't see that or understand I think that It's something they ought to deal with rather than projecting their negative opinions on others. So in answering your question I believe I would. Many people lack understanding, but I think that if they're open to discovering more than what they're familiar with maybe, they'll learn to view things from more than one perspective.

I apologize I accidentally commented on the other guy's comment without realizing I'd clicked the wrong button.

I happen to find you very attractive. From your picture I cannot tell that you are Trans. In the photo I see a really sexy, alluring beautiful girl. I may not be single, but I do appreciate someone who is beautiful when I see them. Don't listen to the haters. Anyone who cannot express their feelings respectfully is someone who you need not let bother you. Stay true to yourself and do your best to not allow the hateful or negative comments from others bring you down. Who you are is what matters most ❤😊

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That's not you. I just did a reverse image search, and it came up in 'Yandex'.

cryscrys1 · Accepted Answer

Yes because fuck we take this life so serious we can literally die 5 hours later.. if I like them yes ofc Trans or not I don’t mind

MrOracle · Answer

No. I'm straight. I want nothing romantically/sexually to do with men - which is anyone who was born male.

I don't hate trans people - in fact, I want them to be happy and find love too. But neither do I owe them any physical or romantic attraction. I'm happy that some people feel differently about this, but I'm never going to change myself.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

I'm not sure how comfortable I'd be with that. But, all the same, I give ultimate respect for the Trans Women out there who are dedicated to the feminine lifestyle. Take the above image, for example, even though they're a biological male they're more feminine and dress better than most biological girls.

I've met some Trans Women and they were dressed extremely well, were classy, and had perfect hair and makeup. Most biological women these days have completely abandoned their femininity and dress/act/look like men. So, I give props to that, for sure. How embarrassing for biological women that Trans Women look way better than them.

virtue2332 · Answer

Ill be a man and admit I've seen plenty of girls that I was attracted to on dating sites that I found out were trans. It doesn't change my opinion of them being attractive. I also am secure enough in myself to say that I can find either sex attractive. The only difference is even though I may think a guy is attractive it's not sexual it's more of admiring traits I wish I had. Love everything about breast just don't want them attached to my body. A trans person is may blur that line and they deserve all the respect and happiness they can get. Where my mind is right now I would not date a trans girl because I'm ignorant when it comes to the trans community. The sexual attraction changes based on that ignorance.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I would have no problem at all going out with her or just hanging together. I don't think I'd get into it romantically, though. For me, it's kinda pointless. I want to have kids some day. If she had a uterus transplant and COULD have kids, we'll talk! Having sex with her, even without the transplant, MIGHT be a possibility, however, I fear that I'd actually HAVE to be IN love with her (or ANYONE), to be able to have sex with them. You'll find someone. I just hope it's not a tranny-chaser and you get someone that wants you for YOU!!

Anonymous · Answer

I mean, they LOOK appealing...

But then there's that obvious thought in the back of your head that (1) It's not a genuine female. Biological women have a different perspective and experience unique to their sex. A transwoman can ONLY act the role... and sometimes, they overdue it. Especially since their voices can be somewhat lower in pitch that they feel like they need to overcompensate. I can imagine it being distracting. Then there's (2) The sex being awkward... as you're either facing a "female" with a penis. Depending on the type of transwoman, it is either a girthy, monster penis, or a functionless, flaccid one that has been destroyed by an onslaught of hormone suppressants. OR one that has been surgically converted into a pseudo-vagina, or an inside-out penis.

And finally, (3) the inability to produce biological offspring. I would like to have my own kids, and I'd like for them to carry my genes.

Dontabesillybe · Answer

99.9% of the time, no... I am completely homophobic transphobe,

I thought I'd never say I'd ever bang a man or a trans, EVER

But surprisingly.. one time... There was this girl on YouTube called lady ora fit, who did naked body paintings, but I think she might be a trans by the look of her face, but her body is so damn hot, im not sure I'd care too much she was a man (if she is)
I feel gross asf saying that like I'm some fag, but damn her body is jus smoking... If she was a man. There's a chance I might actually have sex with "her" given the chanceI think it's an actual woman tho cos she seems to have all the parts and feminine looking feet

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

There’s no such thing as a “trans-person”. It doesn’t matter if he preserved his Pingas in a jar and gave himself an axe wound between his legs and says he’s a girl, he’s still a guy. It doesn’t matter if he cosplays as Alstofo , he’s still a guy. Who cares if he takes some weird pill to make his hips bigger, he’s still a dude. It’s irrelevant if he sounds like an anime waifu, he’s still a DUDE. Holy poop, fu-ing idiots. That’s like if you tried attaching boobs on a T-Rex.

WalkingInTheRain7 · Answer

No, because in essence, he can put up as much of an act as he wants, but at the end of the day, he isn't a woman, and never will be. It wouldn't be natural, or right to do. I would just be encouraging a self destructive and unnatural behavior that he was doing.

TheorionMage · Answer

Personally, 'No'... ask yourself 'what is the fundamental ROOT purpose of 'dating'?
To find a potential REPRODUCTIVE 'mate'.
I would also NOT 'date' a biologically-infertile TRUE female.

We could evolve a platonic friendship, but there's the limiter!

DonkeyDan · Answer

Honestly no, but more for the reason that I generally don't find the kind of over done up look of trans women, like they are trying to hard to look like a stunning woman, and I don't like that look in real women.
I'd also hate to find out she had a bigger dick than me 🤣🤣

Lliam · Answer

Absolutely not. I consider that counterfeit. If he doesn't have a uterus and overies, never menstruated, and achieved feminine looks through drugs and medical procedures, he's not a woman. Even if he got his genitals changed, his vagina would be merely cosmetic. It wouldn't be juicy and responsive.
I'm only into 100% authentic women.

OpenClose · Answer

Oh absolutely.

Though keep in mind, the main thing I'm not attracted to in men is the dick. So if she still has hers, I probably won't be down for much in the bedroom.

But he'll, I might give it a try anyway if she looks like the girl posted here. Might not like it, but would at least give it a try.

But there are a great many trans women who are unbelievably hot. So like, if others are too weirded out by the idea, it means more hot girls for me!

Wester1967 · Answer

No.. I date females with 2 X chromosomes. You're gonna have to go back in the womb and come out with XX if you want a date with me. Further, it costs multiple tens of thousands of dollars to go trans and thereby subsidize pharmaceutical company shareholders. I don't like rich boojy entitled MFers of either gender that enjoy acting sanctimonious and patronizing. I date working class women. Go Figure some stuff out.

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

The only realistic way this will happen is if I had no knowledge on it, which is possible all she would have to do is not tell me when it's decided to have sex, that's the only way I'd know, unless I see a lump in the pants which normally i look people in the face but sometimes it slips what what I say 🤷🏽

Juxtapose · Answer

I don't know, is she going to be some psycho who will block me as soon as I say I don't think puberty blockers should be standardized for all kids?

That legit happened to me yesterday. Sorry to say but the majority of you trans people are cultists and off your rockers.

GlassTop · Answer

Transgenderism is a mental disorder. It’s not something that should be encouraged or approved of. It’s time for society to stop playing these pronoun games and destroying young children’s minds with this peer pressure behavior. People are not born gay. They aren’t born wanting to be the opposite sex. They are taught and encouraged it by friends, and even their sick twisted family. It’s child abuse.

Tomatotom90 · Answer

Would you guys date a trans girl if and then lists of many reasons as to why you should consider lol.

How’s this, guys who like trans girls are really straight. So go fish for bi or gay guys to date, true Herero men only like biological women no matter how hard you attempt to deceive us through our sense of sight Satan.

Valso · Answer

This description matches my type exactly, so Yes - with a capital "Y"! There are a few trans women whose personalities I don't know what they are like but if I had the chance, I would at least try dating them. One of these trans women is Nicole Maines. I knew about her long before she became Dreamer on "Supergirl".

Anonymous · Answer

No and never. I don’t judge you for the decisions you made in your life. I got to admit you looked very convincing in that pic.

But just like you have a right to do what you want in your life I too have a right to my own preferences. That includes not wanting to date someone with the Y chromosome.

ZackBan · Answer

Nah I'm good.
I have no issues with how a person identifies as far as gender goes but I also cannot see past the fact that this is a biological man ans there's no point lying to myself into thinking otherwise

Anonymous · Answer

Would consider it, I'm dating the person not just the external packaging, I've dated Trans women while working overseas and they do try harder and take nothing for granted, they really work on the relationships they are in, unlike a lot of genetic women who take much for granted.

MuffinMachine · Answer

There are a lot of caveats in you’re question that are certainly subjective (attractive, feminine, good personality). Would I date someone with these qualities? Certainly. Would them being transgender effect my decision? Not any more than those other factors.

I am not attracted to masculine people in any kind of romantic way, not yet anyway. But I find transgender women equally attractive as any other women.

TruthBringer · Answer

You mean a man with mental issues? No. I date REAL women, not fabricated ones with a bunch of mental issues that got them to 'transition', to begin with.

Guy13 · Answer

Naaaahh. You have not seen hot girly men until you have been to Thailand. If I ever would it would have been there. Woman body plus guy package does not work

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Ha! No way. Too disgusting even to imagine let alone consider. I would date exclusively a fully heterosexual female who was actually born with a vagina and other lady parts; such a person ALONE can ever be considered feminine.

Andres77 · Answer

Was she born with a penis? Then no. You can sculpt shit into pottery and paint it... but it's still shit.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Well one of my friends is trans and I’ve been on a ‘date’ with her. yes would go on a date.

007kingifrit · Answer

no. there is nothing you liars could do to act like a real female. you can't get pregnant, you don't sound like women, you have adam's apples, your bones are wider

and your personalities are never the same as a woman's

_piotr · Answer

No. He is still a man, just made to look and sound like woman. I can be friends with "her" but not be a relationship partner.

genericname85 · Answer

no. because i'm sexually attracted to the female body. not to a male pretending to be a female. even if that male is very good at it and can actually fool me.

Mango-man · Answer

Never because I date for marriage and having kids of our own, which requires both XX and XY chromosomes.

Socialist · Answer

If she is actually feminine, I would give it a try. I mean, what's not like about an attractive girl

Anonymous · Answer

thats a hard no (though i switched to trans man since i ain't into women) to me that would just being lesbian with extra steps, and i'd rather just date a woman than a woman wannbe tryna be a man

Emii_Urashima · Answer

I am bisexual and I have several close friends who are trans girls, so yes I would.

SmokyOne · Answer

Nope. I'm straight. That means biological females are what I'm attracted to. No amount of hormones or surgeries can ever change that.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Nope. There's just something off about MtFs. It's not that they can't be pretty or feminine, there's just something missing.

Tyrael · Answer

I'm not sure, I'd have to actually get to know them and figure it out.

Berethor · Answer

The fact that she was born as a male is a huge turn off for me.

ComradeCarabao · Answer

True transsexual women are usually the MOST FEMININE women; on the other hand, autogynephiles (straight men trying to be "lesbians") are not feminine at all.

Wesj89 · Answer

I think it would be hard for a man to accept that she is a women. If they could do that comfortably then I sure. But I beleive most straight guys would find it hard.

AvaOneLasTime · Answer

If she has bigger dick than the guy, he wouldn't. :D

AndrésC64 · Answer

No. I don't want to be with someone who either still has a penis or had it cut off. And if they got it cut off I don't want a fake vagina. I don't like penises or fake vaginas.

Morning_Cereal · Answer

Holy crap that girl is a trans? Jeeeez I mean still no but temptation is max

Still-alive · Answer

Yes i would. Id have to hear her voice as well. The voice is important for me

Evan64 · Answer

Absolutely. I've found some trans models on instagram infinitely more attractive than the majority of biological women tbch!

Anonymous · Answer

Hell no. There are no attractive trans women by the way. Call me a trans phobe. I don’t care.

OddBeMe · Answer

I don’t know honestly. I’d wonder about anatomy. But I like people and value personality. So if there’s a connection I couldn’t say I wouldn’t try.

Anonymous · Answer

She would have to be completely passable, and not just some convincing act, but actually passable. Even then I wouldn’t commit to that person as a sole partner.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

The fact that "she's" trans doesn't change how I view "her" I'm still not dating a feminine man

Anonymous · Answer

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaabsolutely! So long as she's 100% feminine and passable, and doesn't have a man's voice. The girl in the pic looks great.

theelegantman · Answer

I love women so much and I'm still very hungry for women, so I never think about it.

notwoke · Answer

absolutely not. Cutting off your dick doesn't make you a woman, it makes you a moron who cut off your dick

Anonymous · Answer

It probably isn't well-received by a lot of people, but my romantic interest and my sexual interest differ. I'd be interested in sexual activity, but not in dating or marriage.

yepppp767 · Answer

Yes. I see transwomen as women but it would depend on how we get on and how compatible we are personality wise and sexually

Southcoastradwolf · Answer

Yes. My wife has a trans friend and she is so hot. I would fuck her all day long. I’ve spoken to my wife about it too

Anonymous · Answer

Not knowingly. Fortunately most trannies I've met are forthcoming about what they are. I think that's most guys fear. That one will trick them.

JohnK123 · Answer

Uhhh that’s a lot of girls saying they would… 🤣 dang

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Depends if the womans penis is bigger than mine. 🤣🤮

Deserter · Answer

No, it would be tempting though cause it's a mind trick and my brain would want to believe it.

Twalli · Answer

If she doesn't have a penis, I don't care if she used to.

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