Would you guys date a Trans-Girl if she was attractive and had a good personality and is actually feminine?

[Anonymous]

[MCheetah]

Not gay. Not into men. So no.

Not to mention, very VERY few transwomen can "pass" as actual females, anyway. Usually just Thai ladyboys and that's it. Western transwomen almost always look like dudes in drag. Almost none of them are ever under six feet tall, either. So, no. Don't bother with this "feminine" nonsense; they ain't feminine. Not to mention, most transpeople aren't mentally stable enough to have "a good personality" either. They're usually just whiny, immature, entitled, and throw around buzzwords like "transphobic" whenever they don't get their way or someone doesn't kiss their ass.

I have met a few more "stable" transwomen on this site, but they seem like a rarity and I still wouldn't date them cause I'm not into dick or Y chromosomes. You can't shame straight men into being gay for you.

But hell, I wouldn't even date a non-straight biological woman, either. They have to be actual adult females, who are heterosexual and monogamous. Nothing else would be considered.

If you're a man and would date someone who is biologically a man, then you are literally not straight. Not at all. You're queer (homosexual, really), but straight men ONLY date biological straight women, and that is it. You can take that "pansexual" nonsense elsewhere, but the gay men on this post, as well as the "bi" label lesbians need to STOP trying to twist around what "heterosexual" means.

That's the thing that pisses me off the most! It's not enough that they get to be free to be as gay as they want, but they need to try to distort, mutate, and co-opt heterosexuality into being flamingly queer, as well.

[SmokyOne]

I agree with 99%of what you said with the exception that straight men only date straight women. Heterosexuality is defined by what biological sex you're attracted to, not what the other person is. That may be your personal stance but as a man if I date a bisexual woman that doesn't change my straightness. Nor does it change hers.

[MCheetah]

@SmokyOne
We'll agree to disagree.

[SmokyOne]

Attempting to change the definition is doing the same thing they are by shifting language to fit their purpose. Like I said maybe it's"YOUR" thing but the literal definition says

adjective: heterosexual

(of a person) sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex.

Opposite:

homosexual

gay

involving or characterized by sexual attraction between people of the opposite sex.

There's no agreeing to disagree. You either accept the standard definition or apply your new definition to an entire group, and in the process begin acting just like them. Don't be childish. Your move.

[MCheetah]

@SmokyOne
Piss off. You can fuck all the lesbians you want, but it's still pansexual.
Get lost.

[SmokyOne]

Straight guys can't fuck lesbians. Lesbians don't like men.
I feel like you don't know what pansexual means..

Be mad more though?
I'm just asking you to hold yourself to a higher standard.

[MCheetah]

I already explained my position and how I feel about it.
Just because you want to fuck dykes doesn't change that.
Straight people aren't in the LGBT umbrella like you're trying to argue here.
I tried to end it right then and there, but I'm really not in the mood for this deviant bullshit from weirdos and freaks, especially when you try to claim anyone who doesn't think of heterosexual as having including lesbian-fucking is "unacceptable."
I won't deal with this again, so it's best we end it here.

[MCheetah]

@SmokyOne
I'm annoyed because you decided to start a bullshit argument with me by implying straight people have to be pansexual just because it's what YOU'RE into. I already stated my position, and I don't come on GAG to argue with people who are into perverted shit.

Had you not responded back with your "Don't be childish" shit because I, and most men, don't accept heterosexuality as being in the LGBT umbrella, we could've left it at that. You're a stranger on GAG, and you responded to MY opinion, with YOUR bullshit "current year" definition of what constitutes heterosexuality, which must including liking lesbians, apparently. I don't owe you anything, and I certainly don't need to disagree with your silly BS about wanting to screw gay women.

[MCheetah]

And pansexual means you'll fuck anyone, regardless of gender or sexuality.
Which is the only thing that would include your twisted definition of heterosexuality including the LGBT community, for what is obviously your own personal kink.

[VinnyMac]

This is a very good question and I think soon there's going to be a time when the world will learn and grow in an attempt to better understand things they do not. There was a Trans woman I once met and if you didn't know her you would more than likely not even be aware. I used to work as a cashier and she often came through my till. I remember her always being happy, kind and polite. Being around her made other people feel good about themselves. She was in a loving relationship. Regardless of whether I knew she was Trans or not she was both beautiful on the outside and the inside. For those who couldn't see that or understand I think that It's something they ought to deal with rather than projecting their negative opinions on others. So in answering your question I believe I would. Many people lack understanding, but I think that if they're open to discovering more than what they're familiar with maybe, they'll learn to view things from more than one perspective.

I apologize I accidentally commented on the other guy's comment without realizing I'd clicked the wrong button.

I happen to find you very attractive. From your picture I cannot tell that you are Trans. In the photo I see a really sexy, alluring beautiful girl. I may not be single, but I do appreciate someone who is beautiful when I see them. Don't listen to the haters. Anyone who cannot express their feelings respectfully is someone who you need not let bother you. Stay true to yourself and do your best to not allow the hateful or negative comments from others bring you down. Who you are is what matters most ❤😊

[Bel88]

You do realise that's probably not her in the photo, don't you?

[VinnyMac]

I guessI I never really gave that much thought and perhaps I should have more 🤔 . I've been fooled by fake pics and bots before and am far to gullible.

[Anonymous]

That's not you. I just did a reverse image search, and it came up in 'Yandex'.
https://yandex.com/images/search?cbir_id=2204757%2F-iRlkF1G8MBft65VwS9H2Q6452&source=collections&pos=0&rpt=imageview&img_url=https%3A%2F%2Farhivach.ng%2Fstorage%2Fa%2F0a%2Fa0a58c3b6f000ea63ba4863e07fbe93a.jpg&cbir_page=similar&url=https%3A%2F%2Favatars.mds.yandex.net%2Fget-images-cbir%2F2204757%2F-iRlkF1G8MBft65VwS9H2Q6452%2Forig

[Nachowedgie]

I don't think that was meant to be them, pretty sure it was meant to be an example

[Opinion Owner]

@Nachowedgie Then the person who asked the question could have written underneath the photo, "This is not me". It's not hard to do.

[Gflared]

you are dumb

[cryscrys1]

Yes because fuck we take this life so serious we can literally die 5 hours later.. if I like them yes ofc Trans or not I don’t mind

[MrOracle]

No. I'm straight. I want nothing romantically/sexually to do with men - which is anyone who was born male.

I don't hate trans people - in fact, I want them to be happy and find love too. But neither do I owe them any physical or romantic attraction. I'm happy that some people feel differently about this, but I'm never going to change myself.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

I'm not sure how comfortable I'd be with that. But, all the same, I give ultimate respect for the Trans Women out there who are dedicated to the feminine lifestyle. Take the above image, for example, even though they're a biological male they're more feminine and dress better than most biological girls.

I've met some Trans Women and they were dressed extremely well, were classy, and had perfect hair and makeup. Most biological women these days have completely abandoned their femininity and dress/act/look like men. So, I give props to that, for sure. How embarrassing for biological women that Trans Women look way better than them.

[virtue2332]

Ill be a man and admit I've seen plenty of girls that I was attracted to on dating sites that I found out were trans. It doesn't change my opinion of them being attractive. I also am secure enough in myself to say that I can find either sex attractive. The only difference is even though I may think a guy is attractive it's not sexual it's more of admiring traits I wish I had. Love everything about breast just don't want them attached to my body. A trans person is may blur that line and they deserve all the respect and happiness they can get. Where my mind is right now I would not date a trans girl because I'm ignorant when it comes to the trans community. The sexual attraction changes based on that ignorance.

[FunkyMonkee]

I would have no problem at all going out with her or just hanging together. I don't think I'd get into it romantically, though. For me, it's kinda pointless. I want to have kids some day. If she had a uterus transplant and COULD have kids, we'll talk! Having sex with her, even without the transplant, MIGHT be a possibility, however, I fear that I'd actually HAVE to be IN love with her (or ANYONE), to be able to have sex with them. You'll find someone. I just hope it's not a tranny-chaser and you get someone that wants you for YOU!!

[Anonymous]

I mean, they LOOK appealing...

But then there's that obvious thought in the back of your head that (1) It's not a genuine female. Biological women have a different perspective and experience unique to their sex. A transwoman can ONLY act the role... and sometimes, they overdue it. Especially since their voices can be somewhat lower in pitch that they feel like they need to overcompensate. I can imagine it being distracting. Then there's (2) The sex being awkward... as you're either facing a "female" with a penis. Depending on the type of transwoman, it is either a girthy, monster penis, or a functionless, flaccid one that has been destroyed by an onslaught of hormone suppressants. OR one that has been surgically converted into a pseudo-vagina, or an inside-out penis.

And finally, (3) the inability to produce biological offspring. I would like to have my own kids, and I'd like for them to carry my genes.

[Dontabesillybe]

99.9% of the time, no... I am completely homophobic transphobe,

I thought I'd never say I'd ever bang a man or a trans, EVER

But surprisingly.. one time... There was this girl on YouTube called lady ora fit, who did naked body paintings, but I think she might be a trans by the look of her face, but her body is so damn hot, im not sure I'd care too much she was a man (if she is)
I feel gross asf saying that like I'm some fag, but damn her body is jus smoking... If she was a man. There's a chance I might actually have sex with "her" given the chanceI think it's an actual woman tho cos she seems to have all the parts and feminine looking feet

[Dontabesillybe]

Look her up on YouTube. Best butt I've ever seen

[Dontabesillybe]

But all other trans are jus gross to me

[Dinosaursandanime65]

There’s no such thing as a “trans-person”. It doesn’t matter if he preserved his Pingas in a jar and gave himself an axe wound between his legs and says he’s a girl, he’s still a guy. It doesn’t matter if he cosplays as Alstofo , he’s still a guy. Who cares if he takes some weird pill to make his hips bigger, he’s still a dude. It’s irrelevant if he sounds like an anime waifu, he’s still a DUDE. Holy poop, fu-ing idiots. That’s like if you tried attaching boobs on a T-Rex.

[WalkingInTheRain7]

No, because in essence, he can put up as much of an act as he wants, but at the end of the day, he isn't a woman, and never will be. It wouldn't be natural, or right to do. I would just be encouraging a self destructive and unnatural behavior that he was doing.

[TheorionMage]

Personally, 'No'... ask yourself 'what is the fundamental ROOT purpose of 'dating'?
To find a potential REPRODUCTIVE 'mate'.
I would also NOT 'date' a biologically-infertile TRUE female.

We could evolve a platonic friendship, but there's the limiter!

[DonkeyDan]

Honestly no, but more for the reason that I generally don't find the kind of over done up look of trans women, like they are trying to hard to look like a stunning woman, and I don't like that look in real women.
I'd also hate to find out she had a bigger dick than me 🤣🤣

[Lliam]

Absolutely not. I consider that counterfeit. If he doesn't have a uterus and overies, never menstruated, and achieved feminine looks through drugs and medical procedures, he's not a woman. Even if he got his genitals changed, his vagina would be merely cosmetic. It wouldn't be juicy and responsive.
I'm only into 100% authentic women.

[OpenClose]

Oh absolutely.

Though keep in mind, the main thing I'm not attracted to in men is the dick. So if she still has hers, I probably won't be down for much in the bedroom.

But he'll, I might give it a try anyway if she looks like the girl posted here. Might not like it, but would at least give it a try.

But there are a great many trans women who are unbelievably hot. So like, if others are too weirded out by the idea, it means more hot girls for me!

[Wester1967]

No.. I date females with 2 X chromosomes. You're gonna have to go back in the womb and come out with XX if you want a date with me. Further, it costs multiple tens of thousands of dollars to go trans and thereby subsidize pharmaceutical company shareholders. I don't like rich boojy entitled MFers of either gender that enjoy acting sanctimonious and patronizing. I date working class women. Go Figure some stuff out.

[bingbongbangbung]

There are some intersex that pass off as a female but their chromosomes say otherwise

[TheMajesticKing777]

The only realistic way this will happen is if I had no knowledge on it, which is possible all she would have to do is not tell me when it's decided to have sex, that's the only way I'd know, unless I see a lump in the pants which normally i look people in the face but sometimes it slips what what I say 🤷🏽

[Juxtapose]

I don't know, is she going to be some psycho who will block me as soon as I say I don't think puberty blockers should be standardized for all kids?

That legit happened to me yesterday. Sorry to say but the majority of you trans people are cultists and off your rockers.

[zoomerboomer]

Lots of weird people out there.

But also lots of relatively normal folks.

I've found the weirdness of the eccentrics like the one you mentioned helps bring normal people together, even if their views don't align fully

[Juxtapose]

@zoomerboomer I'm kind of a weird guy myself, I just prefer people who can handle having a discussion without freaking out like a kid.

[GlassTop]

Transgenderism is a mental disorder. It’s not something that should be encouraged or approved of. It’s time for society to stop playing these pronoun games and destroying young children’s minds with this peer pressure behavior. People are not born gay. They aren’t born wanting to be the opposite sex. They are taught and encouraged it by friends, and even their sick twisted family. It’s child abuse.

[Tomatotom90]

Would you guys date a trans girl if and then lists of many reasons as to why you should consider lol.


How’s this, guys who like trans girls are really straight. So go fish for bi or gay guys to date, true Herero men only like biological women no matter how hard you attempt to deceive us through our sense of sight Satan.

[MCheetah]

"guys who like trans girls are really straight."

It's pathetic people gotta lie like this just to force other people to fit their worldview. So yeah, I agree with you. Transwomen should just go after gay men, like you said.

[Tomatotom90]

@MCheetah aren’t

[Tomatotom90]

@MCheetah if you had the ability to comprehend what you read you’d notice what my position was regardless of a typo

[MCheetah]

Except that I did when you said "True Herero men only like biological women no matter how hard you attempt to deceive us through our sense of sight Satan."

And I also even said "So yeah, I agree with you. Transwomen should just go after gay men, like you said."

The quote was implied to be what other people were saying; I never said it was your position. So maybe you should take your own advice and learn the ability to comprehend what other people type.

[Valso]

This description matches my type exactly, so Yes - with a capital "Y"! There are a few trans women whose personalities I don't know what they are like but if I had the chance, I would at least try dating them. One of these trans women is Nicole Maines. I knew about her long before she became Dreamer on "Supergirl".

[Anonymous]

No and never. I don’t judge you for the decisions you made in your life. I got to admit you looked very convincing in that pic.

But just like you have a right to do what you want in your life I too have a right to my own preferences. That includes not wanting to date someone with the Y chromosome.

[ZackBan]

Nah I'm good.
I have no issues with how a person identifies as far as gender goes but I also cannot see past the fact that this is a biological man ans there's no point lying to myself into thinking otherwise