And what did they say about it?
Have you ever had to ask your parents for permission to date someone outside of your race?
And what did they say about it?
Well I believe that that's my business and only my business whether my parents want me to or not I wouldn't care this is about me not about them if they didn't like it then they're going to have to get over it because I'm the one the chooses to be happy or sad and if this person makes me happy I'm going to go for it if my parents are not grown up enough to understand that well then it's going to have to be something they're going to have to live with until they do understand it from 1 to 16 years old they gave me excuse me my mom gave me a Foundation to build upon my two step dads we're part is that Foundation to now they raised me to be who I am until I moved out and in that first couple weeks I had chip away part of that Foundation and change a few things did I did not believe in that they were doing so with saying all the above no I have not nor would I ever and to be honest with you my mom is not like any girl that I've ever introduced her to and it got to be so funny because I could call it I would tell the girl that I was going to introduce you to what was going to happen and it would happen. I mean I got so good at it there was one time we're having a big family dinner and my brother had just got a new girlfriend and he called me up and asked me if I can go pick her up because he was running late instead of going home and getting ready he would just come straight over to my mom's house I said sure
When I picked up his girlfriend I told her watch what happens when we walk in the house my mom's going to think you are my girlfriend I'm going to introduce you just by your name I'm not going to tell her that you're my brother's girlfriend I'm just going to introduce you by your name and watch what she says or look at the look on her face start laughing and Isis but not until she does whatever it is she's going to do then I will tell her that you're my brother's girlfriend and she will love you she will be so embarrassed she will apologize and apologize and apologize but she will love you and that's what happened PS that end LOL
No girls outside my race existed at school or in the neighborhood, unless you consider girls of french, English, Dutch (got a little on my mom's side of the family) too be outside my German, Scotch, Irish, Dutch, race family.
We were all European Heinz 57s, not much racial diversity in those communities.
Thanks for MHG
Dating outside my race is frowned upon in my family. (I’m neither white nor black).
When I get older and become financially independent, I would date any decent guy of any race. My parents will have no say in that matter. All my family members except my dad and myself are racists. Not blatantly racist, but they’re prejudiced against people of other races. I hate racists with a passion, so.. if they have a problem with my (future) boyfriend just because he’s of other race, then they that’s their problem and not mine. I deserve happiness. 😊
**then that’s their problem**
I'm dating someone not of my race nor originally from my country. I didn't ask my parents specifically on those grounds, but of course I introduced him to them. They were completely fine with the decision. I am now engaged.
Congratulations ☺️
Awww! Thank you!! So kind of you. 😊
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I haven’t dated outside of my race (was never opposed to it, it’s literally something I didn’t even know people frowned upon), but I wouldn’t ask my parents permission? I’m an adult and I can do what I want and be with who I like, and if they were against it then I would seriously think differently about them. I don’t tolerate racism
No never have even though my dad would most likely have a problem with it. Luckily I don't care what people think and it's none of my parents business anyway.
No, I've dated a few different races. I didn't care what anybody thought.
I date guys outside my race but I've never asked permission to
When my grandparents was alive I was told if I date someone outside of my race. I’ll get disowned but since they’re deceased I can date anybody
Never had that problem since I'm mixed enough so everybody thought I was their race except full black. If my parents are racists then I would never ask their permission for anything because I don't trust racists
Didn't ask permission, but knew they wouldn't like 😣
I don't ever have to ask my parents permission for anything
Yes. They told me it’s wrong to date from the slave quarters, and I said fck you mom!
No because I never dated outside of my race nor would I.
Nope, who I date is not their business.
No but I found out later that my stepdad wasn’t too happy about me dating a black woman
Dang :/
How old are you really?
Do you really care about his disapproval? Does this hurt your relationship with her?
I’m 55 now but I was 30 when dating her , I found out 5 years ago from him because I have to deal with him more now since I’m divorced
What a shame he feels that way.
Yeah he’s kind of a bigot
Why would I ever ask that lol
No, I was an adult when I started to date.
Yeah, my dad hates Caucasian men, but idc.
i don't ask my parents who to date xD
What race are you Nd who do u wanna date
This is sort of a rhetorical question. Because I'm into this white guy and I'm wondering if his parents would have an issue with us dating..
Are you Latina? Asian?
Nope
Why does it matter?
If you have to, then your parents are racist.
This is sort of a rhetorical question. Because I'm into this white guy and I'm wondering if his parents would have an issue with us dating..
This makes sense because all other cultures are openly racist and it is wrong.
You should not have to ask.
Damn that breaks my heart
no, I did my own thing