I asked him for a friendship. He disagreed with my friendship request by mentioning that if it's a relationship only I should be with him. Why?

[Anonymous]

He said me never to talk with him again since he doesn't want friendship with me. He told that he will only talk to me if it's a relationship with me. Why is he doing like that?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Because he does not wait to be friends, he only wants a relationship. It’s pretty clear. But, whatever the context is, no one wants to just “be friends” when there’s a romantic attraction to someone.

[Asker]

I love him too

[Asker]

But I haven't said it to him yet

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Then tell him…

[Gordyshore]

He understands that he can't be your friend because he likes you too much. It doesn't feel good when you tell a guy who wants to be with you; that you only see him as a friend.

[Asker]

I love him too but I haven't said it to him yet

[Gordyshore]

That you love him?

[Asker]

I mean he was trying to propose me but I friendzoned him and he said me never to talk with him again and he doesn't see me as his friend. I know that he loves me, but I haven't said him yet and now after he told me to never talk with him again I'm thinking whether I can ever tell him again or not

[Gordyshore]

It doesn't hurt to try