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No you horny ass, if you sleep with other guys randomly, you are not worthy of your boyfriends loyalty
You obviously don't value those 5 years
It happens we are all human none of us are perfect regardless of what some other people might say. I say don't tell him and just learn from it and understand yourself better and why you did it
I’ve never cheated or been cheated on… that I know of…. If it was a mistake and would never happen again from my girlfriend…. I’d probably just rather know….
You can tell him by saying him sorry. In a relationship, to have more intimacy, you need to share everything with him and if he's a right person, he will forgive and accept you
No, as it did happen.
Just don't be such an asshat about it
If you hate him enough to cheat, then just leave, you don't deserve him.
Not all truths need to be told!
thats horrible
@johnyash1324 I'm just quoting Dr. Laura.
lol you guys drove this cheating bitch out of here.
Thing is, the truth gets revealed somehow, it's over, I'm calling it 🤷🏽
If you don’t face the consequences of your actions you haven’t learned from your mistake.
If you are that impulsive perhaps you are not ready for a relationship and should just play the field.
No no no NOPE, you gotta come here to Daddy
and receive your Spanking and then you can go back to your boy toy
Just another whore. As I always say, women don't deserve loyalty.
Well if it were reversed, what would you want him to do?
All bitches cheat. You're just like all the others. And like all the others, you will keep it to yourself every time. Until you find some other guy that you can convince to take you on full time.
Why is it that so many women hold themselves to a lower standard than they hold men with respect to cheating? Fucking trash.
Unnecessary comments? You cheated on your boyfriend, what else did you expect? You’re a complete moron.
You need to tell him so he will know what kind of person he is dealing with and make appropriate decisions based on that. If you didn't want answers you should not have posted this question.
Tell him. How would you feel if he did this to you?
She wouldn't know if he acts like her. There are (at least) two points to this:
1. You can't be close with someone you are lying to. Intimacy requires honesty. Lies create distance.
2. Someone deciding to be with you based on lies means they don't really love you, they just love the lie you are presenting to them, it's not the truth, therefore it's not true love. Only love of an illusion.
@zeitgeist057 this is too simplistic, and what he does not know, cannot hurt him
@SkipPerk guess you’ve never heard of STDs.
Update: Yes. A person better than you do not make that mistake
That may just the only one mistake but that mistake is a big problem.
Anger doesn’t justify cheating
He does deserve better.
Stabbing someone in the back isn't a mistake.
Doing it out of anger isn't a mistake or an excuse
If I were your boyfriend I would rather you be honest with me. If I felt it was an honest mistake I would work to get through it and keep the relationship going.
In other words, you would rather be an immature little girl than behave like an adult? Ok, good luck in your future relationships. You’re gonna need it.
It is not always right to decide or do something out of being annoyed. Next time take some time off once you cool down make a move and reason better. Buy now you need to tell him.
If it was physical, you should probably tell him. If it was I don't know, just harmless flirting/talking or whatever, it should be fine.
Can you pretend though? Thats the question and only you can answer that. The other person in the scenario…will they let you pretend it didn’t happen, or will they remind you?
Sounds like you already made your decision 😂😂 or this is a troll
Again, was very obvious you weren’t gonna tell him. But then again, 9/10 you are a male troll.
Everyone can make a mistake. It is learning from the mistakes that helped me.
You must be a mean person if you do such a thing in anger.
well there is better than you, there are women who wouldn't get angry and ruin a relationship out of anger.
have fun leaving gag, sorry the rest of the world isn't going to lie to you and pretend you're not a shit woman. truth hurts i guess
he deserves better than you. He should break up with you.
he will find out anyway and it will be over, so it doesn't matter if you tell him or not... you might as well walk away now
Your should give him a blowjob everyday for the rest of this life! You're welcome buddy 🥰😍
Why can't you tell him? I wouldn't end a relationship on a one time lapse especially if she tells me soon after it happened
Don't know him to tell what he deserves but i know you deserve to be single and alone until few years of succesful theraphy.
Ohhh honey i hope you can tell him it will make you 2 better. The Bible days the truth shall set you free if you dont it will ear you like cancer. He might get mad abd he should come back to you
I think you should not tell him for now only and only if you accept your mistake and try to mend it ,
But do confess your mistake after some time or when his mood is good
Nooooo! This does no good. This is selfish. Never tell him. It will feel bad, but it should feel bad.
It will always be on the back of your head. I think it won't end well for you both but tbh what did you think was gonna happen. Stop doing dumb shit when you are angry.
Just move on bring it up if he asks but otherwise I'd bury it
@update I wish you good luck
@Asker how come you no pick me for mho?
fuck you bitch we don't need people like you in this world
You probably should tell him if you have any conscience but you know how the old saying goes “once a cheater always a cheater”!!!
Amen, brother!
Truly betrayal is a so shit behavior. I think you should be honest. You should also explain why. lie always ends
You are scum. Everyone that says he deserves better is right and you can't handle the truth, so yeah please leave gag as you won't be missed.
Another L for women further degrading the way men see women.
It wasn’t a mistake. You knew what you did and you didn’t care
Can't learn from this if you don't know what your actions do to your boyfriend.
It depends, what was that issue that made you cheat him?
He does deserve better. There are plenty of people that go all their lives without cheating
Chances are you're not gonna tell him. You're also a flat out skank for doing that.
If you can live with yourself for what you did, I hope for his sake he doesn't stay with you
It's too bad you want to throw it all away by cheating, but be honest.
Love is done by actions. Cheating is a choice - a choice of which does not reflect love whatsoever, including the future.
You made a mistake and should own up to it, but making a mistake does not make you a bad person like some on here may have you think, we all mess up.
One of my ex cheated on me. I tried to take the high road. She did it again... i said f it... we broke up i b3come a hoe
Don't say anything, if you don't plan on doing it again.
Eventually you have to tell him. He won't talk to you for a while and never forget what happened but that's just what he will do.
How do you know what he would do
Don’t be afraid. Fear is no go
@Asker thought you were gonna leave gag
They’re always someone better no matter how good you think you are Imagine if he did that to you?
Now imagine he did that to you.