Do guys like nerdy girls as much as non nerdy ones?

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Is it a turn on or a turn off for a guy if the girl he likes is into nerdy hobbies like DnD, gaming, anime etc?

OpenClose · Accepted Answer

I strongly prefer them. I've tried dating non-nerdy girls and it just kinda falls flat. She wants to talk about some celebrity cheating on this celebrity and wants me to act the way she always imagined her Ken doll would act.

One of the best dates I had started with her talking about her research in microzoology. It quickly turned into talking about primate social hierarchies and talking about which primates would make good pets and which would make horrible ones. We decided Chimps would obviously make terrible pets. But Bonobos would be the worst. If you only had one bonobo, you wouldn't be like "I need to go walk my dog or she gets antsy", you would be like "I need to go rub one off for my bonobo or she'll have a panic attack."

Got some strange looks from other people in the restaurant with that conversation.

In my first relationship in college, we got into a conversation that started with me explaining vector calculus since she was considering taking the class, and her describing some calcium cycle that provides an internal mechanism for heartbeat.

Another girl I went out for lunch with, but only almost dated, started talking about what information theory has to say about death.

Like I'm sorry, but Kim K gossip and love triangle drama can go get shoved into a rocket and flown into the sun. Me and my future bae will lay out the trajectory. And one of us would be the first to note that it'll be easier to stop by Jupiter first.

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

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as to 'fantasy fodder' of exploring the erotic potential of the opportunity to provide a 'nerdy' girl the chance to surrender to her unexplored innate animal arousal. The 'trick' is not to merely arouse her concupiscence but to also KEEP it a 'joyride' she has ONLY fond memories of entrusting to your lecherous ministrations.

Few things are more "DELICIOUS" that to bear prurient witness to her 'losing her shit' wracked with
spasming muscular contractions in multiple climaxes.

An entire international 'fetish' of bus and train Asian 'Chikan' (obviously 'orchestrated') ... but the female/males participating can't 'fake' their body's innate intuitive responses squirting & in full climax or ejaculation.

Do some voyeuristic research and decide for yourself! You may learn some latent predispositions of your own~

IveGotNoName · Accepted Answer

Depends on the guy. I guess I would be considered a nerdy girl. I study astrophysics, I play magic the gathering and I work as a tutor on the side of my studies, but it kind of takes a nerd to like a nerd. What are you supposed to talk about otherwise? My boyfriend is a huge nerd too.

AvaOneLasTime · Accepted Answer

You can never know what or who you might be attracted to. So yea, they do. And different people can catch your attention and affection because of different qualities of their. Also, different people are impresses by different things, features, traits.

HighlyVolatile · Answer

Such a woman is not my type because I'm not so into D&D, gaming, anime, etc. That's not something we can enjoy so much together. I am a type of nerd though. Above all else, I'm a film and history nerd. So I like women who are film and history nerds. We can watch horror films and go to some Renaissance fair together.

With the negative implications of a nerd though like an absence of social skills, that's a major turn-off to me as an extrovert. That's like a NERD and not just someone who is nerdy. It's important to me that the girl is the type I can bring to parties (formal business parties as well as informal parties with friends) and she can enjoy it as much as I do.

Heartache0405 · Answer

I’m into nerdy things like d&d, urban fantasy books, open world video games, trading card games like mtg, Yu-Gi-Oh!, etc. Would be nice to have someone who also enjoys those things. Would give us plenty of things to do together. Unfortunately, I’m not interested in today’s women. I’m interested in women, don’t get me wrong. Just not today’s modern women. Even if they’re extremely nerdy and attractive at. Our values most likely will not aline

Guy13 · Answer

That’s not Nerdy. Nerdy is 1. engrossed in a book and foreign film on iPad simultaneously. 2. Proposes deep-thoughtful and often work or relational questions. 3. Crossword puzzles, with an unsharpened pencil in hair and one in hand to think and relax.
By This Time, all that 💩 is off the Couch and she’s living that Foreign film…and I punish her if she does not have the answer to the random question I ask her. Each letter comes with a Cost.
A guy can only take so much of Nerdy…

Anonymous · Answer

As a nerd myself, someone who understands why I don't care if this celebrity cheated on that one or why I don't care this guy slapped this guy or why I like to explain how internal stuff of computers to people when I'm sure no one is even listening (if they do, they don't understand anyway) sounds like a better option to me. so a turn on to me. The only possible turn off is the glasses, I just can't seem to like majority of the glasses girls wear but I'm sure I'm not doing to reject someone because I don't like the glasses.

AydenHazor · Answer

I also enjoy DnD and science fiction and fantasy genre film and literature, and am surrounded by gaming and anime friends, even if I don't participate in them as much myself, so I would absolutely be interested in a nerdy girl. It's often easier to find topics of conversation with nerdy girls that we both find of interest, though my default with just about anybody usually resorts to food lol

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Major turn on. I love "nerdy" girls. As a nerdy guy to us we don't have to hide our hobbies from you and be afraid of them. You understand us. If you're a nerdy girl you are a treasure and precious to us. We love you. Nerds usually idolize heroes and the code. We dream of that girl to love and protect. If you Storm mistress are a nerd girl live long and prosper, beautiful.

Berethor · Answer

Most guys don't care as long as they get sex from the girl.

Hulk30 · Answer

as a nerdy guy i for damn sure do and basically im single so you askin that as a nerdy girl hypothetically speakin as fine as ya are bein nerdy and into all that shit in that situation with you that would actually cause me to fuck the dog hell outta ya

MysticDevice · Answer

Turn off? I've been on the lookout for a girl who is into all that for YEARS. To no avail though. All the real nerdy chicks are like me: introverts who don't go out anywhere. So its hard to meet them.

gfedcba · Answer

Honestly, and this isn't my preference, but most men's reality - doesn't matter so long as she's pretty - if she's a pretty nerd she'll be "unique" or "quirky", if ugly a "weirdo" to anyone other than her social group

Thatbaldguy · Answer

Personally I would love to find a woman into nerdy things.

coolbreeze · Answer

Nerdy girls look cute. But each guy likes a certain type.

Toast792 · Answer

I like people who like what they like, and don't worry about other people's opinions on it. Otherwise they just look fake

CasuallySamsonite · Answer

Depends on the guy. Depends on the gal. Overall, never hurts in a relationship to have space and common interests.

AviatorTom · Answer

I'm a nerd and love nerdy girls, but she doesn't have to be a nerd.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Absofuckinglutely & chicks with glasses are foxy all the way.

NaultD · Answer

If anyone fits a single word description life is going to be hard. Branching out goes a long way.

BCA6010 · Answer

Generally a good thing at least when it's a shared interest.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

Absolutely. If she’s good looking and we get along then of course

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

Depends on the guy. If he is also into that sort of hobbies it would be a turn on.

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