Why are good looking Indian women unable to attract equally attractive white men?

[Babygirl_S]

Most of those guys would find the following ugly/not enough:

[KevVickinz]

Probably cos the white guys are in Britain Europe and USA, and Indian girls are in India.. So the white guys and Indian girls never cross or interact with each other... Indian girls are jus forgotton to us... Unless we actually go to india, inwhich case I'm very attracted to Indian girls, I think they're more attractive than white girls.. it's jus that they are in a country I will never go to

[TheorionMage]

The 'problem' lies with the Caucasian male, NOT the Indian female!
A wise woman 'plays' to her exotice allure~

[OlderAndWiser]

When I was in my early twenties, I worked at a mental health center and we had a psychiatric resident who was from India. She was BEAUTIFUL! And she had the attention of every single man who came near her!

[FilmGuy93]

So this is kind of a weird take but it seems like western society treats White and Latina women as status symbols, so there might be a subconscious question of self worth in each gender. Self worth, as in "I am this demographic, so I need to be happy with whatever I can get from that demographic." There's kind of a weird underlying social implication as a white person that if you date a POC, everybody kinda wonders why you didn't land another white person. That could just be a question of population percentages though; there are a lot more White people than any other demographic in America.

Something that I've noticed (I am a white guy) is that Indian/Asian women especially seem to view white skin as a sort of status symbol. Kind of like how black men, or really MOC in general view dating a white woman as a status symbol. So the result is that white men and women who date POC tend to have a lower bar to meet... if that makes any sense. So it's like a lower standard. I have never seen a white woman who dated MOC that I would say was a prize. It always seemed like the men were putting up with the white woman's crap more.

I've dated Indian women who are absolute knock-outs, even though I wouldn't say I'm anything special myself and that was basically a product of me being fetishized by WOC. So I've kind of fallen into a similar trap.

[Babygirl_S]

What is wrong with liking exotic pale skin? by the way I also like natural brown skin not fake tan or tanned skin in general. Also I think a lot of white people also have a fetish for light skin.

[FilmGuy93]

I never said there was anything wrong with it.

[Babygirl_S]

You said you were fetishised. They found you exotic.

[FilmGuy93]

Fetishization isn't just being attracted to the skintone though. There's another layer to it that got weird.

[Babygirl_S]

Another way of saying it is they found you exotic.

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, but the fetishism is when they also objectify and dehumanize you for that exotic skin.

[Kaamraj]

Most Indian women are in India, where we do not have many Caucasian men. If you consider Indian women who emigrate to the west then their first priority is to do what they are there for eg. study and get a good degree. Most of them want to settle down in the west. But there is a huge baggage of "honor" that they bring from their homeland. They should marry an Indian man in the west, belonging to the same language, religion, sect, and caste. There is a huge industry back in India that works to hook them up (arranged marriage) with such men who are abroad. Meaning both their families in India meet before even they do, and they exchange details, then ask their respective children to meet. Indian parents are famous for emotionally blackmailing their children especially when it comes to marriage. So there you go, most Indian women even those who are 2nd or 3rd generation US citizens or even 1st generation dont date to merely date but date to marry.

Another thing, their beauty is very transient. All those pictures you have shown are of movie stars. The average Indian woman, is beautiful only for a short time and thereafter because of bad genes, poor diet, lack of exercise, stress, etc. loses it very fast.

[ahmetakkaya]

There are a few hypotheses as to why this may be the case.

The first possibility is that Indian women simply do not appeal to white men as much as women of other ethnicities. This could be due to a number of factors, including differences in physical appearance, cultural backgrounds, or even the way that the two groups interact.

Another possibility is that white men perceive Indian women as being too "traditional" or conservative, and are not interested in dating someone who may not be as independent and liberated as they are. Indian women are often portrayed in the media as being meek and submissive, which may not be attractive to some white men.

Finally, it could be that white men feel that they have more opportunities to date women of other ethnicities, and do not see Indian women as being as desirable as women from other cultures. This could be due to the fact that Indian women are often stereotyped as being "shy" or "dem.

[Guy13]

I do not know what you and your Family are like. It is difficult for a white USA guy to fit into a Family design where the parents have so much Control. Money above all cost or hierarchical rating and Respect by Income Producing never bothered me. The religious and caste correlation can be difficult.
Almost all Indian woman that I knew were submissive, sweet, and tough.-That worked for me as I will lead properly. Unfortunately, they will listen and follow Father/Family before Spouse.-That’s not going to work with American Guy…. no matter how smokin ♨️ she is.

[n4meAL]

My guess is you are from India, not all white men are like that, and I see the beauty standards india if I'm not mistaken skin must be white even though in Europe or America it's not like that.

In Europe or America, many women want to have brown skin.
and my advice if you want to have a white partner is not to see things from a perspective on social media or the internet that is different from real life.

[n4meAL]

by the way i also have Asian blood (southeast asia to be precise) from my mother , i inherited my mother's black eyes although i want to have brown eyes like my father

[n4meAL]

and i used to even want have tan skin but that was then and now after i think white is better

[Babygirl_S]

Many white people prefer light skin.

[n4meAL]

it's different from women, women with brown skin are prettier but men with brown skin are not

[n4meAL]

after i thought maybe why indian women are unattractive it's just like world famous news that india is a dirty country so maybe people think women there are unattractive because of this, my friends usually say india as PRINDAPAN because they often do silly video things, and bad quality (we call it CRINGE) if you don't believe it search on youtube INDIAN CRINGE, and people like this are what make people think Indians are unattractive

[n4meAL]

I remember some time ago suddenly an Indian woman sent me messages and video calls me on Instagram, even though I don't know her

[n4meAL]

but honestly I would prefer Indian women to people in my area because I'm tired of seeing their faces

[HighValue]

I'd think it could be due to a difference in religion, the difficulties with you moving to their country where they would have to be completely responsible for supporting you for some time, the differences in food preferences (I personally seriously can't stand the smell of some types of Indian food and wouldn't want my house smelling like it often).

[Avicenna]

Well, I suspect the ones that want to date a particular white guy have no trouble doing so. But I suspect that a lot of white guys assume her family won't accept him/want her to marry someone else or assume the cultural or religious differences are too great.

[DaveToo]

I have two things that I require from any female I would presume to date.
1.) A brain so she can think for herself and make her own decisions.
2.) A vagina so that, well, it's just essential. I prefer no alterations on that part.
3.) I said two so there is no number 3.

[OctopusEars]

That was actually really funny

[DaveToo]

@OctopusEars Some of my comments are meant to be just that.

[Cuminginside]

A lot of them want to wait until after college to get married and that can frustrate many men although one recently told me when they go to college they're able to get away from their parents not the control but physically get away with their parents because their parents put so much guilt trips on them I'm very disappointed in you all the time.