Is he just not into me?

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy became exclusive in October last year. I go over to his a couple times a week and we just chill. And I even hang out with his friends as well. However, there’s been a couple things that makes me question if he even likes me. Apparently, on Halloween last year he went into a room with some girl and didn’t even tell her he’s exclusive with me. On New Years Eve, apparently he was flirting with one of the girls they went out with and called her “so lovely”. I was meant to come over after New Years and spend the night, and beforehand apparently he told all his friends he was with that he “couldn’t wait to get his balls drained tonight.” Is he even into me at all?

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+1 y

He has one ex girlfriend and he was really different with her and I just feel bad lol

[Guccigabbana18]

Sounds like he was cheating on you on Halloween.. and flirting on New Years before seeing you? Red flag. Probably is just not respectful of girls he’s with.

[Guccigabbana18]

Also saying you would drain his balls? Ew what kind of respectful man says that

[Asker]

Why would he already be cheating this early?

[Guccigabbana18]

Because he’s probably not committed to whatever you guys have going on, and doesn’t see it as that serious. You will find better, dump him

[megabamse]

Sounds like a asshole, dumb him

[Asker]

Why is he already cheating on me?

[megabamse]

How the hell would i know, i don't know the guy. But in your text he comes out as a complete idiot that have no interest in you. So dump him.

[Asker]

Thank u for your advice 👍🏻 It’s just weird to me that someone would become exclusive if they’re just gonna cheat. It’s like just be single then lol

[megabamse]

Some assholes are "exclusive" with someone just to have easy access to sex.

[Guccigabbana18]

Agree ^