Is he just not that into me?

[Lovesick40]

I am involved with a guy. Its a long distance relationship so much of our conversation is via text. When we connect its always responsive and intense, but in a good way. However, I would say 75% of the time I have to initiate conversation and sometimes I do not hear from him until the end of the day. Is this really a sign that he just isn't that into me or is this the difference between men and women and how we communicate? Should I stop initiating conversations and make him do it?

[DeltaRecon]

I don’t know how long you have been in a long distance relationship. Me having been in one with my wife before we got married was tough. It starts getting to the point you run out of things to talk about. Also he may be busy with work and his own life. If you want this relationship to last, letting communication go isn’t going to help in one bit. Keep communicating but also start talking and making the long distance relationship be not so long distance. Set up a goal with him. Communication is key in any relationship. He may feel the burden of this long distance. Been there and done that. Long distance sucks. I went through a rough patch and almost called it off myself because it seemed like there was no plan to end the long distance.

[boobliker]

sorry, but I could never do a long-distance relationship as I have never been strong enough to say no to sex when out for a drink or food.
So I would say to you look for a new man in your home town I have no idea how old you are but a good date place is the supermarket shop daily and use different shops and walk slow look and asking you will find it easy to find a new person to fill your life

[Mangospacho]

Generally speaking, if you have to ask, he’s not interested. He is probably bored and has no one else to talk with and you’re probably easy to talk with and he probably just enjoys talking to anyone. The fact that it’s long distance doesn’t help either.

[britishbby]

He could be busy but yeh stop making the first move and see what happens

[Wise4myage]

Yes, stop being the initiator and see how it goes.

[In_Trance]

Smh... move on