I went on 3 dates before making it official and exclusive with my boyfriend. We already had the intentions to be exclusive from the very beginning, we didn’t want to waste each others times.
Our first date was at a cafe and at a museum/park in our town. We first met up at the cafe, talked a bit. Then we decided to go to the park/museum and walk around and talk even more. It was a great way to get to know him and open up even more. The cafe really made it hard for us to talk and be able to laugh and be loud, so the park/museum was a great idea. It gives us more freedom to be ourselves.
It's up to him to decide. You can't protect him from danger. Just be the woman he wants to protect, that's the best you can do. Men decide what women get a relationship, women decide what man gets sex. You can't control his decision, just show him you're worth his time and effort
Lets say we communicate on daily basic and everything else is working fine "we are perfect match", maybe 2 dates. So I guess 1-2 weeks tops, hate to waste time :p
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What do you mean by "be together"? Are you talking about being exclusive or planning to get married? I really couldn't say for how long you should wait before being exclusive. It would depend on the dates and how well they went. I would say as far as a marriage goes, that you should be together at least a year and preferably living together. That's really the only way to truly get to know someone.
My last girlfriend and I... MANY YEARS AGO, met online. We didn't meet til months later which was on a Friday night. We were together again the next night. That was an entire weekend. By Sunday... it was official.
You are trying to quantify human bonding.
I don't think you should do that.
That would depend on how good you both are at communicating
Absolute fking minimum 3
I don't do this kind of thing before I'm married.
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