Assuming that these individuals don't know each other at all apart from what they learn about each other through the dates. Is there a minimum number of dates they should go on, and a maximum number whereby they obviously just don't like each other enough and are simply procrastinating on becoming exclusive and just staying in the dating stages?
TBH for men you should never be asking a woman if she wants to be in a committed relationship. For women it's not a number if dates but stages that you should be paying attention to.
There's no fixed number. I usually dated just one woman at a time, though I didn't consider that exclusive until several dates, when we both agreed to be exclusive.
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As many as it takes to feel exclusivity is what you want with that person. Obviously you don't want to push it or force it to feel a certain way but enough not to jump into quick.
If the first date goes well, we hit it off, and go on a second date soon after. And if the second date goes well, we are both really into each other, and we schedule a third, I quit dating other women and focus my time and attention on her.
By the third date, we were usually in a sexual relationship. If we fell into infatuation I stopped searching and was 100% loyal. And every one of my girlfriends was 100% loyal. I didn't date women who wanted to make the rounds with multiple dudes at the same time. They wanted exclusive relationships.
Why continue to search when you hit it off with someone you like a lot? That would be self sabotage.
Not that I expect her to do the same, but I typically don't date another girl till I figure out whether the one I'm dating is the best fit for me. I tend to take it one at a time. I just figure it's disrespectful to start something up with someone else while you are in the early stages of getting to know someone.
Guess I am just old-school that way.
There's no objective answer to this. but ill at least say there is a near objective 'too early' and that is don't be exclusive after the first couple dates at least.
But past that some may take a month others a year or longer. there's no set time.
Depends. If u go to 10 movie dates & not do much besides watch the movie together, u prolly don't know them very much. If u go on 1 long dinner & drinks date and talk through both ur whole life stories, you could maybe decide right then to commit the first step and be official dating.
s Really probably around 4 or 5 ish.
For me it's more commiting that I'm not going to date any one cause I like you and want to know you more!
Committed relationship like engaged is probably around 1 or 2 years! Like 2 or 3 dates a week 60ish?
We lost count after like 23. Now we do married dates together ☺️
When I dated a woman, if I wanted to have another date with her, I never asked another woman out on a date. I never dated more then one woman at a time. If she wanted to date others and me then I never asked her out again. It always worked well for me.
I think honestly if your asking someone out you shouldn't be dating anyone else. And well if you are you should be up front and honest about it. I just think being honest and all that is important. And even if you aren't officially dating I think you should be only with that one person.
i dont know the number im commenting because the photo depicted a white chick with a darkie.
Is there any white chick that isn't a retard that would actually go out with darkie?
theyre simian, they have none of the things chicks love. Nameky money and the shit that comes with money.
and by god do they stink.
dont even get me started on their inability to speak English properly because dat is really annoying
However many they want. I advise younger people to ship around. If you've dated a number of people then you should have an idea of what works for you.
As many as it takes for the female to be satisfied.
Yeah idk…really depends. I think exclusivity should be in effect once sex happens and official relationship status shouldn’t be far behind that. If no sex then it will take longer probs, maybe 3-4 weeks dating
As many as it does to convince them they desire exclusivity.
I don't know how many they "should" go on but all it takes for me is one to decide if there is any possibility of something more. So I know pretty early.
It varies. Chuck and Kay Smith met, got married six weeks later, and were married for 65 years. That is one extreme. For others it might takes months of dating.
Whenever they agree. My girlfriend and I just became after a couple of dates when we slept together. Most likely that night.
up to the womans feeling the more she's attracted the more she wants to get into a relationship the less attracted she is the less time she cares to be near them as she won't prioritize time for them.
I truly believe a woman/girl knows from the moment she sees a guy what she wants...
kinda like that old wives' tale about how a kiss tells a woman/girl all she needs to know.
I'll give it one-two months before we decide anything.
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