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I'd say after the first kiss.
I kissed my husband after our second date, it was a way to tell him that I was interested in him. I've never had the conversation of are we exclusive with any of my boyfriends.
I don't really like this game of are we steady or not. My friend dated a guy for 6 months and then she found out that he was dating other women but because she didn't state that she wanted to be exclusive with him he thought it was OK to mess around. Sure it can be seen as being her fault to some people but surely six months of being with her and he was still seeing other women, come on 😠.
I've always just put all of my effort into getting to know one person at a time.
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This is such a hard thing to really set a hard “deadline.” Everyone is different and it depends on age and maturity in many ways as well. I’ve dated before my boyfriend and I knew within a few dates that things would not work out. I would say however many dates it takes, with my boyfriend it took us about 3 weeks of dating before becoming “official.” It felt right and I knew it was the right decision. Listen to your gut, b honest and communicate with your partner. It will come 😊
It's hard to put in to a "number of dates", but probably at least 5-10. Really, it depends more on my "interviewing" her and what her answers are, plus observing her in different situations to make sure that her words match her actions. I figured out long ago that you can't change other people, so it's critically important to choose wisely at the very beginning.
How long that process takes is going to vary, but it's probably going to be at least a month or two of time, and a LOT of discussion. And often, those discussions will reveal serious incompatibilities, which means we go our separate ways or define limits to our expectations and don't intend to become "serious."
fuck dating and relationships! i'm skipping all the steps! i'm taking a drunk chick from a random bar to sign marriage papers at las vegas baby! just kidding lmao.
usually 5 to 10 dates, i've actually asked a filipina girl to be my girlfriend after our first date back in 2013, she said yes but turns out she just wanted to be with me for a green card and so we broke up.
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i hold strong values and for me it's not about a relationship commitment after dates, it's from the beginning of friendship. Holding a line between Dating and a relationship is where it goes wrong and how cheating occurs. Anyone who dates another whilst they are in a friendship with you and showing interest, they are showing to be fake and you shouldn't trust them at all. People who ignore the signs will be cheated on.
I don't date multiple people.
If I'm interest in someone, I will give them my full interest and attention so we can mutually determine whether it is going to work out or not.
I don't ever entertain the possibility of interacting with someone else, and if I find out the other person does, the interaction is over.
I personally don't believe in being interested in multiple people, and I'm not compatible with those who do.I would expect to be exclusive after the third date. Nobody needs to ask.
But if I agreed to go on a second date with someone, I wouldn't be seeing anyone else either. After 3 dates we should know if we want to have a relationship, or end it and move on.You talk about expectations around the 3rd date. By then you know if you like them or there is chemistry. I've always needed to be sexually monogamous, but I have openly dated a few girls at once. Last time it was hot and heavy with one, but just 1-2 dates with other girls before I committed.
I would look more for the connection and when it felt right. For exclusive nearly straight away no more than one or two. For serious dating I would start looking at things closely in that 3 to 6 month period - Settling down maybe after 18 months to 2 years.
It depends how well we "click" and if I feel the connection. Dates can go well, but maybe still don't feel a connection. And it's different with everyone, so there's not number set in stone. Also depends if I'm looking for a relationship to begin with or not. It could be the first date or two, or longer or never.
Well i believe that if both of you are happy with the way things are, then take things slow, dont rush love. If your partner, gender neutral, is urging you to have sex with them, then you maybe they are not the right person for you. If what you are looking for is a purely sexual relationship, then that's different, but if your looking for real love, take your time, there is no need to rush
None? three? Five? There is no proper answer because every part of people is different like I have asked people out and then we've gone on dates but then people can be a thing but not "going out " for ages before one of them asks the other. If this is a personal question, then I would advise that you give it 3, and then ask them yourself.
Dating is done to know a person well specially on emotional level ( physical level is irrelevant), as long as you get to know likes/dislikes. So this can happen even on your first date or more. Once you're comfortable with each like you're having fun and enjoying you can move to next level.
Well personally I never really dated so I went pretty straight from a friendship into a commited relationship every time. Therefore I would say... one? xD
I only date one person at a time. I don't have the energy or even the interest for more than one, but pretend in my head that I'm dating more than one, because if you don't show a woman she means nothing to you, then you mean nothing to her.
Probably between 3 and 5 but usually if things go well on first date I tend not to date anyone else other than the one I would be dating at that time... rather keep it simple and focus everything on one woman tbh
I didn’t go on any dates with my current boyfriend, I met him in Australia and he went back to Japan but we have been talking ever since, I never needed a date to be in a relationship with someone.
I assume that someone shouldn't date multiple people trying to decide. When you date someone, you clear things up. You either continue or inform its not gonna work and that its over.
Really I would have to know more about the girl before I could give a good answer. But if we like each other a lot, I might kind of hint around a bit and if I got a good feeling about it, I'd ask her what her feelings were about commitments.
I'd consider the time we've known each other more than how many dates have been in that time period. So after about a month of dating I would bring up exclusivity.
It's super dependent on the individual and our circumstance. Usually, I'd say it takes around a month. But if you're sure, it could be much less - and if you're not, it may take longer.
I met my current partner via a chat room close to 15 years ago. We chatted twice then we met twice. First was Friday night. Just going out for some fun and the next thing was a sleep over on Sunday. I sold my house and we are still together. So what you decide is the number you need. If you're wrong then you'll find out during the relationship. In the meantime you can have the best time of your life.
I wouldn't accept being in a relationship before at least 4-5 dates. Before that she's too desperate to get a boyfriend and trying to get a label for status or to hide her fear of being single.
One, I won't go out with any woman unless it's been established before hand the we are just friends.
I'm a loyal and serious man, I don't like having my time wasted and I won't waste any woman's time either.
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